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hey im james: 13, 6'2, blue eyes, blackhair.
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Is it normal to think your boyfriend is going to break up with you? I don't like being online because most of my relationships ended that way and I'm afraid of getting notes... My other two relationships were pretty bad and I dunno...Am I too paranoid? (link)
little paranoind if you are like this you might as well break up with him becouse you cant be happy with him
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there is this guy at school who likes me ALOT! and i kinda like him, but hes part of the popular group, and im not really.. im just part of the normal group. His friends asked him "why do you like her, she doesnt hang out with us, she doesnt deserve you" should i go out with him even though his friends said that, and people would make fun of me if i went out with him? PLEASE HELP! (link)
if you go out with him you will get to hang with the group so go with him and then they will see how you really are
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ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff. (link)
it was at least 5 months before i made out with my gf. we did the same things.
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Okay...well...I'm a thirteen-year-old girl and I like a guy. He gives off all of the signals that he likes me as more than a friend. One problem:

He's eighteen.

I know I can't be with him at least at the current time, whether he likes me in that way or not, but it just hurts sooo badly. Worse than I've ever felt about a crush.

Why do I feel this bad, and what can I do to get over him, if there's anything I can do?

Has anyone experienced this?

Thanks for any advice you can give. (link)
you can be with him im with a girl thats older than me and you can be with and older guy
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My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for over two years now and we've celebrated many holidays together. For my birthday, he got me a Dooney and Bourke purse and for Christmas, he bought me a Tiffany's bracelet! He has bought me many gifts that I have loved, and I thought this was great, because he knew my taste and what I would like!! I recently found out that his mom has been telling him what he should get me for these holidays. It kind of hurts my feelings because it makes me feel like he doesn't know me very well at all. He just goes to his mom to find out what he should get me. I have a feeling that someday, she's gonna pick out the ring he should propose to me with!! I hate this!! I want him to pick out this for me himself!! What should I do about this? (link)
My mom helps me out with my gf couse i want her to have what i think she wants. Guys really try he is only doin it becouse he wants what will make you the happiest. its not becouse he doesnt knwo you it is becouse he loves you and he wants the best for you. if you wnat him to pick out the stuff go shopping with him and show him some things you like and that will help. or ask him what he would get you if yall are in a store you like. hope i helped please rate


sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her? (link)
next time he rapes you go to the pokice and they havge rape kits and that will prove that. but for you mom you shouldnt have to suffer and she will be happier knowing that she did the right thing and if your stepdad hits you again tell some body like at school i.e. teacher, guidance counceler, principal or at church if you go. im sry you are having to go through this hope i helped


are you the person who wanted my sn? this is (link)
yeah im the one that wanted it


im 15 and a guy...i work out and all..and i dont excaclt yhave a six pack..but im not fat...and im self consious about my moles...i have a lot of them...and my nipples hang out a bit too...do people notice these things a lot?
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im bout the same na people dont really notice it. only one of my friends has said anything but my gf hasnt.
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how do i finger a girl (link)
put your finger in a girls pussy


what is sex (link)
strong relations between the opisite sex


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this girl named sam i playin my friend for a fool he needs help he does whatever she tells him to do he needs help he even says hi honey to guys if she asks him to hes ubsessed with her and hes a good friend i want him to get out of her spell his name is jeremy (link)
i have friends that are wrapped in their girls. i no what u mean. i just straight up told them what they were doin and some times it worked and some time it worked. just try that


I just wanted 2 say......."MY LIFE SUX"
It sux because wer i live is filled with monsters......literally.......i mean all the gys...ther not even kewl...ther all idiots and ther all hideous.I've lived here my whole life and i kno i wont hve a bf until im 17 or sumthin bcuz here the ppl r all just sik.I can't even believe im askin sum1 on the int 4 advice this is really not like me.And 2 make my life worse.....in my class all grls(except 4 my frend "2 Shy 4 her own good")are lesbians.If nething i see cute gys like 1nce in a wile but they only come here 4 vacation........WDF AM I 2 DO????????!!!!!!!!!!!??????????!!!!!!!!

