well..i'm 17, i love just about everything! God is my LORD and personal Savior. my family and friends mean the world to me and i would do ANYTHING for them. i pretty much have the most amazing boyfriend anygirl could ever ask for and love him with all my heart. if anybody needs any held, don't hesitate to ask, i will do my best to help! =]
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ok, i really like this boy, and some people think he likes me too becuase of the way he acts around me. but on myspace, he NEVER comments ANY of my pictures. BUTTT there r these 2 girls that i know, one of them hes good friends with and he comments her pictures like "dam hot pic" and this other girl hoo he never evn says a word to he comments her picss..."dam hot pic" or stuff like that. whats going on? this makes me sooo mad! (link)
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heck, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. my bf of almost 4 months and me hardley ever comment eachother on myspace...the reason being if there's something we want to say, we'll just say it in person or over the phone, and we are a very lovey couple...heck, i know i lot of couples like that where they'll comment others sites constantly but not eachothers. and the fact he says "hot pic" doesn't mean he likes them. i've known people who write that, but mean it sarcastically or really do, but they're not interested in anything past that.
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What's the differnce between french kissing and makeing out? Cause people always say there's a differnce, but I see them as the same. Cause they don't they both involve tongue? I don't know, I'm confused. What's the differnce?! (link)
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they're the same. just 2 different phrases for the same thing. kinda like when you call a kiss a "kiss" or a "smooch" or a "peck". same thing, different name. making out doesn't necessarily mean touching and all that stuff, but it can imply that.
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i have a ex boyfriend and he dumped me and he still loves me and ive been sad forever and i want to go back out with him and i dont know if he still wants to what should it do?? (link)
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sometimes the best thing to do is to just give him space. sometimes the best thing to do is to just be his friend. honey, not long ago my bf quit talking to me and then just up and broke up with me. so i cried and cried but i accepted the fact we were still friends and whenever we were together, i never even gave the hint of still having feelings like that. less than a week later, we were hanging out by ourselves and it was really awkward...we were practically on opposite sides of the room. eventually we talked lol, then we got closer, then were were just goofing off and we ended up kissing. minutes later i asked if we were gunna get back together, and he said yes. it wasn't even a week, but sometimes certain guys need more time than others.
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i have had past relationships, still a virgin tho, and we used to kiss alot.. but it kinda felt unatural like i didn't really want to do it but i did it anyways. my fiancee' and i haven't done anything like kissing, sex, or anything like that, so when we do kiss i want it to kind of impress him. so i was wondering if there were any tips to tease him a lil' with kissing and to be a good kisser.. i know practice and it'll come natural.. but i just don't want to seem like a total goof. thank you
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one thing that my bf told me that "makes him melt" is when i kiss him gently on the neck. another thing is lightly biting down on his bottom lip and giving it a slight tug. one time i did that plus, before i let go, i did a little spur improv, and he actually gasped and leaned back and said "wow...now THAT was hott". just add your own touches...he'll love them!
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15/f
okay..well there's this guy that i like..and he likes me back..
we talk to eachother on the phone sometimes..and when we do we talk for hours at a time..its the same when i see him in person.. i guess we're getting pretty close..
i havn't been kissed before. but i know he has before.. So i'm kind of afraid that if we ever do kiss..i'll turn out to be a wicked bad kisser.. and then he'll like..dump me or something.
i guess where this question is going.. is what do i do when i do kiss? (link)
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honey, like i've told every other person i've responded to with this question...don't sweat it!! since it's your first, of course it is going to be a big deal and everything...but once it's over, the nervousness will go away! take me for instance...i had only been pecked on the lips till september *i just turned 17*. well when i got my first REAL bf i knew, because i asked, that he had some experience...actually a lot lol. our first kiss wasn't planned...it just, happened. and you just follow his lead, try not to spaz out, and you will actually be surprised at how easily it really is and that there is nothing to fear. and who knows, you might now be as bad as you think. me and my bf have been together for 3 months and the other day he asked me "ok you are a realllly good kisser like, your kisses just make me melt. how many guys were there before me?" so i said "none" and he is just convinced that it couldn't be "natural" or w/e...and i'm like, the most conservative girl you would ever meet. just add your own personal touches here and there, play with his hair, maybe tease him with a gentle tug of the lip...you'll do fine!! hope i helped!!
