well what can i say...
I'm from Virginia, an am 17 years old. i enjoy long walks on the beach, candle-light dinners, and lying about liking both.
i hope i can help a few people. if i can just help one, I'll consider my being on this site worthwhile. I can't necessarily guarantee that any advice i give will instantly help, and i won't promise that what i say will make you happy. i can however promise that what i say will be truthful, and that it is what i believe is the best course of action for you.
Website: my myspace
E-mail: nathan.pollock@verizon.net
Gender: Male
Location: good ol' RVA
Occupation: ice cream scooper
Age: 17
AIM: wsl607
Member Since: October 20, 2006
Answers: 32
Last Update: June 28, 2007
Visitors: 2321
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i love my boyfriend a lot and i lost my virginity to him, its just that when we have sex he only lasts about 5 min! EVERYTIME! and its usually always the same position, i want him to last longer and be more spontaneous/wild in bed.. yet i cant say anything or else ill make him feel bad!! how can i get him to loosen up and try different things!! please HELP! (link)
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de-sensitizing condoms.
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Well, for starters, I'm a freshman in high school (15/f). I like this guy in one of my classes, and he's really nice and we talk and all, but my problem is that he's a junior. I'm not worried about him using me or anything bad like that. I just don't know if he would consider going out with a freshman. Should I still go for him, or give up before I start? I'm probably going to go for him anyway, I just wanted to see what others think. (link)
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nothing wrong with a junior dating a freshman. its only about a 2 year age difference.
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I play soccer, and usually my position is like a midfielder, or halfback, defender.. stuff like that. mostly midfielder though. any tips on how I can get better? I'm 13, too.
Also, what are some tips for me cuz I'm auditioning for a play with requires dancing, and I havent gone to dance for like two years so I'm probably rusty. The callbacks are in a week, and what are some ways I can get somewhat better in time? like to become more flexible and get more in shape and stuff for it.
Thanks! (link)
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another thing you could do is watch a professional soccer game when ever you can. you can learn a lot about strategy by just watching what they do.
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okay none of the guys at my school have touched my boobs or anythign like that
..they are like cool and stuff but they are hung up on this girl i mean she doesn't even have bug boobs i mean i have D's and i really want that attention. i mean like my two best friends ((girls)) have seen both grabbes my boobs but i want guys to
what could i do for them to touch my boobs? (link)
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ummm..if it's that important to you ask them to.
but really, you should have more respect for yourself and not just let any guy touch you like that.
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I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help (link)
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if i had to make an educated guess, i'd say he has liked you, but was jut afraid. he probably was just getting some encouragement from his friend.
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I am 13/f and lately my mom has told me that i am acting weird. I dont like mushy stuff anymore (like...i think you are so lovely- example.) I dont like when people touch me and i dont like my grandam (well she gets on my nerves. ) I know this sounds mean but i dont know why i am doing it, it just happening. i get mad easier and sad and deppressed and i just dont know what to do so please, please tell me whats going on and how i can be better. (link)
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ah the awesomeness of teenage hormones...
this is all very normal for someone you're age. there's not really much you can do other then just finding stuff you enjoy and doing them (though i would not recommend drinking, drugs, and/or sex)
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If a guy you almost went out with and had sexual relations with has mood swings of liking you then talking shit about you still like you?
He literally know everything about me without me telling him and he always talks about how much he hates me and he calls me a whore. I don't understnad why he talks about me so much. I thought he might still ike me but I don't know.
What do you think? (link)
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I think what you need to consider is whether you want to be with a guy who's abusive or not. What is now verbal abuse could turn into more physical abuse later on down the road.
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my question is that I asked this one girl out on a bet, but not really a bet it was kind of weird. Like me and my friend both like loved these two girls, but I didn't ask a girl out in the class before so I thought it would be weird. So he said if I asked Mondea(her name) out will u ask kayla out. I agreed to it, but not on the bet because I was going to do it later in the week no matter what. But he just motivated me, so I did it. She said no, and ill get to the reason. Well before I asked her out we made the sort of bet. So my friend ask her out first (his now girlfriend), while this was happening I asked out the other girl. She was taking a while to respond and I wondered why. Now I know why, my friend said to the girl he asked out, I am asking you out on a bet, and this girl told the girl I was asking out so the girl I asked out said no basically. I had just founnd out today that my friend told his now girlfriend about the bet. So I came clean about the bet thing, that I truly do like her, which I do, and that I thought that I should do this because I needed to tell her coming from me. So what should I do now? She knows I like her since I told her, what do I do now??? (link)
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You can try talking to her, and telling her how you feel. Other then that there really isn't anything else you can do. If she doesn't listen/believe you, then that's that.
But again, talk to her about it, and be sincere, hopefully she'll listen to ya.
good luck buddy!
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there is this guy in my class ive known him for 2 years (almost) and i never thought i would like him alot and he has been sending me little signals but then he will just not wanna talk and stuff i dont know wot i like about him but i do i need help i neeeeeeeeeed him
confused n.z chick (15)
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It sounds like this guy may like you, but is just really nervous. It used to be the same way, I'd like a girl, and then I'd just get so nervous that i didn't even talk to her. My advice would be to start up conversations with him yourself and maybe flirt a bit with him. But don't go over board, because that will just scare him away.
I hope that helped.
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I have clever ideas for kissing me boyfriend, cuddling with him, or just clever, cute things to say to him. I have them in my head, however, when I go to say them I can't get the words out of my mouth! I seem to freeze up, I'm usually not nervous at all around him. How can I get over this? (link)
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well the easiest way is to get drunk, that would lower your inhibitions. but i don't advocate drinking to solve anything. the best thing you can probably do is just take a deep breath and do it, don't think, just do it.
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there is this guy
i really, really, really like him and i told one of my friends that i have a huge crush on him
now its really awkward in me P.E. class, which he is in, because i think she told him
now he is always looking back at me and turning to see me sometimes even showing off
how should i act?
wat should i do?
HELP!!! (link)
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flirt with him.
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I like this guy and i sent him a not asking if he likes me and he said yes and i no he does because his friend says he talks about me alot and really wants to go out with me. I really want to go out with him but i don't want to ask him and he's not very confident so i think he's afraid to ask me. Should I ask him and ever since he told me he's kinda of ignored me. Also we are 13 too. (link)
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if he won't ask you out, it's ok to ask him.
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