Hey, I'm Cara. I'll do my best to give advice to jsut about anyone. Pretty good school and street smarts so I can help with a wide variety of problems. Feel free to ask me a question any time. I'm totally a people person and I love to give advice about anything! I am extremely open minded and I don't judge anybody. Hope to hear from you soon! :)
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On AIM, you can make hearts on the font Symbol. What keys do you press? I know you hold down the ALT key but i forgot what keys you press...?
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alt 3 on the number keypad
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my friend is a maniac and likes to inflict pain. he has tried to commit suicide multiplye times. i want to get him help, who should i report him too. he needs serious mental health and he is a serious danger to himself and others around him (link)
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Well there is a suicide hotline that you can call for more inforation about what to do or who to confron. It is 1-800-Suicide, i believe. You are right to try to report him to others. Try telling an adult that you trust and I hope everything works out for you, him, and anyone else the situation may affect.
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Pain is the only thing I can say to explain my stomach lately. My stomach hurts so bad its not even funny, i feel like crying all the time. Yes i`m on my periode but its not that kinda feeling, its not cramps its worst. anyone have any idea what it could be? (link)
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There was this time last year where my stomach was killing me for a couple of days, and I couldn't walk and I threw up because I was in so much pain, I didn't even have food in my stomach. I had to go to the doctor who sent me home, but then after reviewing my tests, to the emergency room, where I had to get transferred to another hospital for an emergency appendectomy. Sooo the moral of the story is it could be serious, it could range from a stomach ache to appendicitis to gastroenteritis, so you should definitely see the doctor. Feel better and good luck :)
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anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot? (link)
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Well places that aren't the clit or g-spot? probably boobs, neck, like the collar bone, and the chest.
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This weekend I am going to a couple parties and am going to be drunk at all of them. I'm debating over whether or not I should hook up with some people. I would like to, but I don't want to worry about the "aftermath". It's with mostly people I don't know, and I'm not going to have sex.
Should I do it or not? What in your opinion are the consequences? (link)
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Well if you make the decision not to hook up with anyone, then you should relate that to the aount you dirnk because hwen you drink, you probably wont think about your previous decisions, depending on how much you drink. If you want to, then go ahead. Its not really my place/business to tell you what to do because I dont know you or your situation. A few months ago, I wasn't drunk, but I hooked up with someone I didn't know and did something sexual that some people consider a little out there (not intercourse or oral) and everyone found out after he told and I got a lot of crap for weeks and it sucked. So whatever your decision, just think about and relate it to the amount your going to drink.
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how do you kiss with braces. if both of you have them, or if only the girl has them? also, I'm always confused on how to start off, I never know exactly where or how to put my lips on theirs without hurting them there. any tips would be great! (link)
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When you kiss without braces, do you lick the other persons teeth? usually not. Its the same with braces. Dont worry about it. I have braces and I have kissed someone with braces, and someone without braces and it makes no difference. They wont get cut or caught or anything. Don't worry!
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So here is the problem. I am in 6th grade. My period is going to come soon, but i'm not sure what day exactly. Since it is getting so hot out all i am wearing is a t-shirt and shorts to school. I nthe winter i just kept my pad and/or tampon in the pocket of my northface and just used it when needed but now i cant do that. i don't know where to hide my tampons/pads. Also since i'm wearing shorts a pad might be able to show through. What do i do?
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I just carry around a small purse or something like that. At school I just keep that stuff, pens, gum, id card, etc. It wont be as much of a problem as it seems.
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Who sings this song? I've tried google and about everything else. It goes:
I'm a cheerleader and you're not, I rule the school and I'm hot...
It's from Bring it On: All or Nothing
My cheerleading squad wants to do a dance to it, no one can find it.
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I looked around on some websites and I think I know what your talking about but Im not sure.
Erica Williams & Marcus Hick - Cheerleader
Hope it helps!
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All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help! (link)
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Whatever you do dont resort to what those losers do. If this guy cant like you for who you are, without drugs and easy sex, he doesn't deserve you. Sometimes, there is just no way that some people will like others and if you have to resort to drugs and being easy, its not ever going to be worth it.