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I'm not good with matching clothes.
How do you make layers look good?
I've tried doing it.. and it looks out of place.
Are there certain colors to wear together and everything?
I want a more mature look. I'm 16 and I dress all comfy. (like t-shirt & sweatpants) I want to look good, you know? (link)
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a lot of things i do when i layer up is usually for school. i'm not one who likes to wear super low cut shirts for everyone to see, yet some of the cutest shirts are like that. one of my favorites is a really low cut shortsleeved brown one...but i wear a nice bright pink or bright orange tank under it. usually if the shirt is low cut, any tank/spaghetti strap top will go well (if colors are matched correctly). popular color choices are hot pink and black, pink and chocolate, black and white, and red and black.
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sooo...my bf has these really cute love sayings.....like "if i had one wish it would be to die one day before you, so i never have to live a day without you." or....."if i had one last breath to take i use it up by telling you i love you"
DOES ANYBODY HAVE ANY GOOD ONES???? HE IS REALLY GOOD.....PLEASE HELP.....I WANT SOME TO TELL HIM. (link)
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"i have two hands to hold you, two eyes to see you, and two lips to kiss you, but only one heart to love you"
"the shortest word is i
the sweestest word is love
and the only one for me is you" (something like that lol)
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I don't know, I've just been thinking about this alot lately. Okay, you know how people always say that to go to Heaven you have to believe in God and be religious and such? Well, what about a person who is kind and selfless and is just a good person in general and is an athiest? Does that mean that they wouldn't go to Heaven even though they were a good person who did good for other people? Because if you think about it, not every person who is religious is good. Like the terrorists who flew the plane into the World Trade Center, causing the deaths of all those innocent people. They claimed that they were doing that for God and their religion. I mean, wouldn't it seem wrong for a person just to go to Heaven because they were religious even if they weren't a good person, and a person who was a really good person not going to Heaven because they weren't religious? I was just thinking about this and wondering if anybody had some answers, perhaps? (link)
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that is what deceives sooo many people...they think that they can get into heaven simply because they were good. that is not true at all. if that were the case, a lot more people would be in heaven who never believed in God, and why should He let people enter who don't believe in Him? the Bible says that they way to destruction (hell) is wide and many people follow it, but the way to heaven is narrow and hard to follow. yes there are religious people who are bad...but the question is, are they being religious because they want to and sincerely want to learn about God and serve Him, or do they do it for the sole purpose of receiving a reward. the terrorists on 9/11 or any other time, i can guarantee you, are not in heaven. they worshipped a false god and they had to find out the hard way that their souls will be forever separated from the LIGHT. yeah they were religious, but it was a man-made religion and a false god they served. and the subject of children going to heaven is very hard to debate and i honestly do not know the answer. especially for infants because they have no knowledge to believe, but at the same time, they don't know any better. it's very debateable.
i hope i helped! if you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask! =]
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Well, to start off all i ever feel is sad. There is so much negative stuff in my life it isnt even funny. Well, me n my boyfriend broke up wich he was my first love and we were together for 9 months, and he already likes a new girl. that girl hates me. two ppl want to fight me when i get back to school tomorrow. My mom doesnt make enough money to suport my household. We got evicted and are movieng. I find myself with only like 2 friends.All i do is miss my ex boyfriend. im always so curious and go on my ex's myspace or look at his aim profile and its all about that new girl so i always end up crying. im impaitent i feel fat. and i feel like i have no reason for wakeing up in the morning.And i feel like a worthless peice of crap. how do i fix this? how can i be happy.All i want is to be happy again. Any advice will be helpful.
