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Hi my name is saavik. My name is weird and many people dunno weather im a guy or girl wqell for the record im a 13 year old girl. I think i give pretty good advice but i hate it when people ask stupid fucking questions and then get mad when people laff or dont take them seriously so dont ask me stupid questions bc ill make u look like a real ass but besides that i can help u with A L M O S T anything so ask away


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there is going to be a dress up day at school on s. patricks day and we have to wear a st. patricks day shirt i love good luck bear from the carebears selection does any one know where i can get a good luck bear shirt??? (link)
JCPenny usually has them and wal-mart does also


ok well i love sports,iv played sports for 7 years but anyways ever since about 2 months ago i have been gettin these really painful pains in my knees & achillies tendons(they hurt very bad) after i finish a sporting event(football game,track practice, e.t.c. I told my parents about it but they just said it will go away soon but it hasnt! my science teacher said they wher growing pains but i dont belive her.CAN ANY1 HELP ME! i'll rate 5

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It might be growin pains or it might be pains from playing so many sports. Regardless of what it might be ask your coach, skool nurse, and/or your docter their answers mite be a little bit better that what your other teachers and parents say. good luck


Ok well I'm 13 years old, 5'5, and 104 pounds. Is that ok, or am I underweight? Because I have a REALLY high matabilism.. and I'm always afraid that.. well this is going to sound weird... but I'm afraid that It's going to catch up to me and make me so fat!!.. What do I do to make me gain some weight?? (link)
You're not underweight. And yeah eventually your matabilism will slow down as you get older so you might wanna watch what you eat when you get older. I don't really think you need to gain weight at all. But if you feel you need to gain weight then i would say to exercise. Mussel weighs more than fat and ull get bigger and stronger mussecls by working out...in turn you will gain weight but it wont be jiggily fat ya kno lol.


i think im cursed or something.. i have been sick (stomach flu) about 5 times in the past 2 months. it has been on and off. I was sick right before christmas, the day after christmas, new years(yea i couldnt go to a party or anything) and then once in January. Now Im sick again. Its horrible i will throw up, lay down, then when i get back up i have to throw up again. and all i ate this morning was a powdered doughnut. i also used to have an extreme pain on my right side.. it was so bad it made me throw up and i wasnt able to walk.. could someone tell me whats wrong with me.. or how to get rid of this stomach flu? (i have gone to the doctors but they didnt find anything) (link)
maybe you should call the hoispital and ask to speak with a docter that would be able to tell u if anything is wrong. describe what you have, ppl in hospitals are more advanced and it could also be the flue...this year their are 200 new cases of diff flues...and if your in skool its easy to cath a lot of diff flues


im a 15 year old girl, and there is this hot senior guy that i have a big crush on. he has all the characteristcs i look for in a guy, and i have been in love with him for a long time. ive asked him to the dance, and he said yes. however, he gives me a lot of mixed signals, saying that underclassmen and senior relationships are bad, while also saying that he would love to go to the dance with me and that he would have a hella good time with me. how do i know for sure if hes interested in me or not? (link)
You need to ask him. But chances are that he likes you and thinks your pretty regardless of the grade your in but his friends probably think other wise and he dpesnt wanna be made fun of... guys can be so cruel. but you really need to ask him hey im glad we r goin to the dance but is something wrong i feel like you have been givin me dirty looks" or sumthin on the lines of that


On Valentine's Day, I got a note in my locker that had a poem in it, and it was signed Secret Admirer. At first, I thought it was just this guy, right? And I go around laughing about it. And then I get a second note today, which tells me that the person is a girl. She says that she really likes me, but if I don't like girls, no hard feelings. I know who it is, because I asked a couple people and I just got this feeling. The person who wrote it is a really close friend of mine, and I feel awkward around her now, even though she doesn't know that I know. What should I do? And I can't even rule out the possibility that I might be gay, even though I think I'm straight. I might be bi. I don't know. What do people think? (link)
if u dont feel atracted to her then you rnt bi and are strate but u need to tell her you kno it was her and you dont like her that way but no matter what you will always be her bes friend. but being bi well there is nothing wrong with that i didnt think i was bi but my friend asked me out and i said yes, just to expiriment, and turns out im bi, so its up to you


I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP! (link)
tell her, but why did u brake up with her in the first place
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There's a dance coming up at my school. My boyfriend is in a lower grade then me and he can't go. But My Mom is trying to get me to ask my best-guy friend to go with me. I dont Know If I should. Help please? (link)
ya, go with him its not like it would be anything more than goin their as friends and just make syure its ok with ur bf


My dog is a sweet Fullblooded boxer. The problem is she wont stop bitting my feet and when I walk she pulls on my pants.She is about 7 mounths, WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
um...gtrain her, get help from ur friends and parents and if that dont work hire a professional


My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ?? (link)
why does it matter if he is gay


What should I get my friend (13/f) for her b-day?

