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Here's a story. This boy(ron) met a girl (Becky). they became friends. Ron dated a girl who always gave him crap, so becky would always be there for him to talk to. eventualy ron broke up with his girlfriend and was completely single. He realized that he had strong feelings for becka and viceversa. But something happend and she got scared, so she tried to push him away, but he wouldnt give up on her, so he still wanted to be friends. But beyond both of there own control, they realized they were in love, but the concept of love scared and confused her to the point where she just tried to forget about them. she knew what she felt, but it was a new feeling. a genuine feeling. she didnt want to hurt ron, but she did-again. She told him that she doesnt know how to love him.-----What should he do? What should she do? What is the next step they have to take? allthough love is a little scary at times, they both know that they are right for each other no matter what anybody says. so, what should they do? should they just forget it and let each other fall into the arms of someone else? i dont think so. but you tell me what you think......"NanonymousA"
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This sounds like a guy and me (his name is cliffton). Hummm.......well it seems this "girl" needs some time to get things figured out on who she likes and who she needs. Both of you guys need to take a breather and remember that love is an action not a word. Hope I've helped.
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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You can be yourself without having to turn punk. You can be a mixture of punk/hip hop/prep. whatever you like all in the same day. It doesn't matter what your socail group is, if you like what you like then that is your style, who knows maybe someone might like your style. Hope I've helped you out a little.
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i have a pretty good life how come i am not happy (link)
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You may just be going through a stage in your life were you are not happy with the things that are going on around you. If not that than it may be that you feel depressed. I hope I've helped you out some.
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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
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Good for you girllie! I would ask myself which one I would be so in love with that I would concider marring them one day. If there's both of them then, try holding minni contests, like take them both to the movies and see which one acted more like a gentalman. Hope I've helped!
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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do. (link)
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Tell your aunt and uncle that you can't help who you love, your not supposed to. Tell them that if they loved you one bit they would let you be happy. Trust me I have personal experience in this field :) Hope I've helped.
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ok how do u play hard to get? i want to learn how to play hard to get .. im a girl 14 help! (link)
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Flirt with a guy until you have him craving more. Then totaly ignore him but not to the point where he thinks your mad at him. Still talk to him and stuff but don't flirt anymore. Hope I've helped :)
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Okay I put poems on here....and you guys said be careful putting them on here or someone will steal them...how do I make it so no one can steal them?? (link)
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Not sure on this web site but if you go to www.poetry.com they give you a copy write and everything as long as you agree that they are yours.
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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Far enough that you are comfortable.
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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him? (link)
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I always thought spaz was a good name for a goldfish because they are so spaztic.
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My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
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Always always wear protection. Also, you should go to your doctor or a clinic and get birth control. Hope i've helped.
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my mom never spends time with me i ask every day to but she always says she's to busy but she's not i have talded to her before but she just said so what do i do (link)
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Try telling her again. If that doesn't work try planning out a day and a time that is your date and time (like every monday night at 6:30 or something like that). Tell her there will be no distractions, it's just for the two of you. Hope I've helped a little.
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well you see, i really want to go to middle school, like BAD! But i have maybe a 89% to go to this acting school, and i ,may even be in a show! what should i do? i will like to go to school with my friends, but this is a one in a lifetime chance!
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Confused Actress (link)
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Sometimes, you have to make sacrafices to ensure your going to be happy in the end. I say, focus on the things around you, like the money isue - is it going to be okay, the pressure - can u take it....on the other side ask - will I be able to live with myself knowing I passed this up. All in all, think about things for a few days and see if you get in. Hope I've helped.
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my sis neva even talks to me ne more. she acts as if im invisible.how can i get her to notice me (link)
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Tell her you want to spend more time with her. No matter what you do, don't try to get it by negitive attention. That never works! Hope I've helped some.
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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Tell your parents, or, tell someone (an adult) who you can trust. You need to see a doctor. If you are depressed you should get medicine to help not feel like you want to kill yourself. I know it doesn't seem like the best advice, but trust me I've been there and medication is still really helping me. Hope I've helped some.
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i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
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Try being your self around guys, that way you'll only have a guy that likes you for you. If your convensed you need one at the moment, then try flirting with guys. Make physical contact, and always look into their eyes. Hope I've helped some.
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i am havin a real trouble tryin to pick a colour for my room. i have knda a big room and i dont want colours wot make it to big or to small can sum 1 help me plz (link)
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Bright colors (like white), usually make the room look big. Dark colors usually make it look small. I suggest picking out a color you really like, and going to Home Depot and picking a paint chip of a shade in the middle of that color. Hope I've helped some.
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i really need sum money i wanna babysit coz i love kids ne no how i can go about it (link)
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Try going to www.yahoo.com and on that page to the left it should have like a bunch of stuff, somewhere in there it should say hot jobs. click it and enter your state and city and all that good stuff. Also you should try adverting, I suggest making flyers and putting them around the neighborhood that you live in. Hope I've givin you at least a few good pointers.
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ok i reeeally like boys lol. the thing is, all da guyz in my class like these 4 girls (2 r my friends, but all of em r pretty bitchy). i feel like i dont have a chance against them!!! around guyz im like superconfident and funny and sorta loud (*blushes* lol), but i dno if they like that kinda thing (ive only had 1 bf). im pretty and i have a lot of friends, but i dno wat im doin wrong/how 2 get guyz 2 like me (instead of the girlz they normally like)! plz help!
-B.O.Y.L.E.S.S
p.s. im 13 and goin into 8th grade. and o yea, can u give me flirtin tips 2???? i laff a lot and act like i care wat they're sayin and am confident, but is that even flirting? (link)
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Cofident is good! Normally, when your cofident and all like you say, guys feel like they can be more comfortable around you. Your chances are better when you act yourself and guys feel like they can come and trust you. As far as these other girls go, they may only like them for shallow reasons, but in the end they will see how biotchy they really are. As far as getting guys to like you instead of the biotches, just do what your doing, be confident, and yes in a way that is considered flirting. Oh and flirting tips, I suggest doing anything that has physical contact, but kinda disquise it (like reading there palm or something like that lol). Also, try taking your relations with the guys a little farther, try asking them out. Hope I've helped you a little today.
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can i answere my own questions????? (link)
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Yes. You can even rate yourself, but thats kinda wrong, and weird.
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Whats cotton mouth? (link)
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Cotton mouth is when your mouth gets really dry almost like there is cotton absorbing your spit. This usually happens after you've smoked pot.
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