p.s. please dont say get on medicine because medicine doesnt bring happyness (link)
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you might just be going through a funk right now. i know that when me and my last bf broke up, the last thing i wanted to do was go out with friends...especially if they were with somebody. here i am now, i have only 2 or 3 good friends...and my best friend never talks to me anymore *we've known eachother almost 7 years and she's decided that she'd rather hang out with somebody else because i have a bf who is usually with me*. but despite the fact that other than my bf, family, and 1 or 2 people i hang out with over the weekend...i try to live it up. i find that my happiness comes because God has placed it in me. I find comfort and joy knowing that God is always there and will never leave me no matter what...He loves me unconditionally and enough to die for me. This is what i am reminded of each and everyday. and no matter how hard things might be, even though i can't see Him, i can feel His presence comfort me. material possessions will make you happy momentarily...nothing lasts forever
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O.k. sooo, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week now. We've kissed, but havn't made out. I've never made out before. Everyone thinks I've made out before, even my boyfriend. His friends keep telling me for my birthday he's going to finally make out with me as one of my presents. He's had A LOT of expeirience with girls and makeing out, and as I said I have NEVER made out. My questions are:
1) Will it be TOTALLY obvious I've never made out before?!
2) Will I be a horrible kisser??
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3) How do you make out?!
I'm so worried right now. I'm NOT going to tell him I've never made out before so don't tell me to do that. I'm just scared he's going to notice and think I'm the grossest kisser ever. He always tells me girls tell him he's a really good kisser, and I'm scared cause I havn't made out before! I have no idea what to do while making out. Where do your hands go? What does your tongue do? How are people able to make out for long periods of time without getting bored? HELP! Please please please. I need answers quick! (link)
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don't sweat it! it really isn't as scary as you think. heck, i never had until me and my current bf started going out. and the first time happen kinda on accident. but just follow his lead and it should just come naturally. like i said, i never had done that either, but it just all came naturally. even the first time, i would do something while we were kissin and he'd pull away and say something like "omg! wow!" or "that was really hot!" and he didn't know i hadn't had experience...i even eventually told him he was the first for that he was like "nuh uh, you're a bad liar" or w/e. so just don't worry...like i said, go with the flow, follow his lead, and if you're still nervous, don't make it obvious!! be confindent...the more confident you are, the better you'll be! if you wanna know anything else just hollar back! =]
i'm adding some in. but some things i might have done were if you got control of his bottom lip, lightly "bite" *not bite hard, that would hurt lol* his bottom lip. that alone could be a wow factor, and once you get comfortable with that and get more experience *because it could turn out wrong if not done right*, you'll get your own little touch *mine was a little suck of the lip right before i let go...that was what made my bf actually have to catch his breath and say "wow"*. and EVERYBODY loves kisses on the neck. i believe the way he phrased it was "those make me melt" you gotta remember though, some guys might have a different preference, but those were a few of my tricks.
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How long do you think you should hold on to a relationship you know will never happen?
Story behind the question:
I've liked this really nice guy for years. He's kind of popular because he's so nice and funny. Seriously, this guy would start a conversation with anyone. Not so many popular girls like him in a love way, but a lot of people from middle-lower to average on the social scale do. (Sorry, I hate when people talk like that, but its the only way I can really describe it.) I'm somewhere between average and popular, but I don't hang out with popular people. So basically, this guy and I used to be pretty good friends, but did nothing outside of school, then we barely talked for a year because we didn't have any classes together. I still hung on, although I went out with other guys. This year I see him again and still have feelings for him. But there are a bunch of other girls that like him. I don't want to ask him out because I'm pretty sure he'll say no. Should I let go? --I've tried this before though, didn't work.
Thanks to all who respond ; I ratee =) (link)
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hold on!! if he really means that much to you and is as great as you say, then don't let him get away! i liked this one guy from 8th grade all the way till summer before junior year...and i moved away summer before sophomore year. we were really good friends but then it changed freshmen year...then i moved away but i still realllly liked him. well in july of this year, i went back to that state for a visit for 2 days and on the first day he called and asked me to dinner. so we went and he was just acting different..in a good way. and at the end of the night, he said he had just realized how much he really missed me and how he'd give anything to have me stay there and he kissed me goodbye (my first kiss) *we saw eachother the next day too*. so basically almost 4 years...and then i finally got him. now since then things have changed and i have a wonderful bf in my own state, but we still keep in touch and if i go to college out there, he said he'd be waiting. you never know what will happen. don't give up!!....not yet at least
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I am a Christian, and always have been. I pray at LEAST every other day, I occassionally go to church, I repent, I try to limit how much I sin, and I believe that Jesus is God's son.
