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Okay so, i'm confused about sex.. Like, i don't get what you do while he's "in you" i guess you could say. Do you move too? And if so, how? I don't know.. I'm very nervous about it. I mean, i feel like i'm ready.. But i just don't know what to do! My boyfriend says he's ready, and like i said i think i am too. I just don't know what to do.. He knows i'm a virgin, he isn't one though. I'm just nervous he'll think i'm bad. But i really want to know what to do while we're doing it, so i don't look like a complete idiot. Ugh..I'm so confused!!! PLease help. =(
It's all in personal preference. If you don't know what to do, just talk to him about it. If he cares, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, he doesn't care, and is thus not worth losing your virginity to.
how much thickness should be on penis? becouse i think my penis is not that much thick as it should be in the age of 24 ,so how should i measure my self?,please tell me.
Everyone is different. Having a small penis doesn't mean you're sick. It's just all genetics.
I am 10 years old I got my period a year ago and this guy and I had sex 5 monthes ago. I am pregnant. Can I still get a abortion?
It depends on where you live... You would have to ask your doctor, and fast. You're 10, please try to control yourself.
16 year old female :)
Yesterday I was all "I'm going to be the lily-white type of girl who's a great christian, believes in TRUE LOVE and doesn't have sex or anything. I won't even kiss, say "i love you", hold hands..or do anything until I've known a guy for a LONG guy and am convinced he's the right one for me."
and then today I'm all "I wanna feel sexy, I wanna grab a guy and make out with him in the back of the movies" and I keep having sexual fantasies.
I know its normal, but I don't want to be this way..
The thing is - I've only ever had ONE sexual experience. I always said I'd save my first kiss for my future husband, and since I had liked this guy for 4 years I had convinced myself we were meant to be. He took my first kiss, and so much more. He used me completely, never cared, and made me give him so much that I oculd have saved for someone else.
So I'm not judging those of you who do have lots of sexual experiences, I'm just saying.. I get hurt really easily, and I don't want to give any more of myself. But I can't help but fantasize, and when I fantasize, like today, I flirt... which results in sexual things with boys. I DON'T WANT THIS.
Somone told me to watch tons of disney movies where love is innocent..so I'll want that..and wont comprise it, you know?!?!
Do you have any other advice like that?!
Watching old Disney movies is a TERRIBLE idea. Do you have any idea how many sexual, subliminal messages they have? "The Little Mermaid" for example, one of the giant gold buildings is shaped like a giant, golden, erect penis. You may not know it, but it could actually CREATE these impulses.
The best thing you can do is realize when you're starting to feel that way, and then be extra careful not to lead anyone on. If you do slip up and it starts to go too far, pay attention and tell them no. The only way to stop this is with self control.
Good luck.
Okay, so I am looking for some Harry Potter Halloween Costume ideas. My friend and I want to go as Ginny and Luna.
Any tips?
Your title makes no sense, and this is the wrong category.
I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and when I go back home I will probably have sex with him (I am a virgin he is not). From what he has told me he is into oral sex and anal sex is his favourite. However I am a bit scared as I don’t know if it will hurt much. I am also very wet down there because of discharge and I don’t know if he would mind this (that’s why I didn’t let him finger me when we were together. Also I’ve never had an orgasm and I’m wondering what exactly happens when you do. He wants to give me head but wouldn’t it feel strange (I am embarrassed to have him between my legs)? And last I don’t know how to go about giving him a blowjob, I’ve seen it on TV but I haven’t got a clue for how long I should do it or how to start or what guys like.
I have a few things to say. First, the wetness you describe is totally natural. If he that bothers him, he'll never have sex. Ever.
Second, anal sex will almost definitely be at least a little painful, especially in the beginning. And if it starts to really hurt, stop immediately. You could seriously injure yourself.
And the oral thing, I would have no idea what he would like and I'd rather not try to guess. Everyone is different, and I'd feel kind of uncomfortable trying to describe what I might like so you'd have an idea.
As for the orgasm part, I couldn't describe what it would feel like for you. I'm a guy, so I wouldn't know. But, some females actually have this reaction called "female ejaculation". I won't go into detail on that part.
