Hey all, Im Charli :) I'm usually the one all my freinds come to for advice so I thought why not start helping other people with their problems. I've been through and seen quite a lot in my 15 year life, most of the crap has happened to me lol :( My strongest advice is given on relationships and friendships, but you can ask em anything n ill be happy to try n help :) I like to know how peoples problems turn out so if i do help you then please let me no what the result was. Bye bye for now :) x x x
E-mail: l.x.charli.x.l@hotmail.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: Lincolnshire
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: To help of couse :)
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Member Since: July 17, 2006
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I will try and explain this without rambling on. There is this guy, "Q" is what we will call him. Well I have liked "Q" for awhile. We messed around and stuff (not bad, making out, not much worse than that), but I thought he liked me and that was why he was doing stuff with me, but then I came to realize he was just using me. I don't get why he doesn't like me. He gives me mixed signals like he likes me, then he doesn't. He knows I like him (or I think he still does), so he takes advantage of that. I'm just confused..and he likes so many other girls (which I'm not part of that list). And I really really don't want to like him, but I can't help it. I might even love him, not even joking. But everytime I even think about him, he makes me cry because I know he doesn't like me. But he likes so many of my friends its unreal. When I'm around him, it's like I'm not even there.
I just need some help on this situation.
Any advice at all will be great.
Maybe some ways to get over him.
Or maybe ways for him to notice me.
I see him a lot.
Thanks for anyone who helps : ]. (link)
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You need to show this guy what he is missing! Next time your around him act like he isnt there, have fun, flirt with his m8z and don't even give him a second look. He doesnt sound worth it and i know its hard getting over him but how will you get into a great relationship with somone good for you if your clinging on to this loser! Make him realise what hes lost and regret it!
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i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad. (link)
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Its normal to feel that way. But your the one that has got him, you should try talking to him and telling him that it makes you feel bad when he does it. If this makes him stop then you know he loves you however if he stil does it you need to think wether or not hes worth it. If its only talking though its most likely harmless, start worrying when its something more. let me know how things work out l.x.charli.x.l@hotmail.co.uk.
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Ok, this could be a little long, so I'm going to apologize for that right away.
Anyways, I was going out with this guy, let's call him C, for almost 2 months. Then I started thinking that I only liked him as a friend && I didn't want to keep going out with him && hurt him later, so I broke up with him.
About 2 weeks after I broke up with C, I found out my friend, M, was going out with him because he asked her out. When I found out, I seriously broke down && cried because him going out with another girl made me realize I still really did like him.
It's summer, so I'm doing OK since I don't have to see him, but when school starts I'm afraid I'll cry when I see him.
I still really love him && whenever I talk to M, she's my friend you know, she always talks about him and it literally breaks my heart. My friend, E, asked C once if he'd ever go back out with me but he never answered. My friend M, the one he's going out with, bounces from guy to guy all the time, but I'm just afraid she won't this time && I'll live with a broken heart.
I really need advice just on what to do. (link)
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Well first things first! tell your friend how you feel. However if she already knows then you shouldnt be calling her your friend. It sounds to me like this boy went out with her to get back at you since he didnt answer when he was asked if he would go back out with you. As for you though, you just might not like the thought of him moving on so quickly or him liking anyone else but you. Its a syndrome known as 'I don't wan't him - But noone else is having him.' If you like this guy then tell him, love is worth fighting for, plus if you don't him you will regret it cos you wil never no wt cud have been. Let me no how things turn out l.x.charli.x.l@hotmail.co.uk
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14/f. ok i dont normaly get tounge tied or anything around guys, even if i like them. but there is one guy i like sooooo much. im different around him, its like when he smiles at me, my face instantly goes red and i forget how to speak. my problem is that i cant ask him out, or even flirt with him for that matter, i get to shy. and trust me, im NOT a naturaly shy person. I dont know what to do. i just cant figure this guy out.
oh did i mention, he is like drop dead gorgous, hes like the hottest guy in my school, in my opinion. [not all the girls like him, some even say he has a big nose, i dont think so] (link)
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Yep every girls been here lol. The easiest way to talk to him without going all red and tongue tied is through the miracle of 'SMS.' Or if you have it, msn. If you cant do either of these then why not get one of your friends to invite him and some friends out, go bowling or to the movies, places like this make it easier for social interation. Let me know how you get one l.x.charli.x.l@hotmail.co.uk good luck! :)
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I first got my period about a year ago, and I was 13. Since then it's been super irregular and I bleed for up to like 10 days. Is it normal? (link)
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It is normal to have irregular periods. However, if it is really worrying you then why not have a chat to your doctor maybe he can help put your mind at ease.
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HOw do you know if your a good kisser? (link)
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Unfortunatly you cant kiss yourself so you don't really ever know. Kissing is like paining a picture, you can do it first time and it can be a masterpeice or you can do it thirty times over and it still looks like your baby brother nicked your pencil case and had a field day. Its not about wether or not your good its about enjoying every minute with the person your kissing.
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I went out with this one guy for like, a year and a half, and never even kissed him. I just always thought of him as a.."oh were dating, but i dont want to "date him", kinda thing. So anyway, just a couple days ago, he called me up, and asked me to go out with him. (just to let you know, i dated him like, 4 years ago) Anyway, so i guess he still liked me, but i still dont think of him like that. I kinda said yes to the date, only cause i felt bad for him, but then i had to cancel.
How can i avoid things like this in the future? I really dont like him at all like that, and would rather remain friends. (link)
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Girls are not very good at rejecting are they now! You need to tell this boy that you are not intrested so he can move on and find someone that is. I can understand completely why you did it but if he is still calling yopu after 4 years he must like you quite a bit so put him straight before its too late. Also, have a think as to wether or not the kissing part come into play here. Were you afraid to kiss him? If so this could make scared to go out with him at the thought of having to kiss him.
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I'm m/15 and I love this guy, no its no crush I do love him, and well I cant have him and I cant get over him. When we were in Quebec I ws sharing a room with him. He opened up to me, told me stuff that he never told one of our other roommates that hes closer to, now since we came back we have next to no relantionship what so ever, and he's going out with someone who is kinda one of my friends who I now hate. I don't know what to do. What should I do. (link)
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Sorry about the mistake lol! Well in this acse it does change things. If you are gay then i must ask what is the pint in chasing somebody that is staight and miss out on the oppertunity to be with someone who can return your love. I ahve a gay friend that feel for a staight boy in my school, needless to say it didnt work, and caused him quite a lot of upset because he was forever wondering if this staight boy could ever return the feelings. The best thing you could do is talk to this guy u like and get an answer once and for all.. you never know he might have feelings for you!? Obviously if you cant be upfront with him then he is probably best left in the past so u can find happiness in the future :)
Remeber boys dont often like admiting their sexuality as they dont like to seem less manly so for your sake just ask him. Please let me no how this all turns out and if u need any more advice then just ask me :) good luck!!
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