I used to be very certain that I would end up in Heaven. But recently, I came across a Bible verse that has been on my mind for a while. It's Matthew 7:13-14.
"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a fiew find it."
Now I'm basically VERY worried about not making it to Heaven. The Bible says that it's hard to get in, but it also says that believing in Jesus is the only thing you need in order to get into Heaven. So I don't know what to do. =[
I'm also kind of starting to wonder about other religions. I think "If Christianity isn't the true religion, then I'll go to Hell forever", so I worry even MORE.
Please help. I don't need reassurance. I need answers. (link)
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Just believeing in Jesus and that He is God's Son is not all that is involved. It involves believe that Jesus came to earth to save man from his sins. He died on the cross and bore the burden that should have been ours, and rose the 3rd day from the dead, and is now the living God, sitting on the right hand of His Father. Even then, you must live a life that is glorifying and edifying to God. He is everywhere all the time. Anything you do, say, or even think, He is in the presence of it. Even if you're all alone, He is there. So many people are deceived into thinking that they are Christians and that they will go to heaven...which is what the Bible is stating "broad is the road that leads to destruction". it takes more than words and thoughts to get you into heaven. it is a life of dedication to God and that the true purpose man was put on earth was to worship HIM which will also be our purpose in heaven.
"If Christianity isn't the true religion, then I'll go to Hell forever", it takes faith...faith that God will do what He says. If you don't believe that, then you might think that God is a liar *which He isn't* and who would want to worship a God that lies? just have faith that God has the perfect plan, He knows what He is doing
i really hope i helped!! if you have any other questions, just let me know and i will be more than happy to help the best i can =]
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ok...
14/m
i have my first gf ever, we've been "together" for about a couple weeks now...we went to go see a movie today, and i sat next to her and everything, but i was too stupid to do anything...i.e., i didn't put my arm around her or anything...i know from her friends that she really likes me and i just am too nervous to make a move i think...i dunno tho...any advice?
thnks,
Sam (link)
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ok if ya'll have been together for a couple weeks and you know for a fact that she really likes you, try to make the first move. if she's shy, chances are she won't make it *at least for a while*. Don't be too upfront with it...go slow. if you go see a movie just kinda joke around with her...play and bump your leg into hers a few times. if her arm/hand is on the arm rest, have your hand right next to it and maybe "accidentally" bump into it a few times. if she does it back and even gets closer, then go in for the kill. but if she moves away, then don't press it because if you do, she'll just get mad. just go with the flow and whatever happens happens =] if you need anything else lemme know!!
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i dont know what to get my bf [of 5-6 months at the time] for christmas. hes not into sports but he likes music and plays guitar.
soo i was thinking one of these 2 ideas:
1- ipod nano [which hes mentioned he wanted] and maybe some guitar strings if i can get them.
or 2 - Guitar Hero 2 [which he's also said he wanted] and a Fender hoodie or shirt.
im mostly thinking the 1st one but id like opinions. were both 16 hes fixin to be 17.
and as far as money is concerned, hes talkin about gettin me a $300-$400 ring, so yeah! were splurging. thx! :) (link)
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personally, i'd go with the guitar hero 2 and hoodie. he could get a lot of use out of the hoodie *especially since it will be winter time* and guitar hero is something that the both of you can enjoy. me and my bf play guitar hero all the time and even talk about how badly one is going to beat the other and make bets on it so it's just something that gives us a fun activity to do if we're bored.
but if ya'll are a serious couple and you know for a fact he's gettin you a ring worth hundreds, then maybe an ipod nano would kinda even things out. really it is up to you how much money you want to spend =]
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I'd prefer a Christian's (Methodist if possible, but just Christian will do.) opinion since everyone has different beliefs.
