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Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for just about 4 months and we've been having sex for 2 months now, not a lot because we dont want our relationship to depend on that. But whenever we have sex im just not into it, i dont know why. I like sex just im not enjoying it and im not sure what to do. Also, i want to orgasm but im not sure how i will know when its comming or how long it takes, because ive never had one before.

So what i want to know is..
1. Why am i not enjoying sex? but yet i still like it?
2. How do you know when your about to orgasm? and how long does it usually take?

Okay the orgasim of a female comes from the friction on the clitoris. Im hoping you knoavw what that is. Have him stimulate that while having sex. You could do this your self or have him do it. Being on bottom is the best way to get that stimulation, Have him lean his body on it while yall are having sex. It may take a while.

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you know how when you dye your hair sometimes it goes gray? ..how come it does that? and how can you get rid of it? after how many dyes will it go gray? ..thanks

I've never heard of hair turning grey from dying. Are you dying it a blonde color sometimes it could be over bleached hair that may apear grey. If your starting to get wild greys you may want to get a good dye that will cover greys.
Good Luck

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I love shirts like this,

http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1517&itemID=46351&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=48082&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=48074&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=47235&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

I'm not the skinniest person, so i like shirts that float away from the body a little.

What are some stores that sell shirts like those, but cheaper than delias. Like in the 10-20 dollar range. Preferably stores that are in Rhode Island, because i dont like buying shirts online because i cant try them on, so i dont know how they'll look on me.

thanks!

Well alot of those shirts you listed were about 10 and 12 dollars. JCPennys has shirts like that they are little pricey though. American Eagle is my favorite (they are expensive but their sale rack is crazy) Like 3$-20$ shirts. Its amazing.


http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1517&itemID=46351&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
This is the one i was saying was 10 dollars, Its really cute.

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Where can i get tracfone ringtones? i've tried yahoo, ive tried google..i've tried everything, can anyone please help?

Do you have internet access on your phone if not your going to need a usb cable for your cell phone you can buy one from walmart or your phone provider. Go to google and type in tracfone ringtones i found lots of links.


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what did i do to diserve a 2???

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Ok so my crushes brother is about to tell me he likes me, and he doesn't know that I already know since he's so bad at keeping shut with a secret now I really don't want him to like me more than a friend because then my crush will obviously find out and then will respect his brothers feelings and stop flirting, talking, etc with me how do I turn him down nicely without sounding mean and still keep our friendship?

Just let him down lightly tell him that you really like him as a friend and you wouldn't want to jepardized the friendship that yall have. If he's not good at keeping things to himself its a possibility that he has already told "your crush". Dont sweat it though if your crush really likes you he want let some little crush his brother has affect yalls relationship.

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My best friend Mike is in Florida for a week starting yesterday (I'm all the way up in Maine) and I miss him already. He just left today, and I've been away from him for about 2 weeks already. I just saw him 2 days ago ... but i already miss him. I'll see him on the 9th but he's my best friend and I haven't really been away from him this long, since we've become the greatest of friends during this past year. What can I do to get my mind off him / miss him less? I can call his cell, but he'll probably be busy down there and talking to me will probably not be his top priority (he's there for a basketball tournament.) Oh yeah and my other best friend Kody is down there with him...so that makes it even worse. haha, any advice's appreciated.

Thanks so much :>).

(p.s.- I'm a girl and 14 - he's 15.)

Sounds to me like a little more than your best friend. You must really like this guy. Really there is nothing you can do to miss him less. It is good to miss people because when they come back you realize how much they really mean to you. Do you have any friends that are girls that could come stay the night with you or that you could stay with sometimes spending time with someone else can help get your mind off of him.

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Okay well my boyfriend is going to be out of town for 3 days. I have been checkin out this really hot guy and I have the feeling he's into me so how should I approach hanging out with him? Should I be like Hey ___, _____ is out of town we should hang out! Or what that would be kind of weird. How should I approach this!!

So, What are you looking to do with this guy. If you want to be with someone else whats the point that your even with your boyfriend. First break up with your boyfriend or else you'll look like a liar,cheater and a skank. So think about what your doing. Don't be so quick to make decisions.

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It doesn't matter if thats the answer you were looking for. What did you wan't me to say... Oviouslly if you know the answer you WANT you already know the answer.

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How do you make your font diffrent coolors on myspace?
i forgot

sumin like


idunnno
help
thanx

Your paragraph goes here

you can also edit the size.
visit this html help site its the best

http://www.lissaexplains.com/html.shtml

:catieannmiller:

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About a year ago I stopped eating meat and wearing leather. My parents are foreign and don't understand it at all. They bought me a jacket and it's lovely. On the tag it says "genuine leather- 100% nylon, 100% polyester."

I know genuine leather means real leather but my friend told me that nylon and polyester are vegan? I don't understand how that works.

Is the jacket real leather or fake? Can leather be REAL if it's not made from animals?What is nylon and polyester??


and the jacket wasn't too expensive and I know real leather is supposed to be really expensive.