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i dont know what to do. well for the past 4 years ive been smoking ciggarettes. alot of the time with my friends. none of my family knows. i'll be 18 soon in over a month so it probably wont be a big deal since ill be legal. but im sick of having to hide my smoking. its a horrible addiction, but lately ive been so stessed out they are all i have to help my stress. i dont want to tell my parents because i know they will punish me and be in complete shock. my moms boyfriend smokes all the time and ive been stealing his ciggarettes but im afraid he will find out and ill be in deep trouble. i dont know what exactly im asking for but in your opinion do you think i should worry about it for the next month or just eventually tell my parents after i turn 18. little things like going to the doctors and them asking me if i smoke i lie and say no. it does put my health at risk. i feel guilty for smoking..but i dont want to stop. (link)
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Unfortunately, your only real option is sstopping. There is no way that you can please everybody, including yourself, while you are smoking. I'm sure that you know how bad it can be for you health and you have to find a way to stop. Nicotine patches will help wean you off the nicotine in the cigarettes and meanwhile try something that will occupy your hands like snapping a rubber band, or anything, and then make sure that you are doing plenty of things that will keep your ind off smoking. Try sports, shopping, anything. Tr not to let your friends pressure you into it if your trying to quit, explain tot hem where you are coming from. Right now it seems like if you continue this habit there will be problems with your boyfriend, friends, and parents, and that doesn't sound goo.d You can come clean to them and, if you seem intent on trying to stop, they should understand. Good luck.
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Im a freshman in highscchool and my bf's a senior. We havent been goin out for long but i really like him. My parents were fine with him at first but now they think we'r having sex and stuff, so they dont trust me. And my mom wont let me see him anymore, so its difficult because we never get to hang out. And im not aloud to go in his car, and now they wont even let me stay after school for extra help because they think im with him. They are being waaayy too strict and my mom never listens to me when i ell her this. I hate how shes so protective and she doenst let me do like anything. Its annoying and i seriously want to move out, but i cant. Its stressing both me and my bf out, but he said hes not goin to let it get to him because he really likes me and wants our relationship to last. But its so agrravating how they wont let me do ANYTHING! how can i get them to give me more freedom? and what do i do about seeing my bf? (link)
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That is pretty strict. You should start with talking to your parents about why they dont want you to see him. Let them know that you know wand understand where they were coming from and just tell them that you aren't having sex and that you will talk to them when you start. Or you could invite your boyfriend over to dinner, if your parents want, and they can talk to both of you in a mature, calm way. Good luck.
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I'e always shaved "down there" but I've noticed lately that I've been getting bumps lately. A few of them have scarred but most of them go away after a while. Is there anyway to fade the scars and prevent scarring and bumps from occuring again? (link)
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Make sure that the razor you use is sharp and shave when you are in the shower so the hair is moist. If it is really long, trim it first. Use shaving crea, conditioner, or lotion then shave. Using bikini zone is really helpful and make sure to put a thin layer of Vaseline, unscented lotion, or deodorant, then wear cotton underwear.
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i saw u were a good answerer so i want to ask u this how do i pierce my ears by my self my ear lobbs will it hert (link)
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I would highly recommend that you get your ears pierced professionaly because it could be dangerous if you did it yourself. Your ears could get infected very easily and it could be more painful if you do it yourself.
However, if you insist on piercing your ears yourself, make sure the needle is sharp enough. Burn the tip of the needle to sterilize it and have a sharp pair of earrings on hand. Make sure you also own antiseptic for your ears (Claires sells it). Use ice to numb your ear and hold an apple in the back so the needle has something to go into. Be very careful and make sure your ear, the needle, and the earring is clean. If you can, get a friend to assist you. Be very careful and again, I highly recommened getting your ears pierced professionally, it is inexpensive an doesn't hurt other than a small pain and tenderness during and after for several minutes but it doesn't hurt that much. It will hurt more if you do it yourself.
Good Luck. :)
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16/f
my freshman year i got accepted to one of the top performing art schools in the nation for vocal performance!! i was so excited!! ever since i heard about it ive wanted to go....My dream ever since i could remember was to be a singer...when i attended school for the first few weeks i noticed that there was a music male teacher that i would always catch looking at me....about 2 months into school, he told me to stay after class because he wanted to enter a song id written in a major record label contest. I walked into his room and he told me to sit on the piano bench and he'd be right back. So i did as he said and got my music out and waited. When he came back he shut the door and locked it he said that he locked it "because he didn't want to be bothered with the janitors" so i didn't think anything of it, kinda thought it was wierd (music rooms are soundproof) but anyway, he sat down next to me and placed his hand on my upper thigh and said im so proud of the progress your making in my class, you're deffinately going to acheive your dream and go somewhere with your talent" he put his arm around my shoulder and acted like he was grabbing my music, and he pushed it off the side on "accident" so i bent down to grab it, and as i bent down he grabbed my butt. and i told him to stop. but then he sternly said, "if you want to pass the class and win the comptetion you'll let me do what i want. Trust me, you want me on your side. I can give you everything you want." I sat back down, giving him another chance, hoping he would stop, but it just got worse as time went on. Long story short, he ended up raping me.
