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hey.... im not ur average person. most important lesson i'd like to teach every1 is that you should respect everyone no matter race color sexual orientation, beliefs or anything else. i love music and talking to other people. i give advice and get advice. hope i can be of service.
i can help u with anything...
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well i have dirty blonde hair and its naturally straight, stick straight. i mean i like it and all but sometimes i get bored with it.
i scrunch it sometimes, or put it in a clip but what are some other ways i can put it??

any help is appreciated, thanks! =] (link)
try garnier fructis curl constructive mouse. put it into ur hair and scruch and then blow dry. it really works,


I've got scars on my face. Acne scars. How do I get rid of them? Do I use lemon juice? How long will it take? (link)
try using nuetragena acne scars peal. i heard it works its kinda expensive though.


ok well i have had black teachers and every class ive been in a class with a black teacher (only females) i end up hating that class even thought its my favorite school subject.and i also hate the way they talk i mean their accent and the way they move. but i do have some black friends (males and females) and i dont have any problems with them we hang out and go places and just do stuff (link)
plain and simple maybe you just dont like your teachers. if you were racisit you would no it. its not like deciding whether your gay or not.

especially if you have black friends.


Ive heard theres a vive prof straightening shampoo or something like that...does it actually straighten your hair or make it less curly? (link)
i honeslty havent tried that but if you want to straighten your hair i suggest you use a straightning iron or a blow dryer. use a round brush for the blow dryer and the conair
Professional Ceramic Straightener w/2" Plates is cheap and it works great! its only like 20 $ at cvs or walmart. and if you want a really good iron try the conair infiniti its a 100% ceramic. like 50 $ and works sooo good.


Lately my parents have been REALLY argueing. Tonight at dinner I left and they just fought for 3 hours straight. The past 2 months have been really stressful for them I think. My mom is having trust issues with my dad because he went out to lunch with 'some fat lady' and it was because of work. He had to take her out. Anyways, he has lied about who he has been with but personally, I don't find it to be THAT big of a deal. I am so stressed lately because well, I have my own problems and they have their's to add to mine.
Recently we moved about a year ago. They want to move back now because this place has nothing to do. Back at my old place, there were things to do. My parents think this is another reason to why they are fighting.
Please help me. Anything is totally appreciated :) (link)
number one

stay out of it!!!
if your parents love each other they'll work it out.

number 2 do ur best to make their lives easier (with out making your self feel like a maid.) do the dishes once, or vacum or make them breakfast in bed one day.

make sure you take both their sides . and investigate more about ur father seeing "the fat lady" hope i helped


Tonight I'm going to an important dinner party. It's casual dress code, but I've never been to a dinner party before. I don't want to appear under or over dressed. I really don't have a clue what to wear.
Coud you help me out by giving me ideas on what clothes to wear. and how to do my hair and makeup?
Thankyou (link)
i think you should wear a nice skirt possibly in solid colors. do leave your hair down and make your make up sutle and natural. dont do any dark eyeshadows or lipsticks. and your shirt should be nice and clean.

try to see what other people r wearing there.
hope i helped.


I want to success in school and try my hardest to get straight A's or at least 4 of them. I want to make my mom and dad proud of me and I'll feel really good in side.
My true question is, how do you increase your memory? I want to have a better memory so when I hear it, I learn it quicker.
OR
How do I remember things? I want to do really well in school. Should I read more books? Should I read at least 1 hour a day? Should I review old things over and over?

Teachers, parents, friends, you can help me!
Any advice will help a lot. (link)
yeah you should read more it makes your skills i memory and vocabulary faster. and also after class if your forgetting things just reveiw ur notes once in a while or more if needed. and an easy way to memorize something is to keep writing it until you have it glues to your brain
and remember DONT PRESSURE YOURSELF OVER YOUR GRADES

just do your best

hope i helped.


Earlier I posed on Advicenators a question about whether I should get a second gift for my brother's baby shower (I got a pair of socks for start). I have since purchased a second gift but I'm hesitant to give it at the shower (which is two weeks away). It's a baby t-shirt from T-Shirt Hell and says "I can kick your baby's ass." I think it's funny and would make a nice change from all the cutesey baby shirts they're sure to get. (It's certainly less offensive than most of the other T-Shirt Hell baby shirts, if you check their website.) But what if someone (namely my brother or his wife) becomes offended? I doubt my brother will but I don't know his wife very well and I don't know if she's sensitive or not.

I tried to ask my brother (before I bought the shirt) if the shirt would be an all right gift, but I don't think he understood my question because he said if I didn't know what to get I should check the gift registry. (link)
just give it to ur brother and his wife. if they get all offended just be like haha it was a joke.
and have a back up gift. but if they do like it make sure u mention their baby kicks ass!

lol
hope i helped.


i'm 15...and yeah... so... ever since i met this person... she hates me... and she hangs out with my best friend. i know she's a pretty insecure person since she's overwieght and her mom was a whore(literally...i'm not tryin to be mean) and left her as a little kid. and my best friend feels sorry for her. i used to, but her past gives her no right 2 boss me around and treat me like shit. and it's only getting worse every day. i jus can't take it anymore, and i don't know what to do... i've tried avoiding her, but if i do that i can't ever hang with my friend b/c she's always hangin with that person. we play on the same basketball team at school, so during practice she'll boss me around about the stupidest things, and i don't want the coach yo see us fighting b/c try-outs are still going on, so i jus do what she says... i've tried telling my friend about it, but evertime i try i litterally get pushed out of the way by the person. all my other teamates tell me 2 forget them both... but i could never forget my best friend, i care about her 2 much, and she's goin through sum pretty sucky stuff right now (link)
when you and your best friend are alone tell her your feelings openly. say that your not trying to break her friend ship with the other girl, but you just want to get over your problem. also tell her that you would leave the other girl and avoid her but the only reason you wont is beacouse your friendship means alot to you.
and sweety if she doesnt listen shes not a good friend.... no matter how long you've been friends. if u really care about her like that she cares about you. if not just forget her. i no its hard but hey...

as for the othe girl tell your b-ball coach about her and every time she says something be like "i dont really want to do that" or "no i dont think thats such a good idea" or be like "i dont feel like it" try to polite to your enemy when you insult them... its like a fist. and if she doesnt stop.. seek help from guidence councler. avoid her. or just tell her to get the shit out of your face.

glad to help ;)




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