Hello, my name is Christina, but my close friends and family call me Stina. I grew up with both my mom and dad as drug addicts. Thankfully, my dad quit, but my mom is still a drug addict. She used to be an alcholic, too, but she quit. I have one sister, and four brothers. I am the youngest. I dont really have a family, the only family I have, is my sister's family, and my boyfriend. We're planning on getting married one day. I am obcessed with dragons and the music groups Slipknot and Stone Sour. They're the only heroes I have besides God, my boyfriend and my sis and her family. I love to draw, sing, be with friends and family, to cuddle and to give big hugs, writing stories, poems and songs. I have a deep love for people and animals (especially dogs). Generally, I don't like people, because everytime I try to be nice, they give me dirty looks, but this is just some people. There are more better people out there. I love to help people, I find it very fun. I'm loyal, unique, loving and caring. Sometimes, people mistake me as being mean, and evil, or depressed. I'm the complete opposite. Although, sometimes I am rude and mean without meaning to be. I am very sarcastic, and I always stick up for the underdog. I always stand up for what I believe in, I speak my mind, without being rude about it. I'm nice until you f*** with me. That's basically it. Oh yeah, if any of you have a livejournal, look me up.
Dragonessfire01 :) laterz
E-mail: Dragonessfire01@yahoo.com
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Location: Bakersfield, CA
Occupation: None, but I want to be a psychologist or an animator.
Age: 18
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Okay, so first off...I'm a REALLY bad phone person.
I'm 16/f and a junior in highschool. (hes 18 and we dont go to school together...he doesnt go to school)
After about 5 months of little random hook-ups sometimes and "i like you's" then "i don't like you anymore's" (haha), i think things are starting to go SOMEWHERE with this guy.
but anyways....i get so nervous with phone and communication and stuff....and ill be thinking of a guy all day the next day after we hang out and i ujst get so nervous to make phone calls and stuff and i always just dont do it cause im nervous and then they feel like im not interested or i dont care and stuff...i really mess it up for myself
well i just hung out with this guy last night and things were actually going REALLY good for the first time in 5 months...like things were different...its a long story...but things were just really different and look9ing REALLY optomistic adn good...
and for the first time he was talking about actually taking me out to the movies caus ei said i hadnt seen a good one in forever and he siad...let me know when u find a good one and ill take you to the movie (because oyu see...i hang out with him a lot because his best friend alex is my really good friend and is dating my best friend kelsey so we always just chill at my house or sumthin and he coems up to bring alex up and stuff so we all just chill)
we never really went "out" anywhere...mostly just chilled at someones house...
so anyways...to make a long story short....i dont know what to do becuase i want to show him i care and i think about him a lot but i get so nervous with phone conversations and i suck at texting cause i never know what to say through a text conversation...
and we do have aim and im always on but im always away cause i just talk to whoever whenever i want adn ig et nervous to talk to him so i dont really ever
....i want to communicate and talk and have conversations with him somehow and show him i care and think about him and wanna talk to him....like last night after he left my house...i layed in bed and thought...it would be so cute if i just called him now and said...hi im going to sleep now but i just wanted to call to say goodnight adn sweet dreamsssss....
like i think of cute stuff like that and want to do it so bad but i just cant...i get so nervous...
but i def. need to show him i care and i think about him and im interested in him...i feel that my nervousness with talking to him makes him feel like im not itnerested because he just thinks i dont wanna talk to him and stuff...
hes the type of guy where he wants the girl he likes to show interest so he knows that she likes him back and stuff and he does his share of calling sometimes and hell say like, "k bye...feel free to call me whenever"...hell add that in and i want to so bad but i never do cause im too nervous
i dont expect him to do the calls or texts first anymore because i need to first now, too to show him that i care about him and im itnerested...
yet i dont want to bombard him either
how can i communicate with him enough to show him i care about him and im itnerested in him and stuff and really make him realize that i do like him and how normal "crushes" talk to eachother when they really like eachother and stuff
i need like a little "schedule" so to say...like...text him when im in school and say _______ or text him and school and talk about______ then call him at night and then oine day text while im in school and just talk on aim at night...then the next couple days dont text as much but just come home and have a good aim convo and one night a good phone call...
