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Q: okay so my boyfrined came over last night and we were kissing on my couch. and he like pulled my shirt up and started kissing my boob and sucking on it. i was so turned off by it. i pushed him off and moved to the other side of the couch it grossed me out. 1. because it reminded me of a baby getting milk.2. because thats freaking weird to me.
so my question is do people like that i mean on a guys point of veiw do they enjoy that? and how should i tell him that i think thats weird wiht out being rude?

to be honest, I would be the same way lol.
if I were you I would just tell him how i felt.
it's your body and if he really loved you he'd understand and respect your decisions.

Just tell him you don't like it.
if he gets mad then let him he'll get over it sooner or later.
most likely he'll understand.

Q: Recently at school I got really hot, stressed and anxious at the same time and I got red from my chest all the way up to my face. It wasn't hard to breathe and I didn't pass out or anything. I just don't know what happened, and someone told me I might have high blood pressure or had an anxiety/panic attack. Has this happened to anyone or does anyone know what it could be?

that's happened to me befor.
well kinda. theres been times
when I'm just sitting there and then I start getting really hot and dizzy.
usually its because my blood sugar is low
and I need to eat!
sometimes it happens when you get stressed.
but it happens to everyone!

hope my advice helps.

Q: me and my dad used to be really close but then came my stepmother and don't get me wrong I love her but I feel my dad only listens to her now and he always talks about her what should I do and dont say confront him because I've tried that and we all started fighting and it came back to her asking if she's ok

I've been in the same situation, my parents got a divorce my dad met this chick on the internet (match.com) and like a week after he met her in person she moved in, we barely knew her and my dad was like "in love" with her.. she was all he cared about, all he talked about, she would steal mine and my sisters stuff which really made us mad, she tried her best to get my dad to hate me and my sister, we didn't get along with her at all and one day we just got so fed up with all her crap so we told her how we felt and she got my dad to kick us out.. she wanted my dad all to herself she didn't understand that he has the responsibility of two kids, and that it's hard for kids to except there parents relationships but anyways he picked her over his own kids..
most stepmoms want the dads all to themselves
expecially if they don't have kids, that's why i'd rather prefer my dad dating someone with kids.
that way they understand the whole divorce thing and they don't try to ruin mine and my dads relationship.

it's normal to feel like that.
my dad was the same exact way he would take up for his girlfriend all the time, even if she was wrong.. Just because he was scared to be alone.

it's hard but it's just something you're gonna have to get used to, the more you try talking to him the more it will make him mad and the more yall were fight. Trust me i've been in the same exact situation you're in and trust me it's not pretty.

Now I just try to except my parents relationships, If my parents are happy then i'm happy. Luckily my dad dumped that girl and now he's dating this new girl that has kids, she's not that bad but sometimes I still wish that my mom and my dad could still be together.

I hope my advice helps, and I hope everything gets better between you and your dad :)

Q: im the first born. i have younger brother and sister and my parents are harder,stricter towards me. they spoil the younger ones. its so unfair. they even know it and they just tel me what ever. they actually dont care.

any advice? i dont know what to do and i wanna act out but dont knwo how!

every older sibling feels like that.
I have an older sister and she feels the same way!

but your parents love all of yall the same, the only reason they treat you differently is because you're older and you're more mature, they want you to be a better exsample on both your younger brother and sister.

sometimes it's also harder to take care of younger kids, they're more of a hassle that may be why your parents pay attention to them more?

every kid thinks that parents pick favorites, and they think that there parents love there other siblings more.
trust me it's natural, I feel that same way all the time.

hope my advice helped.

:)

Q: my best friend lies to me allllll the time. about probably everything. i never know what to even believe anymore. like nothing huge, but just small stuff. like i'll ask her what she did tonight, & she'll be like oh i went to the movies with my sister. & really it was her other friend. & i don't know why she lies about this? i dont care if she went there with other people? i hang out with other people too, ha? i confronted her about it, and she said she wouldn't do it again. but obviously she still is. what do i do? i don't even know if i should bother being friends with her.. i kinda feel like shes holding me back.. nobody really likes her.

Everybody has atleast ONE friend like that..
if you're one of those people that doesnt want any drama then I would just not talk to her, find a new group of friends that you can actually trust that won't lie to you to hang out.
if noone likes her then you don't have to worry about people getting involved with yalls fight. why be friends with someone who lies to you all the time? obviously she's not a true friend.

if I were you I would just stop being her friend.
hope my advice helps :)

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