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i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
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So a bunch of my friends and I have decided that we don't want to go on our schools' senior trip after graduation. They're going "hiking though the mountains in Europe" (rolls eyes). And as fun as that sounds (I'm so not being sarcastic...), we want to be on our own and not with school chaperones. They duct tape our doors shut at night and we don't have co-ed hotel rooms. So, it's not going to be all that fun. I've been on school trips like that before and I don't care for them.


Now we need to come up with a place to go ourselves. We don't want to go to Europe because; well we've all been there and would rather go somewhere else. We also don't want to go to any sort of beaches. We can kick it at any beach we want during breaks and stuff. So does anyone have any suggestions? We need something exciting and somewhat "educational" (say the parents). Money isn't an issue as long as we can have fun.
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go to ausrtalia
go to deepest darkest africa
go to israel
go to china and learn to ride a bike like a chinese man


Im getting my hair dyed professionally and its going to cost me about $50. Assuming the hairdresser does a good job, how much should I tip? Thanks. (link)
at least ten percent, and if you really like it, maybe fifteen percent.


HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm obsessed with CSI Las Vegas!!!!!!!!! I know It's bloody, and gross, but it's the COOLEST show ever!!!! My mom hates when I watch it! What should I do? (link)
watch it when she is not around

i love that show too, but i kinda like the Miami CSI better, but rock on CSI lover!


Hey.
I had a serious question because I'm starting to feel all of these strange feelings. I'm 16/f.

I met this boy a couple months back & ever since have been completely happy. I've seriously never felt like this around anyone before. I wake up every morning just wishing that I was with him. & I try to spend every waking hour I can with him. I'm never usually like this, around boyfriends usually I'm shy & try to spend as little time as possible. But with him it's completely different.

I love talking to him, I love being with him, I love who I am around him. I was just wondering, does this seem like love?

Plus, usually with my relationships I wake up every morning thinking, "Why am I dating him? he's such a waste!" But I haven't had one negative feeling about him ever since I met him. He's so great.

So yeah, does this seem like love? Thanks lovelys. (link)
it may be love, but don't automatically assume it is. honestly, not trying to be all mushy or anything, but it sound more like love when you read the question over again. if you can't go a day without thinking about him and wanting to be with him, then yes, i will have to say it is like love.


what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball?? (link)
underwear


okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it? (link)
get straightening gel or hairspray


I am a 16 year old girl. i have never had sex or anything..so what could it mean if i have this pain rite about my "private part" on the left side. and i have been peeing a lot more at nite lately than i usually do. the pain isn't CONSTANT. it comes and goes, it feels kinda like a muscle pain, like it's not a very sharp pain, and it doesn't hurt that bad.. but i'm scared. if you can help me out, but need any more information, please let me know. i don't wanna have to tell anyone about this if i don't have to! (link)
it might be a kidney infection
go to a doctor and talk to him/her about the pain
and see what is going on
kidney infections are serious, so better to find out now instead of later


i've had the sameeee s/n for a really long time with my name in it & i'm looking for some more ideas. i can't come up with anything that i'll use for awhile.

-i'm tall/long legs
-brunette(but i already had a brunette s/n)
-i like fashion u kno, AE, af, hollister, ripped jeans, pearls, big sunglasses, purses
-i play basketball
-i like having fun
-i love my bf, family, & friends
-im in hs

idk stuff like that

thanks!! (link)
*insert bf's name here or abbreviate*bballfashionchic


I'm 13 and about to audition for a musical. We're supposed to prepare a song and a monologue. I've gone through an array of broadway songs. Finally, I listened to "Wishing You Were Somehow Hear Again" from the Phantom of the Opera. It's beautiful! But before I get the sheet music, I need to know; is it a difficult piece? Vocally demanding? I'm in a very advanced chorus, which means that I can sing a lot, but there's no real way of telling whether this song is too overreaching or not just by listening, you know? If anyone has had any experience with this piece, could I have a few tips?

And PLEASE do not say "go see a vocal teacher/go take a voice lesson/idk lol hope i helped." Even though I'm in an advanced chorus, I can't afford a voice lesson. I know that puts me at a disadvantage, but that's JUST LIFE.
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it all depends on your vocal range
if you have seen the movie, then you should know that emmy rossum has a very wide vocal range and that she is definently a soprano one
some of the notes are high, but if you are within that range, it shouldn't be hard to hit with some practice
maybe you should ask your chorus teacher to help you through
know the words and the notes then go in and ask for help
i hope that all goes well
and i also agree that it is a beautiful song


ok about a month ago i started talking to this guy from myspace that lives in the next town over. He is super sweet, everytime we talk he says, "hi beautiful" and i always get like butterflies in my stomach whenever i talk to him or think about him. Well last night a differnt guy from myspace started talking to me who lives in my town and after talking for a awhile he asked me out, which i said no to b/c we just started talking and caous ei like the other guy. the second guy is not as sweet but we have things in common. Now my question is whenever i talk to the first guy i get excited,buterflies in the stomach kinda feeling but i have a hard time talking to him, but with the second guy i didnt have that butterfli in the stomach feeling (well i did when he said, "u know what i like you")and i didnt have a hard time talking to him so why is this and which guy is it i should go for??