signed,
Life sux (link)
dont think so negativly. find a guy either in the grade above you or below you if there are none in your grade. i never thought i was goin to find a gf but i went 2 grades up now i have the best one ever so just dont give up hope. i am considered wierd but when people really take the time to know me the seem to really like me. so start to take time to really know the guys.


i have a really complicated sitch but here it goes: ive been with guy A for a bit over a month and since hes really shy, he wont talk to me or make time to be with me.he doesnt like talkin on the phone, in person and he never checks his email. i was the one that asked him out for this reason. he said he liked me and everything but he never shows it and im guessing its cuz hes a bit immature.
anyway, guy B has been my friend for a lil while and i got him together with one of my girlfriends (cuz he liked her) then she broke up with him for no reason...hes a sweetie and did everything to make her happy (he was goth and he kinda changed for her) its been 5 weeks since they broke up and i was talking to him about guy A and how i wasnt sure about him. he told me that bad side about him and how i should wait or just be paitient. then when he was helping me (after talking for 5 hours online) he admitted he liked me. im so confused... i like them both and well im on the verge (dumping guy A) and guy B is on the rebound so i dont know if its "real". please give me your honest view and help. ill rate you for answering honestly...not just go with the first thing that goes through your mind. (link)
guy A prolly just wants to say he has a gf i know that what i wanted but then i got my self into a real relationship which i love. Guy B seams like he tries to do with what makes you happy. the only thing is i dont think the goth thing is cool. but i think go with guy B. only if he will become a christian which by the way you are talken i think u are.


can u help me in so pathetic im inlove wit a boy who barely evn nows me he looks at me sometimes but i dont think he nows i exist im way 2 shy 2 evn say hi how do i talk 2 him
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signed,2 SHY 4 MY OWN GOOD (link)
im a guy so i can tell you what a guy wants. a guy wants you to lok at him and just talk. guys dont care what you say just talk about something a guy likes. if you tell me where you live and tell me what kind of guy he is i can give you some help


Hey! My sister is 10 and she wants a Summer job. Her and her 2 friends want to. They keep bugging me for jobs they can do and I really have no idea what 3 ten-year-old girls can do! If you have ant ideas please tell me! Oh yeah, remeber they're 10!!! 10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10
Please don't say any hard jobs for teens or I rate 1's. Thanx! I RATE! (link)
maybe a car wash like once a week in different locations. or a lemonde stand like on fridays. and maybe cleaning yalls house. i hope yall figure something out


there was this boy, who was a really good friend of mine. and then, one day he told me that he hated me and that he always hated me and that i was annoying and him and i were really tite. today is his birthday, and i called him to tell him happy birthday, b/c i am the GOOD person in this friendship, and he was pretty mean! what should i do??? why duz he hate me so much??? should i tell him something? (link)
i have friends like that. but that is nice for you to call him. he prolly found some new friend that doesnt like u i dont no. but just continue to be nice and things will prolly change


Helloooo I am 16/female and Korean..except I'm kinda preppy..actually very preppy..most of my friends are white..Anyway, is it weird that I only have crushes on WHITE GUYS? Is this normal...or am I racist?? I don't think I'm racist because I do have Mexican and Black friends..I just am only attracted to white abercrombie-type guys...Why??? It's not like they would go out with me though because I'm asian...so if there's a white guy out there, please answer and tell me why won't you go out with me?? I will rate 5's for honest but non-critisizing answers..also I want to know why I know have crushes on white guys! (link)
i think its cool that you like white guys. It doesnt matter if they are white. if i met somebody that is a different skin color but i loved their personality i wouldnt glance twice at their skin color. I am personaly mexican (well somewhat). thats just the kind of guy you like i dont critizize it.
hope i helped


does anyone where i could get a crankbait with a squarish lip any help will be fine (link)
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