So, just a piece of advice, don't forget the condom. Good luck.
My little sister is 12 years old and she had sex with her boyfriend IN MY BED i caught her and told her to get up she did but i dont know what i should do about this PLEASE HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP
She's 12? That's FAR too young to be doing anything sexual. If I were you I'd tell your parents. Your sister WILL get mad. But she'll be better off not ending up a 13 year old mom.
Does anyone know what I could use as a vibrater? I lost my electric toothbrush I think I'm too young to use a real vibrater! So what could I use? Thanks to whoever answers!
Well first, using just anything that vibrates is a bad idea. Many of them could cause infections. So, be careful of that.
Second, I don't really have expreience with the vibarator thing at all... And I mean none. But some companies make therapeutic pillows that contain removable vibrating eggs.
my period came for like 5 minutes on tuesday and it wasn't even blood. it was pink, like reallly light. i had sex friday without protection but it wasn't really 'sex'. it didn't even go in all the wayy and we stopped after like a minute. nothing came out of him so i'm sure that nothing got in me. but i'm just concerned on whether i COULD be pregnant. cause my period came for like 5 minutes. i was whipping after going to the bathroom and there was pink on the toilet paper. so i thought i got it so i put a tampon in. i took it out that day and there was like light brownish pink on there, but only in one spot and it was tinyy. So i put one in over night, woke up and there was a little pink on the string. i was guessing it wasn't my period. But my cramps are stronger then normally and i'm super crabby and been having headaches. i keep thinking i got my period but its always discharge that comes out.. and alot. can you tell me whats going on? & don't tell me to get a pregnancy test.. i'm 15 years old, my parents are crazy and that won't happen. plus, i have a boyfriend and i had sex with another boy, i know shame on me.. but please give me some ideas or advice. i'm a tad bit concerned. thanks for all the help. answer back soon please !
Well first, and I don't mean to sound like a jerk, but you have a boyfriend. If he somehow found out he could be really hurt, so for him, try to have a little more control.
Anyway, if it was 6 days ago, you wouldn't already be having symptoms of pregnancy. Maybe something else is wrong. And even if it "didn't go in all the way", that doesn't matter. You can get pregnant just by having that form of contact near there. It's unlikely, but possible. And if it seems like "nothing came out", there's still the pre-ejaculate. This may be a little graphic, but hey, you had sex so you should be fine with this. Pre-ejaculate would be a clear liquid that is produced when he is aroused, and it is a natural lubricant. It actually contains semen, so that could still get you pregnant.
Again, I believe something else is the cause. You should probably go see your doctor about it. I'm not familiar with anything that causes all of these syptoms, but I'm not a doctor. I may study a lot, but I don't deal with anything vaginal. Seeing your doctor is the best thing to do. This could end up being serious.
hey what position do chicks like in bed? You know, like for sex?
There's no one answer for this question. All girls are different, so they'll have different preferences. In order to even remotely be able to guess, you'll have to get to know her.
The first step to understanding a woman is realizing that not all women are the same, so I'd suggest trying that out first. And in the end, the best thing to do is talk to her about it.
15/f
Okay so there is this guy that I've been talking to for about 3 weeks, he was a senior and he just graduated. I know that our relationship means nothing because I know he just wants to use me for my body and doesnt care about me..and i do admit i sent pictures and videos but only after we had an entire trust conversation, well it was basically me saying if you show these to people, I will make your life hell, and things like that. i also didnt really think much of it because all of his friends are seniors who graduated so i think im okay. He also said he deletes them after evertime i send them..he used to ask me everyday for something different because he said since he deletes them he needs something to jerk off to and then he deletes it. i dont know if i believe it..but whatever.