Help me please :)

Genuine leather MEANS (Gunuine leather) the nylon and polyester is probably the other materials on the jacket.

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There is this guy from my workplace that I know has a bit of a crush on me. I sort of like him back too. I had heard from several people that he had a drinking problem but so far it had just been rumours. Well last tuesday on my day off I went to the bottle depot and I ran into him. Initially he said hi, but then he got really quiet as we sorted bottles next to each other. All I had were empty diet pop cans, but he had boxes and boxes of empty beer cans. I sensed he was embarrassed because he was so quiet, and normally he's really talkative so I quietly collected my money and left. I just saw him yesterday at work after this happened, and his head jerked a bit when he saw me and then he looked away. He used to act sort of macho and cool around me, now it's as if someone has burst his bubble. I feel bad because we were finally getting comfortable around each other. Do you think he's embarrassed? And how should I act around him now?

He's most likely nervous around you know. When you saw him did you flirt with him in anyway? He is most likely realizing that you do like him back and it makes him nervous. If it is about the beer and your sure of it, talk to him. Just sitting down and having a coversation can cure everything.
;Catieannmiller;

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ok i like this boy and he likes me to he told that to my face and then said to me that he didnt want to go out with me because he thinks ima going to get as fat as my sister but im not and my sister aint even that big so some one help me and please dont tell me to forget him theres other fish in the sea because i cant forget him its like hes part of me now and i cant get away from him i see him every where i go and i cant avoid him so please some one help me before i go crazy!!!!!!:[

Okay first of all if hes worried your going to get "fat" you don't need to be with a guy like that AT ALL. So basically hes saying if yall did happen to date and you gained weight he would no longer date you. You deserve someone who isn't shallow. Your 13 right? Focus more on school and doing things for yourself. You have the rest of your life for boys.

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I read somewhere about a guy who took birth control Pills for like months, and he grew breasts because of all the estrogen in it, i've looked on goolge and all that, but have'nt been able to find out if this is true, or even possible, or healthy, does anyoen know what the effects of birth control pills would eb on a male?

I have no idea where you saw that but it is deffinatly not true. Birth controll pills dont even affect men. Men do have levels of estogen but not enough to grow boobs. Now a hormone pill that is a nother story.

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i'm 13 and i want to find a job to raise money. is there any places i can work at? i rate realli high! but there is one problem..i love babysitting..but there isn't many people i know with younger kids. so besides babysitting..what else?

Well you dont just have to babysit "KIDS"..you could dog walk or animal babysit..you can start a cleaning service w/ your friends..You can Mow....the small things count!! Money is Money! at least your making it rite...i hope i helped~~
;catieannmiller;

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hi ! i didnt kno the proper category but i had gotten my belly button peirced . i love it!! and my healing time is up and i wana take out my original ring and put in a new one i bought . this may sound dumb but i dono how to get then ring out . its a circle/hoop ring and the bead is over it and i dono how to remove it . can neone please help me ! :\ ??i rate high!

Hey how are you? well i have mine done too..what u do since u have a differnt type is u just have to pop the ball rite off its not screwed in or anything but the two ends of the belley button ring are holding the ball in Btween them..
HOPE IT HELPZ!! '
ps..it might hurt a lil bit so dont git too cocky! lol...
+*+*catie+*+*

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List what you think the top five fashion MUSTS to have in your closet will be this fall...I could use some tips on whats gonna be in fashion...!!! Thanks!

1. cute lil American Eagle Graphic tee's
2.Sheer tees
3.Ponchos- thanx to jessica simpson
4. xtra long sleaves -thanx to jessica simpson
5.american eagle jeans- fit soo good last soo long

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

OK for starters, if he's your best friend you shouldn't care what people think about yall as a couple. but if you really arent ready for a relationship let him know how u feel.. u cant let him standing in the dark.. you wont be breaking his heart, you'll be giving him Your feeling and if he cant accept that then he's not that great of a friend then.. I've been in your place PLeanty of times.. i had a friend named cody, well we decided to become more than friends one day and things were going great till we got in a big argument..and i lost him so not only was i loosing a Boyfriend I was loosing a BEST FRIEND... and we havent talked since...and i regret ever being more than friends w/ him now!!!
just do what your heart leads you to do..
+*+*catie+*+* Goodluck**

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

Well in this case he hasnt said he likes you back .. and you cant force a relationship to happen. if he knows you like him and he hasnt done anything about it then he's probally shy OR hes just not intrested..no offince to you but some things just cant be forsed.. but you can try by getting to know him a little ..ya know to grab his attention.. that might work for you.
+*+*catie+*+* goodluck

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

Ok here the plan .... Ok first get up the nerve to tell him....then confront him when he's NOT around his friends (guys tend to git cocky around their friends) and DONT just bust out with hey i like You... let him know your into things he is and that You'd think it would be great if yall could hang out sometime...and im sure u can take things from there.............ps...if things dont work out w/ it, he'll at least accept the fact that your open and can express your feeling on an openly level and he'll respect you for that!
+*+*catie+*+*+* GOODLUCK!!

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