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Last Update: July 28, 2008
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Okay, right after I shave down there. Its always really itchy and I get alot of little red dots on the side of my thigh, what wear people get bikin waxed. A few monthes ago, the same thing was happening, so I stopped shaving. And, the itchiness dissapeared, along with the dots. I dont want to stop shaving, cause, you know....But, any advice on whats happening and what I should do?
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you could wax like professionally or get one of the at home waxing kits. or use or put lotion on after shaving/showering. also maybe even like shaving cream/gel when you shave. that works.
honestly when i first started shavingg there like it was really itchy and i got red bumps but that was for maybe like a month cuz after a while i got used to it and it doesnt bother me anymore. once in a while its itchy but im talking like HARDlYY.
any more questions just askk.
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Ok so ive been on my period for about a month now- my problem is im on this shot called depro provera its a birth control shot that makes your period barely ever come, and i havent had one in about 6 months. Well i am sexually active with my boyfriend of 9 months. Recently when we have sex i bleed, and now it just stays like that, and its hurt the hole time when were having sex and doesnt even feel good. What should i do? I have an appointment with the gyno soon, but what do you think could be wrong with me?? (link)
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honestly. i dont know what could be wrong with you.
if it happens when you have sex with you boyfriend, i suggest you stop it. atleast wait until you see the gyno and tell them that if happens when you have sex with your boyfriend and include all the information that you did in your question. maybe your gyno will tell you that you can or can continue to have sex and answer your questions for you.
and look up on google on the information of the birth control pill. that might be doing something. not sure tho.
hope i helpedd.
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Ok so im trying to find something for my bf for V-day... and i was wondering, do guys like stuffed animals??? (link)
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hmm. honestly. not really.
i mean maybe to a certain extent. like a small little bear and another gift or something.
i would get a guy like maybe a really good cologne/spray or maybe if they like a certain band get them a cd of it and wrap it nice. it really depends on the guy. i would say always throw in some chocolates with your gift cuz i mean everyone gives chocolates on valentines day.!
heres a link:
http://www.google.com/search?q=guy+gifts+for+valentine%27s+day&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
best of luckk :)
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I am looking for some advanced flirting tips.
I go to an all girls' school and what has been getting me through the day recently has been my one coed class, 3rd period writing class. The kids are great and the coed class dynamic is such a relief.
There is this one guy who I have developed a crush on. He's a gentleman, his stories are hilarious, and I think he's a little shy/reserved like me. We sat next to each other a couple of times. He's recently been sitting in my favorite spot and it just works out that I get there too late to sit next to him. So how can I play up the seat thing in a flirty way? What can I do to hook this guy, and what are some specific flirting strategies? Give me the flirting GOODS! (link)
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http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=how+to+flirt
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=get+a+guy
those are just like pages that have other pages on them with the same thing. just copy and paste them and when you get to the page youll know what i mean. :)
workkkkkkk ittttttttt.
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my breasts have gotten a large amount of like
stretch marks on them
and i haven't even gained weight or anything
and i've been growing pretty steadily
why do i have this?
i hate it so muchhh! (link)
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well its pretty much normal because well boobs grow and stretch.
if you put on lotion it reduces the amount of stretch marks you get, or thats what i was told.
and. they have like a whole bunch of stretch mark lotions and supplies at like walmart and stuff.
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Well as a joke i gave my friend a lap dance, it was a dare, im not a slut. Afterword he said it was HOT, but my ass was boney. I want to make it bigger but not fat. Like just enough fat so you dont feel the bones, and i dont want to have a big stomache. 14/f, thanks!
btw i like this guy so i want to follow his advice (link)
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hmm. all your really have to do is like make your butt stronger and firmer to make it appear bigger.
go to youtube.com and do 8 minute buns.
and heres some websites.
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Butt-Bigger
http://www.wikihow.com/Exercise-for-Firmer-Boobs-and-Butts
http://www.wikihow.com/Tone-Your-Butt-Fast
hope i helped.
if you need anymore you can find a bunch in google.
