I'm 16 and a bruised member of the Sun Valley guard. I like rock climbing, camping, white water rafting, pretty much anything to do with the outside. Most of the time I'm at school, the rest I'm at guard or with the friends. I have a little brother that's 13, we pretend like we don't like each other, but really we're pretty tight. I tend to be my friends soundboard, so if you want someone to listen or if you want advice, talk to me! Signing out, Em'lee
Gender: Female
Location: Matthews, North Carolina
Occupation: Bertucci's
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 25
Last Update: November 21, 2004
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hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do? (link)
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Honey, by what you said it sounds like he has made it clear that he doesn't want to be anything more then friends. If you push him he may just stop talking to you completely. My advice: be his friend, be there for him, and when he's ready he'll realize that you are an awesome person and he may just want to be more the friends. But until then, don't try anything serious- just flirt like mad!
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot... (link)
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Hey honey, I have to say I went through the same thing with my current boyfriend. We had been dating for 4 months and broke up because we "grew apart". We ended up getting back together after 2 weeks, couldn't stand being apart. If you love this guy so much then why arn't you with him? Love is accepting the bad times with the good, this was just a bad. And about your "friend", if she's willing to take your ex that you dated for a year and tell him that you arn't friends any more she isn't much of a friend. My advice: forget your friend, tell your boy how you feel, and see what happens. Good luck!
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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Child I'm going through the same thing, don't worry about what your friends think. They just care about you, they don't think anyone is good enough for you. You can't just get them to stop, for me it took 4 months of going out with my bf before they realized that he wasn't going to go away just because of what they say. If it really gets to be to much maybe your friends really arn't as good "friends" as they should be. As for spending time with friends and boyfriend, have you tried dividing your time? Spend one day with your boyfriend then spend a day with your friends, if you can't deal with both- then deal with one at a time. Good luck!
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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance. (link)
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Rather to love and lost then to never love at all.
Sound familar? Honey don't call it off, if he caught your eye on the cruise then there must be something about him worth keeping around. Many long-distance relationships work out great! Even if it wasn't meant to be, at least you won't have the "what if I had stuck with it" nagging you later. Give it a shot and have fun!
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
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2 years is nothing honey, go for it! Tell him how you feel, you may have a new boyfriend on the way! Good luck, have fun!
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