so yesterday, i was at my friends house, and he was asking for us video chat with him in our bra and panties. i told my friend and she thought it would be fun so we both said we would. but she kind of changed her mind and didnt want anything to do with it because she thinks, from what ive told her about him, that he is a douchebag and an asshole. So i just did it by myself while she was in a different room. At first it was kind of awkward because ive only seen him once..but then it was okay. although it was sort of weird because at first he was pretending that he didnt have a microphone and was typingg everything to me instead of saying it and typing me what he wanted me to do. but then he was talking and i could hear him so i dont know what thats about..anyways, at one point he told me to play with my boobs and i just said, okay :] so i started to and then as soon as i did he started laughing and i didnt really get why so i just kept doing it and then he told me he was jerking off and then showed me and was asking me stuff, typing by the way, but i would talk because..thats normal..haha so he asked me a question and i was like, yyeahh and then he mocked me and said exactly what i said in the same tone. like are you serious? grow the hell up. and why was he making fun of me like that? i wasnt being weird..i was being normal..it wasnt supposed to be funny..and then he said something so i said, mmhmm and then he mocked me and smiled and said "mmhhmmmm" like laughing..what the hell is so funny about that. and then towards the end i would keep asking, anything else? and then after telling me what to do a bunch of times he goes, you really like doing things dont you? and i was like, nah im just bored haha and he was laughing..then he was like, jump up and down and run in circles. and i was like, ..you want me to jump up and down and run in circles..? and he was smiling and said yup so then i was about to get up and do it because i guess i didnt think about it too much..then i sat down and was like okay your gonna laugh at me so no.
doesnt it sound like this whole thing was a joke to him? he was laughing at me and mocked me at some points..i just dont get it because he DOES wanna hang out with me because why else would he come pick me up tuesday? [we almost hung out but my mom saw that i got into a car with some random guy and she called me and yelled at me so i had to go home] and also i dont get it because everytime were suppposed to hang out, one time his excuse was, i have to go to my grandmas for dinner, or, i dont feel good..what the hell like i dont get it, because he always talks about wanting to fuck me and do stuff with me..like he must have some sort of intrest because i got him hard during the video and stuff so i just dont get it..we ALMOST hung out..why doesnt he want to anymore?? am i joke..i dont know what to think or do..
Well, being a guy, I probably have a few ideas you might want to hear... I mean, I would never do this to someone in the first place, but I would probably be able to guess at a few possibilities.
1) Okay, I HIGHLY doubt this is it because of a few things you've said, but it's worth hearing. He could actually be kind of nervous for some reason, a fear of actually doing anything in person.
2) Maybe it's the age difference. Maybe he realized that doing anything with you is actually a crime.
3) This is one of the ones I would assume it probably is. Maybe he's just an ass. It's possible he's just doing this to you to mess with you. It could all just be a joke to him.
4) This is another one of the major possibilities. Maybe he has a girlfriend, and he doesn't want to do anything with you and have her find out.
So here's my advice on the situation. Stop talking to him. He's been an ass to you, and he's too old for you anyway. He doesn't care about you, like you said he didn't, and he probably never will. I'm pretty close to your age, and I'd feel pretty weird doing anything with someone if there was that much of an age difference.
You don't have to listen to me, but I know a lot of guys who are total assholes the one you just described.
I've had two abortions previously and they have been very expensive $$$. I just found out that I'm pregnant again and I don't want the baby and so my first thought was to have another abortion right away. I called the clinic and they gave me the same estimate as the previous time and I really don't have that kind of money right now and don't know how I can come up with the money. Is there a way I can get a cheap abortion or something really low-cost? I just turned 18 a couple of weeks back so I don't think my parents insurance would cover it or anything either so that's kind of out of the question I think. I don't think I can ask my parents for money for the abortion this time because they already paid for the first one I had.
I'm up for any ideas you guys might have.
Thanxxx
Missy is right about... well... pretty much everything. If you don't want to get pregnant and end up spending loads of cash on abortions, use condoms. They're MUCH cheaper.
There's no such things as a cheap abortion, and even if there was, I wouldn't get any form of surgery "cheap". I'd want a doctor who's able to take a little pride in their work.
The cheapest you can get, which I am completely 100% against, is a good hard kick to the stomach.
So my suggestion: Get an abortion, it won't be cheap. But use condoms from now on. It's better to spend a little money on those all the time than hundreds to thousands of dollars on an abortion every once in a while.