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E-mail: blond4life18@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 12, 2004
Answers: 91
Last Update: July 30, 2004
Visitors: 7714
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my friends boy friend wont stop saying hes gonna kill himself but i dunno wat to do ,my friend doesnt know he told me so i was wondering wat do i do???? i mean i dont wanna tell her cuz it will like kill her so if i tell neone else then they will like report him to a mental place so i dunno wat to do!!!!wat do i do?????
thx~~
~*RiSs*~ (link)
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Defanitly get this boy some help. You don't have to tell your friend, and don't tell anyone else so that is won't spread. Take him somewhere or else tell his parents. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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wat does this mean: (link)
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It's a heart
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I don't have alot of friends because everyone thinks that I'm gay. Please help me out (link)
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You have to prove to them that you aren't gay. Go to functions and show them you are cool. Be yourself and they will learn to give you a brake.
Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do? (link)
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Well if it really bothers you, tell her. Explain to her that you know and that you didn't appriciate her not telling you she was moving in on your man( ex ). Hopefully since she is your friend, she will understand. She will still want to date him, so you will just have to let them. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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Hi. I'm a very shy person who just can't seem to overcome that and approach people when making new friends. It's very difficult for me to make new friends because my shyness gets in the way of everything, and I HATE that! I want to become more friendly and out-going so that it will be easy to be making new friends instead of a struggle. If you have any suggestions about how I can be more friendly and out-going then answer this question please, or give me any resources on how to overcome my shyness when making friends-anythings fine with me. I really need your help on this, so please take the time out and answer this question. THANX!!! (link)
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Well I think you writing to us and posting this for lost of people to read it a good step. What you need to do is just be around people. Be yourself and don't worry about what they might think of you. I am always quiet when i meet new people, but then after hanging out with them a couple times, I become more relaxed around them. Maybe talk to them online and chat more. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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I am really worried about my friend. she has been so depressed lately, but she won't tell me what's wrong! How should I deal with this? (link)
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Sit her down and tell her you aren't leaving until she tells you whats wrong. If she really insists she can't tell you, then don't push it. Maybe take her somewhere to get help. Just make sure she talks to someone before she explodes or goes crazy. We don't want her to become more depressed. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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It is really bugging me how all these advice columnists wont quit complaining about not having mail. Maybe if they would quit bugging they would get mail! It is so annoying! why wont they shut up?!?!?!?! (link)
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Because they are here to give advice and they want to be noticed. They want to recieve questions so they can do what they are here to do.
Love, Blonde
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Sometimes I feel as if I'm living a double life. At school, I cuss a little, wear makeup and more expensive clothes; at at church I'm all "love everybody" and pretty much a model Christian-youth prez and ultra-volunteer. Please help! (link)
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You should be the person that you are. If you are the one that wears the name brand clothes, then be that person at church. If you are the ultra-volunteer, then don't cuss at school. You need to find who you really are, but it is okay to be both those people. You just like to please the crowd you are with.
Love, Blonde
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okay me and this gurl r goin out one night she came to my room and we had some fun (if u know wat i mean)her mom came looking for her she caught us and know i cant see her ne more i love her and tried to sneek out but every time i do i get caught
wat do i do
P.S im a 16 year old male (link)
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You need to talk with her parents. Tell them that you love her. You are going to have to not mess around with her anymore. Just date. You have your whole life ahead of you. 16 is too young to be "having fun" in your room. Make her parents trust you and believe what you say. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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My best friend is leaving for the air force in 5 days..I just don't think I can handle it anymore. Any ideas? (link)
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Well unfortunatly you can't hold him back from going, though I wish you could. You must let him go. Make these next 5 days the most unforgetable days of your life. You must do everything fun and crazy you can before he goes. If you have ever though of doing fun but crazy or stupid things, you should go and do it. Live like there is no tomorrow. Good luck and tell your friend I said good luck and I have much respect for him/her.
Love, Blonde
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How come I dont have anything in my INBOX????
I give really good advice but i dont get any mail!!
thanx,
*~bre_babbles~* (link)
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You just have to be patient. I am sure that you give great advice. Just wait for the people who liked your advice to get another question.
Love, Blonde
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When i go over to my friends there is nothing to do so i need some ideas!! ( i am a girl and so is my friend so dont give us any perveted things)!!
thanxs!!!
~*RiSs*~ (link)
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Well i am obsessed with dance. I always make up dances to songs. I coreograph for talent shows and all that kind of stuff. Watch a movie, do your nails, cruse the internet, go to chat rooms, play board games or card games, or even go somewhere. There are movies, minature golf, the pool, and the mall. Go get something to eat. Order something to eat if you can't get out. Good luck and I hope I gave you some new ideas.
Love, Blonde
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me and this gurl have been friends for years snd know shes hittin on me like askin me out on dates and even spending the night which all the fellas know i love and dont get me wrong its nice she is really hot and is the works
wat do i do by the way im 15
Sincerly:The pimp (link)
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I don't know why girls want to hang out with you if you just play them. You can't make this girl think you like her if you don't. If she is your friend, you won't.
Love, Blonde
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hey i gotta problem u see my friend is alwayz choosing her boyfriend over me wat do i do!!?? do i tell her do i tell him??? uh......help me!!!!
thanx~
~*RiSs*~
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Tell her you don't mind her hanging with him, since he is her boyfriend, but she needs to be there for you sometime. You don't need to tell him unless you feel he is making her choose him over you. But defanitly tell your friend how you feel. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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this gurl is totally hot and every day she checks me out and smiles but weve known each other four 8 years i think of us as friends but all of a sudden i have feelings four her
wat do i tell her or wat do i do (link)
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You should tell her. My guess is if she is checking you out all the time and smiling at you, then she likes you. I like a guy and I always smile at him so he will smile back. She is into you! Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Alright my dog died 2 years ago...I'm still not over it and since then I havn't really liked dogs much and my family gets a dog so my little sister will have a dog to grow up with which is cool in all...but like I'm not ready and I don't want to get all attached to it and have it die again. My parents don't understand that at all and think I'm "crazy" b/c I don't pay attention to the dog and they keep yelling at me for it...what do I do? (link)
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Tell them exactly what you just told us. Let them know that it bothers you and that you aren't crazy. They will understand where you are coming from if you tell them where you are coming from. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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well tommorrow is my ex's birthday an we madd tite after we broke up an my other friend joe.. is sellin dime bags.. an my ex (nick) wants one so im kinda gettin in da middle of this drug shit an i just dont wana get cought the problem is that nick moved to ohio an im in Ny... am i alloud to send it or will they find it? how do i get it to him? i really like him an hes my bestfriend an everything but i dunno wuh ta do!! plz help nicks b=day is tommorrow! (link)
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Why the hell are you doing drugs. The last thing I would do is take drugs or give them to my friend. If he is your best friend, why would you want him to take drugs? They will kill him! Yes you will get caught. Don't send him any and don't do any. Drugs are NOT good!!!!!!!!
Love, Blonde
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HoW Do U mAkE UrR OwN AdVicE SitE???? (link)
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Are you talking about here in this website or somewhere else on the web? Please add additional information! Thanks!
Love, Blonde
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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Yes! You never know when you might cut yourself again. As you know, cutting is very dangerous and could kill you if done enough times. You should seak help, but it doesn't have to be too serious since you only did it once. Good luck and please don't cut yourself again!
Love, Blonde
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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Just do what you want. If he says you are copying him just tell him why you are punk. Explain that it is cause of the music you listen to or just the style and way you want to be. If he thinks you are copying him, then he isn't worth it. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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