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
if guys could answer this and tell me what they would like a girl to do to show interest and care but not too much but jsut enough that would be great
girls, too....you know that beginning stage with a guy where its like...you both like eachother and hang out and hook up a little and stuff and youre seeing eachother but not officially dating yet....what do you girls do with a guy then to communicate and stuff...how does it all work?
just for your information: we hung out last night along with kelsey and alex but we sorta spread apart and we just chill alone in my room or whatever...so things were going great and i texted him a little today but i never know what to say when im texting so i was just like hey whats up! and he just said nuthin and said hwat he was doing...and then i just said i was doin stuff all morning for my mom and then asked what he was doing today and then just asked if he was having band practice and then he said...i dont know i want to...and i asked about his two shows coming up and stuff and then i was just like im really craving taco bell but i need to have lasagna tonight cause people are coming over =[ (were all really random and silly all the time haha) and he was like...aww im sorry haha...and i said...its ok ill get thru it...and he wa slike ull get through what...and i was like...my craving for tacos hha...over your head...and he never said ne thing after that but anyways...that was all weve talked since last night so i dont know...he always mentioned for me to call him all the time or will jsut say...you never call me! and stuff...and its true...i never do...not cause i dont want to...cause im so nervous...i dont know what to do!
i need help cause i know for a fact things would work out so great and be so much better if this communication was better!
im ruining happiness with him for myself...
and i need help with gfetting over my whole phone conversation fear...i always just fear silences and i fear that what i say is boring or theres gonna be nothing else to talk about...i just dont wannabe boring...ugh HELP! (link)
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ok, first off, i would try to force myself. if you do call, tell him sorry for not being able to call. that you are nervous. if you want to show him that youre thinking of him, write him a list of reasons why you do like him and then give it to him. he sounds like a really nice guy, please dont lose him. ok? good luck and i hope that i helped.
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17/F
I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now, and i love him dearly. Nobody has ever cared about me like he has. We've hit our rough patches, but always manage to come back to each other. I trust him completely, and he trusts me. He goes to a private school and lives about 20 minutes from me. But this hasn't hindered much of the relationship.
However, at the beginning of our relationship i had met another guy from my own school, a year older. Since i met this kid (around december of last year) i've had a mini "crush" on him. We both showed quite the interest in each other. This year for some reason, it must have gotten back to him that i really had a little thing for him, and he is still interested in me but knows i have a boyfriend and respects that i'm off boundaries.
But now i'm crushed on the inside, but i know i shouldn't.. It's almost like when i think about this other kid, i feel like i'm single and i'm being rejected..
I love my boyfriend.. but this extra desire is driving me nuts and sometimes i feel really selfish and rude for even feeling these emotions...
how do i cope when i see this other boy everyday but my boyfriend isn't there to get my mind in line? (link)
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I'm not sure. just remember all the good times you've had together. remember your boyfriend maybe that will help. my boyfriend and i live 3 hours away, and were still going strong. You can do it girl! just if you love him, no obstacle will come in your way. good luck!
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Is there any way to put music in your library from your iPod..I don't know if I can or not..I have 2 songs that aren't in my library, and I want to put it in my library. Is there any way?
thanks a bunch. (link)
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i dont think there is... although, if you download limewire, you can download a free version of it and you can download the 2 songs youre thinking of into your library.
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If you was with your boyfriend like last week, and you guys madeout.. and you started getting a bump on your lip a few days later..like a coldsore? does that mean he's cheating on you? or he's not clean or something?
Well, I got one, I don't think it's one tho, cause I popped it and I think it's a pimple cause yeah, I don't know, I'm confused.
Is he cheating on me? (link)
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i dont know. my sister has very sensitive lips, and if someone touches her face, she will get one. so its probably because he isnt clean, or your lips are sensitive.
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my litle brother is 11, and he is trying to decide what he should wear for halloween?
PS. Dont say disney channel, hes more into watching mtv and vh1. But dont say really scary costumes. (link)
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if hes into horror movies, then get some of those types of costumes. they have jason costumes, chucky costumes, freddy, leather face (the texas chainsaw massacre), and probably some others.
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Hi my bestfriend smokes all the time, and sometimes drinks I think, well use to, but she smokes almost everyday, and probably 5 or more a day, and she's done it for a while.
I'm so scared for her, cause I know she's gonna have health problems in the future..but do you think something might happen soon since she smokes so much and so many a day..she's only 14. and I want to tell someone but I think her grandparents let her! and when she's with her mom, she sneaks when shes with her.
What do you think I should do?
