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Well, theres this guy that Ive been liking for a while now. All of my friends know I like him, and most of his friends know too. Everytime I talk to one of his friends, they'll say something like "ooo, guess what? _______ says he likes you!" or some other thing like that. Are they trying to tell me something,like what he says when theyre hanging out, or do you think they are just immature teenage boys? I really want what theyre saying to be true cuz i really like this guy, but i cant help but think theyre just teasing me. Please tell me what to do about these dorky guys!
its probably a joke...but sometimes there serious at the same time
Hi,
This is the first time I am seeking advice from an advice column.
My boyfriend lives in another country and we are trying to have a long distance relationship.I am a graduate student who also works and my schedule is pretty tight,especially during semesters.
I spend most of my week working and attending class and spend my weekends, ctaching up on class work.My boyfriend has a pretty light schedule at his workplace and spends his weekends out with his friends.Every night, I wake up at 2am just so that we can spend time together for maybe an hour or so ( the time difference!!!). Well, this Friday night, he went out with his friends and came back at 7 30am ,saturday morning.I have no problem with him having a good time, I like going out and having fun too.Its just when he came back,he came online ,and seemed really excited about coming home this "early".It bugged me a lot, it felt like he was trying to rub in the fact that basically I have no life.
I don't know whether its the stress which is affecting me, or his attitude.
I would appreciate some comments.
Its probably stress and how he is acting towards u...now this relationship might not last that long because ur long distance maybe u guyz should just be friends cuz its going to be wayy too difficult 4 u to have a bf n in college now maybe if he was on ur campus tht wouldn't be tht bad!
hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(
D0N'T KILL Y0URSLEF! D0n't even try t0 kill urself that w0uld be terrible think 0f ur family they'll miss y0u and s0 will ur friends and s0 will all 0f us that helped u 0n advicenat0rs! So what if u get made fun of i do too its because i'm short and not popular! It doesn't matter what they think just ignore them! There mean to do tht 2 u cuz u have just as much feelings as them! Hope I helped! LiSsY
okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
Well its always totally great to have a friend thats a guy and especially if he likes u back too....Well since ur friends w/ him either like call him,IM him,or maybe even e-mail him or talk to him in person and ask about what his cousins gf said....then maybe the relationship will start from there...but herez the main thing if u guys break up n he gets together w/ someone n u still have feelings for him then ur going to get pissed off probably! But thats why it is sometimes better to be friends but tell him how u feel cuz he'll understand cuz he likes u too but tell him what i said bout tht! I hope I helped n I hope everything goes well w/ jon! *muah* LiSsY
ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.
Wow....well ur probably going into a stage right now but remember it can harm u too....u'll eventually get over it but like...i think ur just undergoing a stage n u will get over it i promise...maybe u should talk to someone about this a councilor maybe.....but just try not to do this for a few weeks n it might stop now if u keep wanting sex u might have a bit of a problem! Hope I helped! LiSsY
im 40 years old and had 2 abortions .. i know i made a mistake , i wish i cud get pregnant now..
can anyone help ... will i ever get pregnant again..
anamika
ya know thts a mortal sin? but anyway u shouldn't really be asking kids these things cuz we don't know....uhmmm talk to a doctor maybe?
Ok. There's this one thing. I like this guy Brian from my class {my age only 6 months and 2 days older than me} (I got over Felipe). And (ummm how can I put this in a nice way?) he treats me like shit sometimes. He's really smart because his parents are teachers (but that doesn't matter) and sometimes he can be snotty. Sometimes we joke around and sometimes we get pissed @ eachother. Like in class the other day we (the whole class) were talking about Martha Stewat ad house arrest when I remembered that I read something about Martha getting beat up in jail and I tell the class (and I sit right behind Brian) and then Brian turns to me and says "Where did you hear that? A girl magazine?" And I'm like "No Brian. More like US Weekly!" And then he's like "Whatever"... See what I mean?... He treats me bad. How can I get him to see me more of a gf than of "the girl he argues a lot with'? !~*Steph*~! I rAte GoOd!
He probably likes u n being show-offy is his way to show it....n maybe u should try asking him what is his deal when he gets like that n also maybe find out his e-mail,screen name,phone number(cell phone would be better if he has one) n juss ask him if he likes u or just maybe ask him out...lol this would be funny if u acted like his friend n asked him who does he like? lol.....Tell me if I helped n rate me too! Melissy!
hey i know this is kinda a stupid ? but i would like 2 know what yall think: I was just hired as a gymnastics coach and i am kinda chubby like not fat fat but chubby u know but neways i was wonderin if u think ppl would think that it is stupid that is bigish gurl is teach these kids 2 do gymnastics if u know what i am talkin about? i am just curious thanks i will rate you!!!
If your good at gymnastics there not going to care they'll be like omg! if she can do tht so can i! n u'll inspire people who think they can't do that! I hope I helped u n...if people do judge u like tht then there really mean b/c u sound like a really nice person!
ok well me and my boyfriend really love each other and like he made out wit anotha gurl once cuz he waz drunk so im like ok ill forgive u then couple monthz later he kissez my best friend!! but no thatz not it! there waz a dance and we had fun 2gether and after the dance i found out he made out wit her! he waznt drunk this time!! so we broke up and now i fogive him cus i really love him and no i juss found out he f*$# another gurl and she had all these hicky and i juzz found out it waz him who gave her the hicky...wat should i do now? we havent broke up yet, should i still be with him and give him annother chance or should i break up with him?
break up w/ him n don't get back together with him if he does this stuff! tell me if i helped!