I am completely afraid of death. I always think I'm going to die in the night or doing something. And of course, there's what happens after death. I dont just want to "end" but eternal life is overwhelming to me. I mean forever is so long!!! (link)
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i have struggled with the exact same thing is my life. it would scare me knowing that when i die, my soul is going to be in either heaven or hell forever. but the question you have to ask yourself is...do you know exactly where you are going to go when you die? if you know for a fact that when you die, you will be in heaven, it should be a comfort to know that FOREVER, you will be in the presence of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. that is the peace that i have...what better way to spent an eternity that with the One who created you...in a place so wonderful that our human minds cannot even grasp it's concept. think of the happiest you've ever been...and time it by an infinity and living it forever...that should be a great comfort! i hope i helped sweetie! =]
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is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering
15/m
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honestly, it shouldn't really matter. heck, you're a teen, it happens, some just worse than others. my first "bf/fling" was not very attractive...really skinny, crazy curly hair, bad acne...you name it, he probably had it. but his personality was sooo fun and sweet that it won my heart *plus the hearts of tons of girls who tried so hard to break us up (and were successful)* but don't worry...it's not that bad =]
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I'm 15/female.
I am not an experienced kisser.
I am dating someone who is.
Is kissing/making out something that just comes naturally and I'll get used to it right away?
Or is there a lot more to it? (link)
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girl lemme tell you something...i didn't get my first REAL kiss or bf till the end of september *right before i turned 17* and my bf has had gf's in the past and is very experienced. i had never kissed before and was nervous about what i was going to do if he tried to start kissing me. we were goofing off and i didn't see it coming, but once he started to kiss me, you just kinda go with the flow and it will just come naturally. and not only will you get used to it, but you will be almost addicted to it *if he's good at it that is* but don't stress over it, you'll do fine =] hit me up if you need any more help
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okay, what do guys like...
Girls with a mystery, like they never give them full self to you at once, they gradually give themselves to you, like everyday's a new day, with a different mystery
Or, If the girl just give her whole personality her whole self all at once, do you think guys get board of that..I'm the Mystery and shes the giving one, shes my bestfriend and we both like the same guy...
I'm 14 hes 15 and shes 14 (link)
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like everyonce else says, it really depends on the guy, but i know from experience that they like the one who just lets there's personalities out there from the get-go. if the girl is mysterious and everyday is something new, he might not like what is new, but rather what it was at first. like i'm a typically shy girl around guys i don't know and then once i get to know them i turn to my wacky/crazy self. and most guys later were like *dang i thought she was quiet and mellow* and would leave because i wasn't what they thought. but then there was a guy that i was fine around and felt like i could be myself and now we're bf and gf. so i'd have to say, don't be TOO much of a mystery, but do give him something to think about
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ok i am in need of aboyfriend my love life has taken a dive and i can't really find anyone i'm not horrible looking and i have been told that i am pretty but i want a guy to tell me that and i just can't seem to find one please give me advice on how to find a boyfriend. (link)
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the best advice i can give is to not make it obvious you are looking for one, because if you do, then guys aren't gunna wanna be that one (unless he's bored and wants to have fun...sad but very true for a lot of guys). just be casual and yourself when you're with guys...don't be overly flirty, yet make it obvious you are available. and NEVER settle for anything less than what you deserve...i got desperate for a bf last year, and man, i practically had to get a restraining order because he was literally stalking me...even after i broke up with him!
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okay..well im a female 14 and i went overr my friends house yesterday and we invited over her bf and our guy friend jake( (link)
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omg this sooo happened to me over the summer! i was hanging out with this guy i had liked for the longest time and we actually kinda dated for a while. but he had gotten another gf and so i knew my boundries when me and him hung out. despite the fact he had a gf, HE was the one flirting and wanting to cuddle. but the next day, he wouldn't even look at me, almost like i was to blame for what happened. his excuse... "i cuddle with girls anytime i watch a movie, just don't read into it like that" and i'm like "yeah, it's kinda hard NOT to read into it bud". so i'd say that the best thing is to just wait and see what happens next time you guys are together
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