Thanks to anyone who helps. (link)
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if i were you, i would ask her, as a friend, to stop. but i dont think that it will do much. my boyfriend smoked since he was 15 or 14. he is 18 now. but nothing tragic such as lung cancer or anything right now. dont worry
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okay so i'm a girl to start this off
oh by the way this is a really long and confusing question
I have a crush on this guy we will call B and he is one of my best friends. Apparently i am a really easy person to figure out because everyone knows i like him. so yesterday i was talking to B's best friend who we will call J on myspace and we get on the topic of B. J keeps telling B that i like him and i want to go out with him which is true but i don't want to tell him that because it might ruin my friendship with B. So J says 'nicole stop denying it everyone knows already that you like him so just admit it'. so i told J that i don't like B like that and if i did it wouldn't matter because he doesn't like me like that anyways. I already know that B doesn't like me like that because on day at school we were talking (Me, J, B, and M [another friend of mine only its a she]) and J was telling him to ask me out and B said 'ew i'm not going to ask her out she's too fat and ugly' right next to me. well anyways J says 'i know he doesn't like you but you like him'. so i pretty much hit rock bottom there and lost all hope of him liking me back so i kept denying it. then i started talking to another friend who i will call BE. BE also thinks i like B so she was bugging me about it too. she was saying things like 'are you guys bicolen now instead of nicole and B?' B said that he thinks that i don't like him and told me to to sent a bulletin that says that i don't like him and to leave him alone. well i didn't want to send the bulletin and J said that i won't send it because i like B which is true but i don't want to tell anyone it is. after that B logged off of myspace and J + BE started send bulletins that said stuff like 'nicole just admit it' and 'we know it and you know it so just say it already'. after a while other people got in on it and they were like 'Nicole likes B???' and 'whens the wedding' (which apparently is today) and stuff like that. i just got tired of being harassed with millions of bulletins, messages, and comments so i logged off. today i got online and B was saying 'what happened when i logged off?' and he messaged me asking for me to explain it and i said i will on monday at school.
so here is the actual question
what do i do? should i tell him that i like him even though i'm pretty sure he doesn't like me or should i just deny it more?
any advice is appreciated and thank you for reading through this really long thing. =) (link)
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well, you already tried denying it right?? lol Just tell him the truth. im sure everything will work out ok ;)
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How should I act towards my girlfriend when she sucks me. I am usually quiet, but she is too. I don't like just the awkward silence, how to get around it? What do you girls like to have said to you as you give someone a blowjob? (link)
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if she is doing a good job, tell her so. moan. tell her that she was amazing, then afterword, lay down with her and hold her and kiss her.
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I need good answers for the following questions:
Why do people divorce?
How can you prevent divorce?
What are signs of divorce?
When should you get a divorce, like in what situations?
Lastly, what are some statistics on divorce in 2007.
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In the United States, 49% of marriages end in divorce. Although, 82% of all married couples will reach thier fith wedding anniversary, only 52% will celebrate 15 years of marriage. The medium duration of first marriages that end in divorce is slightly less than eight years. Most people will wait until about three years after a divorce to re-marry. Most divorce proceedings will take aproximately one year to complete.
(btw: i got this from another site)
It takes two to work on marriage. And for some, it gets boring just being with one person. I think when the man/woman is getting abused, or just is treated badly, or are losing feelings and intrest in one another, etc. Thats when I believe a divorce should be neccessary.
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I got in a huge fight with my friend today because I was mad at her for ignoring me when she was with her other friends at this high school football game on Friday.
So then we were talking on MSN, and I told her that I didn't want anything bad to happen to her, and I told her to watch her back because I wouldn't trust her other friends. (Her friends are in the bad crowd at school - potential juvenile delinquents)
She blew it way out of proportion, told one of her other friends on MSN about what I said, putting it into her own words, and now her friend is pissed off at me because my friend said that I said bad stuff about her, when I didn't.
I am just really confused.
What should I do? (link)
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dont take this the wrong way, but i wouldnt put up with that if i were you. I would seriously look into finding better friends.
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i really want a lower back tatoos with something that has a rose in the design but i cant find any that looks like it'll fit my style. if you could help me find some pics i'd appreciate it! tnks (link)
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http://photobucket.com/images/tattoos%2520roses/
heres a link. just paste it in your adress bar
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is it true that going on the pill makes ur boobs bigger, my firend said when she went on it she moved up a cup size (link)
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The only way for your boobs to get bigger, is if you gain weight, get pregnant, or by surgury
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A guy goes into a drugstore to buy condoms.
"What size?" asks the clerk.
"Gee, I don't know."
"Go see Sophie in aisle 4." He goes over to see Sophie, who grabs him in the crotch, and yells, "Medium!" The guy is mortified! He hurries over to pay and leaves quickly.
Another guy comes in to buy condoms, and gets sent to Sophie in aisle 4. Sophie grabs him and yells, "Large!" The guy struts over to the register, pays, and leaves.