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On wednesday, I got my mustache waxed at the salon. I've gotten this before. I normally get like a few pimples, I don't know why but it's like definitely worse this time. It's like a pimple mustache on one of the sides of my upper lip. My mother got hers waxed also and nothing happened to her and that was her first time waxing it ever. So I mean, i've gotten it before, she hasnt, and i get the pimple mustache?! Today is Sunday, and it still has not gone away. I have school tomorrow and I hate how this is still there. What should I do or use to like make it go away? Why do you think this happened? Was it the wax? Or my skin just sensitive? I dont know. Please help. (link)
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use like neosporin, or campho phenique.
or something used on cuts, rashes, etc.
i mean, you could always pretend like your sick or something in the morning too and not go to school and spend the whole day getting rid of it.
next time try to do the at home waxing kits. thats what i do, and i don't get the bumps. i mean i dont know it could be diffrent for you tho. but i use microwaveable eyebrow, face and lip wax bu sally hansen. its like 5 dollars at walmart and it includes soothing lotion to help reduce redness and bumps after wards. thats what i use and i like it.
hope i helped, sorry i didnt answer earlier.
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My mom is trying to change me from being a tomboy to a stupid prep i dont want to be a prep i want to be who i am and i have been exactly that my whole life when i was 3 i would sit down at the tv waching nascar alone its kinda weird how im a tomboy i didnt grow up with a dad just my mom and sister im beautiful the way i am and i dont need to change why caant my mom make my older sister a stupid prep (if its possible to make my sister more prepy than she already is) what should i do about this my mom is making me throw away my triathilon t-shirts i cant get those things anywhere eles and all the clothes that i got from my favorite place on earth riverview camp for girls they are in the garbage what should i do about this i am the way i am (link)
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if your mom is really on your case, you could always compramise. like she doesnt need to throw away your colthes, you could just make them look a little more prepy for her. example, if you ganna were a baggy t, were a tanktop under it showing a little that matches with the shirt, and then the shirt over tied back with a hairtye. and a nice pair of fitting jeans with your hair nice. you dont have to go full out for her. i mean this could be really bugging her and shes trying to help you know.
thats just my thought.
or you could try to talk to her calmly, you know without like screaming and yelling at eachother.
and get your clothes for the garbage. and wash them (obviously). she shouldnt be throwing them away..
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I'm looking for cute afordable bikinis. The problem is for me is that even x-small bottoms don't fit my butt.
I've tried:
roxy
pacsun
alloy
guess
delias
target
victorias secrets
abercrombie/hollister/aero/ae
and it seems like the bottoms are too big (I go for the string bikini)
so my question is does anyone know any other stores that carry afordable swimwear?
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sometimes macy's has good ones.
or khols. or however you spell it.
and you could always buy a pair and get them fitted.
hmm. you could try deb or mandies. or jcpennies.
when your in khols. macys and jepennies make sure your in the right section, not the ""kiddy" section cuz that stuff sucks. the teen area doesnt.
peaceee:]
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well yesterday i bought the victoria secret bare bronze sheer self tan moose. well im an idiot and forgot to wash my hands after it. and i missed a few spots and i just want it off, i tried nail polish on my hands and my knuckles and in between my fingers are still brown. any way to ge it off my hands and or body? (link)
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i scrub really hard in the shower with an exfolaiter , and that like scrub ball thing. idk what there called. and um use soap. thats what i do. and make sure you dont scrub too hard cuz you could like cut yourself or something or like burn.
hope it workks.
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The other day, my dentist said that she thinks I have tongue thrust. Has anybody else had this? She recommended speech therapy, but are there any personal exercises I could do that would help me improve?
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aha. i had that.
its where your tongue pushes out your teeth when you swallow, and it causes them to move forward.
you have to learn how to swallow properly so your tongue stops pushing on your teeth when you swallow.
so when you swallow make sure your tongue pushes out on the roof of your mouth instead on your teeth. its hard and completely anyoying but yeah.
so my dentist then told me to put stickers like all over the place like on my binders etc like everywhere and when ever i saw a sticker swallow the proper way. do that for a month and then you like trained your tongue to swallow correctly.
idk that what my dentist said.
i had to do it for ortho.
