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im court, i am sweet. i love to be happy. to smile. i love my boyfriend jonathon. i love my bestie krystal. i have a freakish obession with jared leto& jensen ackles. they are sooo sexy. gah.. :) i love rock music, i hate hate hate country music& paris hilton. i look up to tyra banks, i think she is amazing, &what she's accomplished in life already is incredible. i attend college @ kent state..
any other q's just ask me dolls! :)

advice

18/f
majorly overweight
sadly, considered obese
i'm 5'5" and weigh 203 pounds...
yea, it makes me real sad when i see that
things is, i don't really look all that fat
but it is there =(
does anyone know of how i can fix this problem?
like steps to take to becoming healthier
and more fit/tone like all over?

try walking for fifteen-thirty mintues daily, or jogging. you don't need to run- just as long as your body is getting more exercise. and maybe do about twenty situps daily, they greatly help.
foodhabits: no drinking pop, it's horrible for you, try cutting out less junkfoods like chips and sweets. not entirely but cutback some. other than that- it should tone you up just fine. :) good luck dear.

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hi i have this bad pain at the bottom of my rib cage but its in the middle and kinda my stomach area i guess. its not a stomach ache trust me its just a bad pain. it kinda goes up a bit in the middle of my ribs up my chest. its in the middle where the ribs start on both sides. anyway i have no idea why and it just randomly started hurting. i havent done anything out of the ordinary and have no idea whats wrong. i took 3 Tums an hour ago and have felt no relief. im only 14 so i have no idea what it could be. If anyone could help me that would be great! thanks soo much! :]

if the pain worsens and continues go to the doctors, it could be appendycitis. nothing to worry about- but it needs to be checked out. goodluck and godbless.

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Well v-day is coming up soon. && I have nooo idea what to get my boyfriend, we have been together for a year and a half now. I already got him a ring and a necklace, so I have no idea what to get him. Ideas?
&& his birthday is in march. Ideas??

try making him a scrapbook. cute pictures of you two, and objects that have meanings to you guys. or make try cooking for him for the night, light some candles, just a low key thing. :)


goooooodluck!

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I have had this friend who lives in louisiana, who i have never met before. i have known them for going on 6 years and talked with their family and friends and stuff. our long distances friendship is no secret. I was going to have them visit me soon. were both adults (im 18) and i know the risks of meeting him without ever having met him before.. but i need opinions.. what do you think?? any opinions good or bad is VERY appriciated.

it's normal to be second guessing yourself and feeling unsure considering the situation. i think that your opinion is the only one that matters here. follow your gut, if you don't feel it's right or safe or whatever the case to visit your friend then don't. but if you find yourself always wondering, you might as well meet your friend. :)
good luck.

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First off, I wasn't sure where to put this. Sorry if it's in the wrong spot.

I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for almost 3 years. I go to a local community college in my city. I met this guy who attends the same college as me. He asked if he could take me to a local coffee shop after class one day. He's really funny and fun to hang out with.

Is it wrong of me, since I am in a relationship to do that? Or let alone, do I need my boyfriends permission to go have coffee with this friend I met at school?

The last thing I'm trying to do is cheat on my boyfriend. Actually, I wouldn't even consider it that at all.

Eeek. I'm really confused.

well since your asking i'm assuming you would feel a little guilty about going to get some coffee with anothe guy.. you can still go, just tell your boyfriend he is just a nice guy from class and wanted to get some coffee, but i wouldn't make it a regular thing.. boyfriends tend to be super sensitive and jealous when they start to feel threatened. and this boy from your class, he might not know you have a boyfriend. unless you've already told him. so it isn't fair to keep him lingering, he might start to like you.. so i'd let him know you're taken. :) but it's always nice to make new friends. so i say go, but let our boyfriend know ahead of time. :)

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well im not really sure how much i should shave and if i keep shaving will it keep coming back all rough and stubby like on my legs ?
i hate this how do i prevent it frm coming back like this without waxing?

there isn't a way. i mean, it's going to be stubbly like your legs would be. unless you wax it off. and you can shave what you like. some woman have no hair, some have a little. it's really what you prefer.

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next month is v-day i want to make something SPEACIAL for my long time relationship boyfriend, get any idea? i want make him something that he will never forgot and touch his heart forever, we been together 8 month which is my first time long time relationship. he been so good to me. pls help me.

well one year for valentines day..
i made my boyfriend a cute scrapbook of us.
a bunch of old pictures and new pictures of us together. a movie ticket from our first date.
just cute little things like that. and you can keep adding to it over the months you're together, it's a nice reminder of things that you two experienced.


or make him a really cute vday card. write him a letter inside tell him how wonderful he is. and how he touches your heart everyday.


hope i helped! :) goodluck-godbless dear.

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14/f

I've always tried to scrunch my hair, and my friends have too but it has never worked. It just stays flat because my hair is naturally straight and thick.

So i was wondering if anybody
has the same problem & can teach me to scrunch my very thick hair.

Or a new hairstyle! because my current hairstyle is medium length hair, and sidebangs.

THANKS!

so my hair sounds just like yours. and yeah, my hair just won't scrunch. and i feel like i've tried everything as well. it sucks. i just use a 3 bar-fat iron crimper, it has the same affect.
or set my hair in curlers. which takes forever, so it's not worth it. but crimping does work. it sucks having thick straight hair,but hey what can ya do.

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okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ?

if erika really likes jaslen, then she is going to hangout with her dear. maybe you should tell erika how it hurts your feelings. you two have been friends for awhile& you dont want that to change. maybe try and explain that to her. as for jaslen, maybe she just wants a friend too. you can share two best friends, you dont have to have only one. goood luck!

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