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OK, so my "friend" and i just got in a HUGE fight. We've been "friends" for two years but have gotten in SEVERAL serious arguments. Against our parents wishes we remained friends through out the years even though she would treat me horribly. Like I said before we just got in a big fight and totally decided not to be friends. Since the fight she hasn't gone out of her way to be mean to me but just being around her makes me remember all the times I've cried because of her being un-kind. We used to go to the same Bible class but since the fight I can't even stand being around her hardly being in the same room as her. I want to go back to Bible class but can't get over the fact of what she did to me. What should I do? And how do I TOTALLY forgive her, but remain not being friends?
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talk it out. but let her know you dont want to be friends with her. she might apologize for everthing. see if you might have done somthing that hurt her. but you should still go to your bible class even if she is in it, it shouldnt matter. just do what you want and dont let her and this fight hold you back from being yourself. :]
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Q: ok so i really like this guy. and he use to like me but now he like hates me and we were going to go out and he told me he really liked me but then just randomly he went out with his old girlfriend that he went out with for like over a year or something like that.. and i got mad at him and now hes not talking to me..what do i do?
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thats a tough one. you should talk to him, he kinda sounds like a friend i have. i mean if you really like him you should talk to him about it, see what you can work out. but if its just a little crush you probably shouldnt worry much over it.
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Q: ok so i have been going out with this guy for about a week and a half and he is really cool. but he is like a year older than me and we dont talk that much. sometimes i feel like i cant be myself around him and im not sure if i still like him but im really confused cuz i dont want to break up with him cuz i dont want to regret that
if i did break up with him how would i do it?
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just like straight up tell him that you really like him but you guys never talk and you cant really be yourself around him..he should understand
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Q: Okay, so i'm currently with this guy who is about two years older than me and he keeps on telling me that he likes me a whole lot and that i am the coolest and nicest person in the world, and stuff like there's no one else he'd rather be with.. but i'm beginning to get second thoughts because he goes to a totally diff school and so i'm not so sure if i should be worrying on how he acts around other girls when im not around. Any advicee?
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Well, you should probably worry a little but not to much. I mean you should talk to him about it. See how he really feels about you. Maybe start talking to some of his friends that are with him alot, see if they see him hitting on other girls. Its a little hard not to worry when he doesnt go to your school though. I hope i helped :]
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Q: One of my friends introduced me to a guy that goes to the school I might have to switch to next year. My best friend(who goes to that school) got us together after we had hit it off really well the first few times we saw each other. Before we broke up, we talkedto each other everyday. We talked about everything, too. When we broke up we still talked to each other everyday, but about a moth after that he got a new girl friend. I stopped calling him and didn't talk to him for about 1 month. When I was going out with him my best friend who htes him, tried to get me to break up with him saying "He's not a virgin, all he wants from you is sex, and I didn't really think he would actually ask you out." And now she swears it saying I would be a whore or something to get backwith him. Then just about a week ago he calledme, saying "I'm sorry for hurting you, I never really wanted to but it was a long distance relationship and I thought I actually liked her but all she wanted was sex, and I'm not giving that to her." And I believed him. When I told my friend she said he was just faking it and that he probably wanted the sex and she wouldn't give it to HIM. I've always believed my ex, and my friend, but i don't know who to belive now. And just the other day, his brother who is my freind, one of the best ones I know, was teasing me and him because we are virgins. Who do you think I should believe and should I ask him about it? and shout I not get involved with him, even though my friend would probably kill me, but sh'e sgoing out with someone I dislike and wish she wasn't going out with. And my other friends and I have talked about it and I agreed I wouldn't get back with him until I've talked it over with her, and him both, together. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you for your help
Jenn
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You should talk to him about it befor taking sides. I mean i dont know either of them so its hard for me to tell you who to believe, but i mean it kindof depends how trustworthy they both are. And you should defenently get back with him after you solve that :] you sound like you really like him. I was in this part of the situation befor. Your friend shouldnt get mad for who you date, they need to get out of all your business. They dont pick who you like/love and they defenently dont make your decisions for you. i hope i helped :]
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Q: Okaay so my friend is such a flirt! its so annoying she will flirt with every freaking guy even when she has a boyfriend! ARGGHHH.. i have told her what she does all the time but she doesn't really care, or she gets mad at me for saying that. any advice?
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Ask other friends if they think she is. Or maybe when you have some alone time with her have a talk about it, she might just blow it off usually because there are other things going on around her that she is into. If that doesnt work then you should probably try to get past it.
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Q: I like this girl..But I just met her a week or so ago, but she likes my best friend. I don't know what to do, any ideas?
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You should talk to her more, tell her how you feel. She could like you when she gets to know you better.
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Q: Hi im a 16 year old guy and a sophomore in hs..i have always kind of liked this girl since i met her in 6th grade..we went out a couple oftimes but ended up breaking up..i tried other girls but none compare to her...ive told her in the past but she said she didnt want to risk losing me as a friend even though i told her that would never happen...now shes dating this senior and hes done some really wierd things and idk ive seen him when she wasnt around and it seemed to me and another friend that he was flirting with three girls that are sophomores as well...i dont tell her becuase i dont think she'll believe me and i dont know if he was flirtiing or not i ouldnt hear just see..so should the real question is should i tell her how much i care for her while she has this boyfriend of about 4 months or wait until they break up which my guess would be when he goes off to college? thanks in advance
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You should just flat out tell her how you feel. Maybe she's doing what you did and just seeing if there is better. You never know, she might feel the same way :]
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Hi, Im Breanne. I love to have fun. And i guess im pretty good at giving advice.? Mostly at the whole boyfriend/girlfriend, problems with friends or people thing.
Feel free to ask anything :]
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Texas AIM: Member Since: March 20, 2007 Answers: 28 Last Update: May 20, 2007 Visitors: 1905
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