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how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help (link)
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Well what you need to do is sort of make an excuse like "3 is a crown and one of us might get left out" or something that wont hurt her feelings. Or what you can do is invite another friend to make it 4 so you wont get left out.
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my parents always yell, at the oldest and of course i asm the oldest i hate it and they just yeall and yell at me and its always my fualt plz help me (link)
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The reason your parents yell is because you are the oldest. So they think that you know better. Its a parent thing. So if you do something wrong then they will make a big deal out of it because they think that you know better. Its a weird deal, trust me, i know, im the oldest to.
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my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do (link)
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this happens to me all the time. When someone is on your friends screen name you should ALWAYS call up your friend and tell her whats going on and if she actually said that. If she really did say that then she is not a good friend to have.
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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
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In the summer usually your friends have plans, what you should do is call them and make a day that you guys can get together. That way you and your friends can see each other more often and also you have plans!
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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips? (link)
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You should only really wear a thong when you were tight pants. so there is no underwear line. But you will have to get used to it
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I RLY RLY RLY hate my body.. al my friends wish they had ine an guys always flirt wit me but i wanna lose weight, even though no one thinks i need to ,i need for myself, ya know? but i cant. its like i work out but im already.. muscler. an i dont wanna b like this he she cause of workin out lol but i dont know, anyone know some good fun diets.. or just away for me to love myself. i have rly low selfassteem and it rly brings me down.. i dunno thanx. (link)
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I am the same way as you. I try so0o hard to lose some weight. But I will tell you what i do. 1) I go to the gym about 3 times a week to make me feel better about myself. 2) You should always manage your mirror time. Instead of pinching your waist line, say phrases like "I look good!" Or something that makes you laugh at yourself. 3) Remember that you are more than a body. Make a point that you are good at a few things. 4) Choose healthy looking celebrity models. Realize that many people in those magazines are touched up! 5) Be active. 6)Limit your scale usage. Sometimes when you go on a scale it makes you feel horrable about yourself. 7)Know what makes you lose your cool about your body. 8) Eat Right. 9)If your friends are telling you that you need to lose a few pounds then tell them to shut up! 9) Wear comfortable clothing. If you are stuffed like a sausage then you will definatly spend the whole day looking at yourself.
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Someone told me i was..well to put it nicely..really fat and..i havent eaten for 6 hours and my stomach is killing me and ive been pressuring myself to get tons of exercise and it hurts...but i donno what to do! and i really need help! (link)
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Usually when people say you are fat they are jealous of you. You cannot starve yourself that will kill you. Just eat fruits and Vegggies and join a gym and work at it, dont starve yourslef! That is the worst way to lose weight. try your hardest to get were you want to be and you will get there!
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When you get advice, it will say Rate 1,2,3,4,5
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my mom wants me to live with her my dad wants me to live with him.My mom lives in Michigan , my dad lives in Arizona i dont no what to do i have to pick witch one i want to live with befor school starts i have not seen my dad in 2 years no that im with him im having the time of my life (link)
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What you have to do is choose which one that you are closer to. Or one that you wont get tired of to quickly. Or choose the one that you can tell personal things too.
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I have a very busy schedule...and i dont have time to go to a gym...so does anyone have advice on what I can do to help me lose weight? or at least to get in great shape and to have a nice firm body? (link)
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What you can do is when you have time off, you can pop an excersize tape in your VCR or you can join a gym and work out there. Or in the morning you jog outside or you can do situps, or even something you are good at.
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On the last day of school, these mean popular girls came up to me and started to pick a fight just for the fun of it. I got a little emotionable. Now next year I dont want that to happen again. What should i do to avoid that?
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What you should do is just listen to them. You will see that what they are saying to you is stupid and is a waste of your time. There will be alot of girls like that, trust me!
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I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
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One way is to get a little bit of money and put an ad in the paper. It just might work, or if your neighbors have kids. Be Creative.
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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what? (link)
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In my opinion is that you should wait till your ready. Trust me. I am just like you. When you dont have a boyfriend yes you do feel like crap, but when you do have a boyfriend you are scared and you are afraid of doing something wrong. So just wait until you are ready.
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ok...i have music on my colum and i want to change the song. i went xanga.com and stuff and i everyone is saying to copy the code...what code? ive dont this b4 but i forgot! PLEASE HELP and i will rate
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When they say code they usually mean the www. thingy or if you scroll down more it will say copy code.
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like i could tell me dad but he would b like no no theres nothing wrong with ur mother and i would b like ok b.c ive already asked him to do so and then if i ignore them they just get even more mad please come up with more ideas i like ur advice
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Wow. Thats a hard one. What you might be able to do is Talk to your mom when your dad is not there. Or if you and your mom go somewhere together (like shopping).
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ok almost all the time my parents get on my nerves i dono if its hormones or wat but like my mom will yell at me just for not like putting my clothes away and i think the reason is b/c her dad did the same thing to them like ya know verbal abuse but my mom isnt verbally abusing me its just a lil bit like that and im just kinda like u dont have to yell and shes like YES I DO! and then when i try to talk back to her my dad sticks up for my mom and so i cant say wat i want to.:( and then like the next day there all like so how was ur day today and im like leave me alone and then there like y hunnie y and im like b/c u said i was acting bitchy yesterday and shes like go to ur room! and im like ok...
i need sum advice please help me!
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Its ok, Dont worry... I have the same problem. Usually when parents yell, that means that they are overlly streesed or just dont remember what its like being a teenager. What I personally do is just ignore them. Or just to make them stop yelling is to pick up the clothes on the floor. And when your dad came in and yelled to back up your mom, well you should really ask your dad calmly to talk to your mother alone without him there. Hopefully he'll understand.
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ok there is this guy i met a little while ago (i'm 15 female) and hes 15, male but any ways he always flirts and he has told me he has only loved one other gurl but she cheated on him so he doesnt love her any more and then the other day i sent him one of my poems about the only guy i have ever loved but dont love any more and he said "maybe i can change that" .... and since he is a BIG flirt i dunno what he meant by it i mean there are other things too like he hates skaterboys but i'ma skatergurl and i said i really only like the way skaterguys looked and now he said he is changing to become a skater boy ... i mean i asked him why but he says its becuase everyone in his nieghbor hood was but he also told me he has hated everything about a skaterboy since as long as he can remember so i dont no why he is changing now ..... and he also doesnt really share his feelings but always wants to no mine when i cant even share them becuase i dont know what i am feeling..... am i reading why to much into this becuase he sends me mixed emotions all the time i mean i know hes a flirt and thats what flirts do but i refuse to flirt to much back just becuase and i dunno can someone help becuase i am all confused
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OK first of all you should really try to get to know him first. maybe you are the only one he is flirting with. And if you like him you should try at least to date him just once and see what its like.
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