A high school kid comes in to buy condoms.
"What size?" The kid embarassedly says "I've never done this before. I don't know what size." The clerk sends him over to Sophie in aisle 4. She grabs him and yells "Clean up in aisle 4!"
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it means he came lol sorry
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k so peope have these syellar layout/backgrounds that arent the ones they provide. so like where do you guys get them?
p.s. please dont just tell me photpobucket or anything/ tell em how to get them on tha site. (link)
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I sure hope its myspace... :( well, get the code for the layout (in case you dont know you can go on google and type in "myspace layouts") and then paste it in your "about me" section
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okay i like this guy and he likes me too we were talking on the phone and we were getting to know eachother more and th conversation was going good but when i asked him how many exes he had and suddenly it took forever for him to answer that question he keep saying i forgot but he finally told me he had 7 and i jokingly called him a player and i think he said"im not" in a serious way and i was asking about his exes and he didnt want to talk about it how come he didnt want talk about it?
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he was probably in love and got hurt, and/or he doesnt like to talk bad about someone. unlike girls, guys arent in to gossiping.
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I want to get a tattoo... but I don't want to go to a tattoo shop becuase I don't want AIDs or any other STDs that can be passed on through needles. So is there anyway I could get a tattoo by myself? Like buy one off ebay? (link)
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umm... no. Tattoo places are EXTREMELY steril. They wear latex gloves and throw away any used ink and needles. Those places are very cautious. and no, you cant get them off of ebay. maybe ink, and fake tattoos though. But dont worry. Trust me, i want a tattoo too. :D
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Uhg!!! I'm so pissed off at my dad right now. See, my computer had the system32 error since for about 2 months and my parents haven't gotten around to taking it to a computer fixing person. Well, I told my dad SEVERAL TIMES that he shouldn't do the windows recovery thing because it'll delete everything on the computer and I NEED the stuff on my computer like all my homework, stories, pictures, etc. Things that are NOT replaceable!!!!!! I mean, I can't go to my teachers from last year and ask them to give me all the projects and translations from last year just so that I can retype it into my computer. And I can't rewrite the stories that were longer than 100 pages each. And I can't go back in time and take the same fucking pictures over again!
Well, my dad being fucking smart decided that since I haven't used my computer for 2 months, I didn't need the data on there and decided to go on with the windows recovery today. I'm so fucking mad at him. I mean I don't need them right this second but I am going to at the end of this year and the next two years for my IB tests and AP tests! The least he could've done was fucking ask me if he could do the recovery thing. But no. He doesn't care about shit.
Is there ANY chance of me being able to recover my files and stuff??????????? And do I have the right to be pissed off my dad majorely right now because I don't want my mom yelling at me for being pissed off at him when I don't need to be. (link)
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no, you can never get that stuff back... I'm sorry. But you do have a reason to be upset. Hell, I'd be mad too.
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How do get a picture on your web page on Adicers or what eva (link)
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on Advicenators? umm... along the side of your site, you will see, "welcome (your login)". Then go to "edit your profile", and go down until you get to "Part 3: Stuff we show to everyone". Then a little under that you will see, "URL of a picture of you". If you need to know how to get a URL, then get a digital camra, if you have one, and then obviously take a picture of yourself. Well it needs a USB cable to plug into the tower of your computer. once you download your pictures to it, go to "Browse" and your pictures should be in there somewhere.
good luck! :D
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I've been so tired for a little over a week...almost constantly. I'll sleep 12-20 hours then stay up 5 and be exhausted. And its not BAD sleep...thats what gets me. I'm sleeping really well, and I have vivid dreams. It surprises me that I actually remember them.
I didn't use to be like this...it sorta came out of no where. Lol I use to be the opposite - staying up 20ish hours.
Gah...I just don't know whats wrong!
I searched online and all I've found is Narcolepsy...but that can't be it, can it? I've never been this way before...
16/f
Any idea whats wrong or how I can fix it? (link)
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theres two things that i am thinking about:
1) is you may be pregnant... ok, im saying MAYBE
:) i dont know if you are or not
2) is Sleep apnea.
but i highly suggest you see a dr. just in case.
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I've just started learning guitar a few weeks ago, and I just get so mad whenever I pratice because I suck. It's really hard. Does anyone play guitar and did it take awhile before you could actually play a song? (link)
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hey, I know you want someone who has actually played guitar, but I know of few of them who have. I've even tried personally. Dont give up, it is difficult, and it does take awhile. keep trying!
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