When i threatned him that i would tell, he just said "do you really want to leave this school?? you're parents would take you out of here and you wouldn't get ot pursue your dream anymore." and after i thought about it i realized that i wanted to be a singer more than anything else, and this school would help me out so much. So i continued to put up with it...
This situation has been continuing on and off for about 2 1/2 years now. I haven't told anyone, becuase i don't want to run the risk of anyone finding out becuase then i wouldnt be able to go to this school anymore. I just really feel like i need to talk to someone, but i don't know who to talk to. I don't feel comfortable telling my boyfriend, bestfriend, or anyone whats going on.
What should i do? I want to continue achieving my goals, and the school helps out with this alot, but at the same time i want the abuse to stop. I'm sorry this is so long, thanks so much for taking your time to help.
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What happened to you shouldn't have happened and you have made a big step in telling people online.
You wouldn't leave the school, your teacher would. What he did to you was so wrong and the guy is a sick sick person. You should really tell someone because he could do this to another person and then they would have to go through the things that you went through, and nobody should have to go through that. He should be punished to the fullest extent of the law for what he did to you. You should really tell someone. You dont want this to build up inside of you. Im sorry that this happened to you. You are a brave, strong person though for making through it and asking for help.
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i have a prblem cause i really want to shave my pubes but the thing is that i have an allergic reaction to those cremes that take off the hair for you, and i'm really timid about shaving, as werid as this sounds, but how do you guys do it? in the shower, sink, etc (link)
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Yeah I know what you mean. Waxing hurts and using dilapotory (sp?) creams in that area isn''t usually recommmended because of how sensitive it is. First, trim your pubes because if you haven't done it before then it will be too long. The key is a sharp razor blade, dull ones give you little nicks. If it is dull, you get nicks and it sometimes hurts and there might be like little dots of blood but its not bad. You can shave down but for more complete shave, shave down then up.
If you are scared about it, take it in steps, like first trim your pubes. Then a couple days later or something, shave your bikini areas, then you can shave the entire thing or something like that.
Shave in the shower because your hair is wet and softest because it is moist and steamy in the shower and stuff. Make sure to use shaving cream. For iritation afterwards some people put unscented lotion on the area (but not too close or it could irriate it), vaseline (light coat), or deodorant (obviously a separate deordoant). Good luck. Hope I helped.
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i have a razr phone at cingular and i was wondering where can i get real ringtones for really cheap? like a dollar or two? i dont want a site that i would have to subscribe to also.. thanks (link)
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You can get them from the media page on your phone then just go to buy ringtones, its easiest that way b/c you dont have to put in all this info about your phone or you could just go to the cingular site where each ringtone is around $2.
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What are some signs (big signs and also just the little ones) to tell that your ex boyfriend likes you again?
Please help :)
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He wants to spend more time with you.
Kaughs when you laug.
When you catch him staring at your.
When you talk and he says "Remember when we..." or "Remember when we used to..." haha
etc.
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I'm getting a new cellphone tomorrow. My current cell phone has no sim card, and the service is sprint. All I want to know is if my text messages that are saved to my current phone can be transferred to my new one? Thanks. (link)
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I dont think so if they are not saved to your SIM card but I could be wrong.
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15/m
alright yesterday a girl pantsed me, right in front of the class when i was sharpening my pencil as i walked past her. i took it lightly and pulled my pants up and joked about it for a while, then a half hour later she got up, and i pantsed her back..as a little revenge/joke thing, only she was wearing a thong and well, yah enough said.
i got sent to the principle's office and got suspended for 3 days...it just snowed here so today doesnt count, but still im going to miss monday, tuesday, and wedsnday, for pantsing a girl that pantsed me, (also, the girl went to the principle's office and stuck up for me saying that she had it comming)
yeah uhm what should i do???
p.s. the girl is not suspended. (link)
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I think that your suspension is ridiculous. Its good that you both took it in fun and stuff and that she wasn't mad about it and that you weren't mad about it. You should talk tot he school board about it because its stupid.
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ok this is gonna sound like really gross but is it normal to get a pimple on your butt once in awhile? cause i have one and it really hurts when i sit down. any advice to get rid of it? thanks. and yeah i know its really grosss. (link)
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Yeah thats totally normal. If it is very read and statrs to hurt a lot it could be a harmless cyst. I had a cyst on my upper thigh when I was like 12 an dit hurt really badlly when I would sit down and I had to go to the doctor to get it lanced, but its noral either way. I hope it goes away and feels better!
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