Thanks so much in advance!!

oh and im 16/f (link)
neither because you haven't met either one of them!


ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for four weeks and we havent kissed yet. i really want to kiss him but it will be his first kiss and i dont know how to do it. i want it to be special. we really only see each other at skool so wuts a good way to do this at skool so neither one of us is put in an akward situation? (link)
kiss him goodbye afterschool
try to do it when no one else is around too
that way, neither one of you will get embarassed


I'm 16, and my boyfriend who is 18 will have been going out for 2 months next Friday. I was wondering.. should I get him a card? Or buy him a present? Or should I just not do anything..just simply wish him happy anniversary? What do people usually do for their 2 month anivarserys? (link)
you do nothing
no offense but wait to wish him a happy anniversary when you have been together longer


i'm 15 (sophomore) and my boyfriend is 17 (junior). we've been dating for around a year and four months. lately, i've been getting SO annoyed of him. everything he does just pisses me off now? i see him almost everyday, except the days he doesn't work. he always asks me questions... he always thinks i'm going to break up with him.. i don't know what to do.. but i need to figure it out soon. he told me he wants to buy me a promise ring and i think it kind of scared me. i don't know if it's time to take a break or call it quits. but i know if i do break it off, i'll regret it.. someone help me.. i rate high! (link)
its time to give him the boot
i know that sounds mean, but its not meant that way at all
he is getting under skin and more than likely, yoi under his too
he is always asking questions because he probably noticed that a lot of the things that he is doing is bothering you
and he wants to know how long he still has with you
the thing about the promise ring, it is just an attempt to get you to stay with you
if you are really getting sick of him and almost all of the things that he is doing is bothering you, then it is time to part ways
a lot of people will say that this is just a rough spot, but a lot of the times these things don't work out.
i hope that things work out and that everything will smooth out


what do i get my boyfriend for christmas?? we've been together for about a year, and i want to get him something nice not just a shirt or something like that.
a little about him: he's a total goof.. likes hunting, racing, comedy.. he's really sweet but not super sappy... he is not a prep.. just a normal, average guy
anyone have any CREATIVE ideas? please help!!
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get him a Dane Cook CD
Dane Cook is a hilarious comedian
and your boyfriend will love it
he has two CDs out, and if you are willing, i would say, get your boyfriend both
they are awesome


Does water temperature affect how fast a nail rusts? I'm doing a science project and I can't find any pages on the subject. I would appriciate any help! (link)
no it doesn't
the only things that matters is the time


I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position? (link)
its not something to worry about
there is someone out there waiting for you right now, asking the same questions and wondering the same thing.
i know that people say that they 'love' their bf/gf but it is not really the love that you seek. it is more than a friendship love and that is why it doesn't last that long, if you know what i mean.
i have never been in love and i am almost 17. i don't think its something that i should worry about, even though i do. it is a thing that all people ask.
love is right at your doorstep, it is just waiting to be let in
hope i helped


My best friend had phone sex with my brother and she doesnt want me to be mad. Do I forgive and forget, or stay mad at her and forgive her eventually or stay mad at her forever??
Signed,
Grossed out (link)
ummm well, first of all, she shouldn't have done that. and even if she did, i don't think she should have told you. i think that is gross....eww...narsty.
anyway, i think that you should forgive her, but ask her not to do it again. even if your brother may want to. it is wrong for her to do that when you are not ok with it. and its just plain wrong anyway.


ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage (link)
get some type of moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. herbal essence is really good and so it sauve.


okay so am i so bored with life. I am sorry if this is geeky but its true. i want to live in a fantasy with dragons and stuff like that. if you read the book eragon or the sequel eldest thats what i want. i hate life b/c its boring and thats the only thing i really ever will want. first i want to know if there was ever any evidence that dragons were alive and if so by chance could a scientist make them live again by some cloning technology. if you have anything else you would like to add please halep. i am really serious abou this. (link)
dragons are not real
never have been and never will
you need to realize that life isn't always going to be what you want it to be
life changes and is hard
life is boring and then again exciting
i know that eragon and the eldest are really good books
but you need to learn to live in this day
don't put yourself into a world that is not real and totally shut out what is real
dragons are awesome, i agree, but they aren't real


how can i prevent my eyeshadow from creasing by the end of the day?
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don't use any




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