She likes happy bunny
She likes boyz
She likes fun stuff for her room (link)
dildo with happy bunny on it


i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!! (link)
pro active


My friend moved away and I really want to get in contact with him.

I didnt get the info because we were mad at each other at the time, and I didnt want it.

His step-mom and Dad are't being helpful. I dont think they really like me or something.

How can I get in contact with him? He only lived where I live for 4 months and I dont know anybody he might have given his other address to..

HELP!
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ur at a loss, u cant talk to someone if no one knows where they are


Hi, I recently got a perm. It kinda went bonk-o on me.

I'm going to have it layered and that will fix most of the problem, but I need to find out how to replenish the mouisture in my hair for good.

I've tried different stuff but it just doesnt work. Its so annoying! What do I do?
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try the garnai stuff i think that how its spelled and get the color treated kind its in a green bottle i think it smells funky but it helps puttin the vitamins and mierals back in your hair


Hey
sorry this is kind of a wierd question and please dont delete i really need to lknow...like what is sexually harrasing(sp)? Liek what does a person have to do inorder for it to be sexually harassing (link)
grabbing your ass, tits ect


I'm in 8th grade and haven't really thought about this guy much..i've just noticted him. He keeps on telling me that this other guy is flirting with me, but the other guy hardly talks to me. maby eits a joke. I'm starting to like this guy though. I sit next to him in computers, but I don't know what to talk about anymore. We used to talk and laugh all the time. I really want him to ask me out. How do I lead him on?
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start a casual talk or start to talk about your teacher. then later be like so you like anyone and if he says no and then asks you who you like make him guess until he guesses right.


I didn't know what to put this under but i truley need some advice... i will rate rate you high even if you just try. I'm got in a fight with my teacher today and i got arrested and my mom picked me up at the jail a few hours later. I have court and that was my last strike so i am gettin sent away. this has been streesing me out all day , and i can't stop crying. The hardest part was seeing my best friend crying in my arms and telling my boyfriend.. ne ways what I'm asking is what should i do or say that will make everyone feel better including me. (link)
Nothing, im sry to say, people cant feel better about you leaving right away its gunna take time and your gunna be the one most sad. Good behavior is what i suggest and then maybe then will let you come back, and i kno where you are coming from except i havent gotten to bein sent away yet but jdc sucks. try to keep out of trouble and try not talkion back say it in ur head and when you leave your class you can blow up


Take this in mind before you help me!
-I HAVE TOLD HIM MY FEELINGS
-We have went out before
-WE are bestfriends now

Okay?!

I used to go out with my now bestfriend.. But I broke up with him after about 2 months into it.. But now its like.. 9 or 10 months later and i still like him.. alot.. cant stop thinking about him always wondering wahts on his mind kinda bull crap and he is off liking other girls.. and i tell him everything.. and thats why im here.. i cant tell him this one thing.. and thats.. Im thiknig about telling him i think we shouldnt be friends naymore.. cuz im sick and tierd of being hurt.. him always talking about another girl and crap.. knowing i cant have him.. its hard to explain but thats what i want to do.. but then theres this thing about how if i did tell him to just leave me alone , that i would miss him even more and prolly end up going crazy.. So what would u do? Tell him to leave me alone.. or just deal with the hurting .. (link)
Neither, he doesnt klnow he is hurting you bout talkin other girls. guys are morons. But since yoo said yoo told him your feelins be like hey you know i really like you and your my best friend but it irritates me when you talk about other girls. he will understand


What do people think of a guy getting there ears pierced? IM not talking the lobe im talking the cartilage (link)
its usually sexy n hott but on some guys they look gay


Okay. Well I like this guy but I have never met him. My friend has though. It's still weird though, likeing someone I have never met, but I really do like him. I dont know what i should do. Should I like him? Or am i just being weird? We talk alot. On the phone and on the internet. And its not like hes just some random person i know nothing about. He's friends with one of my good friends. It wouldnt be hard to go and meet him. But i just dont know if i should like him right now. (link)
you cant just stop likeing someone and turn the feeling for them off it doesnt work like that. go meet him




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