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15/f.
I have never made out. I know its sad, im old! :P But whenever I just peck a guy he tries to stick his damn toungue in my mouth. And I back away like noo! I would love to just go and makeout with the world, but I am worried I will make a complete fool of myself and then like the guys will be like wow what a loser haha. I know it comes natural, but when I'm about to makeout with someone I just get all weirded out and freaked, even with a guy I am seriously attracted to! It makes me sad when I can't just go out and have fun and kiss the cute guy I'm hanging with haha! Plus I want to actually have a boyfriend, and when guys ask me out I turn them out, because its weird to date someone without making out or doing anything. My last boyfriend all we did was hug and peck haha. What would help me not be so nervous and just do it already?! Also, after I get the hang of that, say I'm in a relationship..well I am NOT giving it up to some guy I'm dating, thats for marriage. But will the guy like leave me if the only thing we do it makeout, like not even bj or hj or any of that stuff? I would think most guys would at least want more than kissing.. :/
Thanks so much sorry its long I appreciate everyones answers and for reading all this! (link)
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its totaly normal for you to be scared. everyone is before they do it. look kissing is easy if your scared that your going to make a fool out of yourself when your kissing maybe you should try telling that guy that you havent ever kissed someone. dont worry about all the other stuff yea guys like it but thats life :) if your not ready your not ready! if they dont like it kick there ass to the street! i promis that when your with someone you trust and someone you really care about all that other stuff with just happen.
try not to think about it so much your freakin yourself out just let things happen once you makeout with a guy your really doing to look backa nd relize its not as scary as you thouhgt!
p.s just have fun your 15 its not like not hooking up with a guys is going to kill you. but i wouldnt say no to a guy just because you dont wanna makeout with him and not ever guy is that into hooking up you just have to look for the right one but your never going to know unless you try something new!
hope everything works out :)
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ive been using tampons for awhile and i love them...but they ALWAYS leak, not a lot but still. so i have to wear a pad too. i use playtex gentle glide super. advice please? thank youu (link)
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well there not always going to hold.
try using panty liners as well there smaller and there not as annoying as the hige pads lol.
p.s its nothing to worry about if its leaking, it just means your a girl.
hope that answers your question.
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does it mean anything for a kid to not play/hang out with people his/her own age? like with older people means he/she is more mature and younger less mature? (link)
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not always it could be that they like hanging aound different people who happen to be older but it can also mean that they might think the kids there own age arent as understanding or they just perfer to be around older people who yes.. might be more mature...
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My boyfriend family is always nagging him, and his sister always gets her way, no matter what. I feel really bad for him but i don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. and sometimes when he gets mad, he really scares me, he might start punching his truck or just really getting mad. And lately its just annoying me really bad, because not only the fact that i have no idea how to calm him down, but he gets mad at the smallest stupidest things that i just don't under stand why he can't ingore. So can anyone help me by telling me ways to calm him down? (link)
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i understand being scared when someone gets mad. i lived in a house like that, i can really only say one thing if he doesnt get help then it could get even worse, if he is hitting his truck when he gets mad who knows the next thing could be your face. listening to him helps you dont always have to tell him something just letting him no your there when he needs you sometimes is all it takes.
if i were you i wouldnt be with him much longer if this keeps happening theres no point in being with someone who gets mad about everthing, because you dont wanna be the one that gets him that pissed.
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okay so since day one [ literally ]i`ve liked this girl named [ a ] .. i really started feeling this chick like A LOT .. then i decided to date my best friend [ b ] .. who not to mention lives in a different state .. once i went on vacation up there for a week &half .. we connected really good & we both fell quick and hard. you can say we were headed to the LOVE part. well days before i had to come back, [ b ] told me that she didnt feel comfortable w. me coming back & being friends w. [ a ] due to the fact that she's scared that i might fall for her again. so basically she made me choose between being w. her [ b ] or being friend w. [ a ] .. well i never was the person to choose between two ppl .. i just couldnt so i told [ b ] that i couldnt choose .. so w. that said, she broke up w. me. [ b ] tried to fix things after a while but i just was too hard headed to change. now im reminising on the times we had & missing the fact that i could call her mine. she seems to be moving on but there are days where it seems like she feels the same way. idk what to do to get her back. idek if i should or just let her go. i really need help a.s.a.p before its too late =/ (link)
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first things first i dont think that it was right for [b] to tell you to choose she should have trusted you to be hers ya no, i think maybe telling her how your feeling would make things better. . . i think she only broke things off with you because she hasnt had the best of luck when it comes to boys, and was scared of getting hurt. . . maybe telling her how much you care about her and how much you want her back. . . that might help alot. . . but if things dont work for you there are so many other girls out there how arent as far away :)
hope things work out
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Alright well me and this guy have been hanging out alot for a couple of weeks now and the other night he admitted to me that he liked me, and I admitted to him that I liked him to ( this was over texting, though not face-to-face ).
So today we hung out and nothing seemed very different. The casual flirting and everything as usual, but nothing else.
I'm just worried that if we ever DO try and be boyfriend and girlfriend, how are we going to make it so it's not akwawrd or anything? Ughhh, I hate going from friends to more, it's always so awkward and difficult. And I've had this happen before and the end result was after a month of dating, I felt like we were just friends nothing more and I broke up him and now he doesn't talk to me anymore and I don't want that to happen with this guy.
Helpppp? (link)
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i undetstand that going from friends to more can be a lil strange... but you have to give things a chance to sink in nothing just happens. if you guys do end up dating and things dont go as you wanted make sure to tell him that his friendship means alot to you.
if thats doesnt help you could try talking to him about you guys dating and maybe bringing up that you think things might be a lil akward between you guys.
i hope things work out for you.
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So, I've been dating this girl for about 15-ish months now. And we both thought it was pretty serious. We've both done our share of hurt to the other, unforgiveable hurt, but somehow, we've managed to get through it.I used to cheat on her (I would always tell her immediately, though), but I've been completely loyal for the past several months.The thing is, is that she cheated on me with this girl who I KNEW would be trouble. And my girl said that after that happened, she didn't want to talk to her anymore, the girl was completely out of our lives. Well, it turns out, she lied. It pisses me off, because well, obviously, she cheated on me with her, and I REALLY don't want them talking, cause I really don't like the girl, and it also pisses me off because she lied to me about it.
And this isn't the first time she lied. She dumped me for my ex's girlfriend, who stole my ex from me. And it was like, she's steealing another girl from me, and my girlfriend KNEW I felt this way, but she decided to go try to be with her anyway. And...
This is all starting to turn into gibberish right now. The point is, I used to be the one looking at other girls. And now she's the one looking at all these other girls, and I know that I hurt her by doing that, but she shouldn't be trying to get back at me like this. I can't do anything about the past now. I've been so loyal to her over these past months.
I also gave her a diamond ring a little while ago, and I just recently took it back. And she just didn't care. And I kind of lost the question that I was going to ask, so it's lamost like, What should I do? I love her, but I don't know how much more of this I can take. She'll end up killing me if she keeps hurting me like this. (link)
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to me it looks like shes wanting to try new things... maybe you should to there are sooo many amazing people out in the world and your never going to know unless you stop holding on to someone thats hurting you! . . . i think that maybe taking a break would be good who knows you might like the singal life better! ;)
hope everything works out for you. . .
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My b/f says he loves me or whatever and i love him but how do i know if he really does love me? (link)
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you will know by the way he acts around you like always wanting to be around you and all over you... you can also tell by the way he says it if he say love ya.. or love you.. me might just be saying it... but if he is looking at you and sAYS i love you, he sould mean it.
hope that helped a lil.
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