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13/f
i have to wear panty liners EVERYDAY.
and its so annoying...
is there anyway to stop discharge..?
besides going to the gyno?
and with out parents help? (link)
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you cantt stop itt.
idk if you just recently got your discharge but ill tell you just incase.
i remember when i got mine for the first time i thought it felt like the heaviest thing ever and that it was ganna leak through my pants. but it doesn't soo don't worry about it.
and umm. i dont even wear a "panty liner". theyre annoying and whatevs. i say dont were them cuz after a while you get so used to discharge that it doesnt even have you concerned.
adoiss.
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im ganna say quotes i made. can you tell me if there good. ill list then so when you tell me what you think about each one you can just go like 1. good but too corny. 2. i didnt like it. etc...
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1. nothing more, nothing less, nothing inbetween.
2. love is all you need.
3. never give up because if you do you will never suceed.
4. do what you can do, thats all.
5. you make shake shake and get butterfly when you around, so stay away! dont come near!
6. love is for the weak minded.
7. love is love hate is hate but friends are best friends!
9. dont steal my spotlight, because then there is no spot light!!
10. life is amazing. life is swell. life is better then the computer from dell.
thanks guys! i wanna enter these in a quote competion at school. and i just want some feedback on them.! THANKS A BUNCH! (link)
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umm honestly you gatta work on those.
like all of them.
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I have trouble concentrating.
It takes me forever to do homework because I always get distracted and start doing something else.
It wasn't always like this, it started pretty recently. Within the last year. But I've always been a procrastinator.
Ridding the area of distractions doesn't work, I WILL find something to distract me.
Any tips on how to concentrate better? (link)
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umm. honestly. im like that.
and this is ganna seem pretty lame.
but like. so i dont get distracted. i just do whatever i have to do like fast. like kinda if im ganna miss the buss for school i just like doing everything like so fast.
and if im trying to do homework or whatever. i just like. do it in my room with the door closed. idk.
theres not that much you can do. andd umm. i also will like kinda not let myself do anything else until i get that one task completed and then when im done with that one task i can go do whatever.
ahah. :]
worrk it mamaaaaaaaaa.
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so i found a vibrator in my moms stash of things. lol before i use it or even think of using it..would that be totally gross if i did..she doesnt have std's or i would too since i am her daughter..but should i or shouldn't i use it. thanks (link)
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idk. its kinda weird. like. you never knoww. and just the fact that like. she uses it "downn yonderrr" :] thats like kinda gross. but if you do use it, which isnt really a big deal, just like take a damp cloth and like attempt to clean it. ahaa.
and even if it is weird to like use your moms vibrator (im sure your not the first personn) its not like anybody would really know so its whatever.
:] kayyy. stay stellarrrrrrr.
you could always buy one too. :]
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where my part is, i have long flyway hairs that stick up. i want a product thats light and it doesn't make your hair look/feel digusting. any ideas? (link)
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biosilk works. but you cant use a lot or you hair will feel nasty. just a little bit and it works. you can get it at like walmart acmea etc. also this stuff called like beeswax or something. thats suppose to be really good.
:] peaceee.
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how do you grind? people tell me to move in a circular motion but like what do i do with my hands? and my knees and hips? and butt hahaha
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aha. its pretty much like "natural". like just go with the flow.
go to youtube.com and type in grind or how to grind
and defiantly go to wikihow.com and type in how to grind.
people grind diff ways. like move your hips circular. hands can go where ever. knees stay still?
stayy stelllarrr. workk ittt. OOoohh. :]
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i want to get a really nice hair straightener for christmas. something that works really well and lasts reasonably long. I don't want a CHI, or really anything above $80. what do you recommend? (link)
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wet2straight. i got it at walmart for $20-$25 dollars the week after christmas and ive had it for three years. you can use it on wet hair you really want too, but i suggest dry :]
stay stellar forevssss.
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