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Age: 15
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Hey IM 16/f and I have pretty bad acne. It seems to be on my left side check area. I went to the doctor and they gave me this 300$ medicine. But when I use it, in about two days, my skin is VERY dry. And it depresses me. Im not the girl that looks in the mirror 24/7 all day during school, so I never really know when my skin goes dry.
Is there ANY way I can keep it from getting sooo dry. I put coco butter on in the morning before my make up, and I start school at 8 and around 9 its soo dry. I cant keep putting on coco butter bc it rubs off my make up. Any thing I can do.. So bc of the dryness I stop using the medicine, and my face gets HORRIBLE!..
PLEASE HELP!! I really want to have a pretty face!!

If you would like pictures of my face I will take some and show you. And some after a couple days with the medicine... Thank you soo much to anyone.. (link)
Lotion dries your face out and gives you acne because it clogs your pores, try buying some actual face lotion that wont clog your pores and you should be fine :]


okay so i took my boyfriends ipod so i can bring it home & put pictures & music on it for him. his computer won't let him. i don't have itunes so i tried using windows media player.. well i tried it & everything & i copied the music on there but it didn't show up on the ipod. so i was like okay w.e. i plugged it back in & the screen on the ipod says connected eject before disconnecting. & i disconnect it & the screen is like froze. it was working fine before & i just plugged it back in & it froze the ipod. i tried everythinggg. plugging it back in, unplugging it, turning it off; it won't let me. i pushed & helded every bottom. i swear i tried everything. i will not become unfroze. i told my boyfriend & hes like well fix itt. i'm like freaking out, i don't know what i did to itt. any ideas on what i did & how i can fix it ??? please help me.

thank youuuuuu. (link)
You can only use itunes with ipods.

but you can wait until the battery runs out or you can hit the circle in the middle and the menu button and it restarts it to the factory settings.

Hope I helped.

love Ashleigh. :]


Ok so I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and I just love to be with him and I know he likes to be with me...I want him to know that he can tell me anything I want him to tell me things that he couldn't even tell his best friend...He likes to joke around a lot and so do I...But when things get serious and I have to tell him something important or talk about a very touchy topic I want him to take it seirously...I just don't feel like I can come to him crying I wnat to be able to do that I just don't know what to do?!?!?! Can you help me???? Thanx!
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My boyfriend is the same way, I feel like I cant talk to him about anything because he wouldn't understand, but you have to trust him enough to know that he will put his joking side away for a moment and help you get through your problems and when you do that he will understand that your hurt and he will try his best to help you and if he doesn't even care that you're crying... maybe you should reconsider dating someone who doesn't care about that.


I didn't know if it was the right column to put this under maybe I should've put it under health. Anyways, next week my period is due but all this week i've been getting this brown discharge.. I don't know why, is that maybe an early sign that your geting your period? I've gotten it once before but my doctor said it was normal and i only got it for a day.. but now ive been getting it the past 2-3 days... any thoughts? or suggestions on what may be causing it? (link)
This is totally number, its just getting the older blood out of your system, but when you start your period your blood should be red again.

simple as that :]


i need a good song that basically says
im done with you you dirty scumbag
your a liar and a cheater ... etc.
but no CARRIE UNDERWOOD please (link)
aly and aj

potential break up song.


I'm in a long distance relationship so it's pretty hard to satisfy "sexual needs." my boyfriend wants to have phone sex and i'm fine with that but i'm just afraid it'll be awkward. i was just hoping maybe someone could give me some tips to make it less awkward? thanks in advance =) (link)
It shouldn't really be awkward if your close to him as a person, it will be like the real thing, but maybe its diffrent since you have never met him in real life.

I would just tell him you dont feel comfortable until you get to know him better, or you can just be straight up with him and tell him you've never done it before and you dont want it to seem awkward and usually they help you out :]



Well first of all I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and My friend (one of the people that kinda hooked us up) is friends with him but is always saying she hates him to me and yeah it kinda puts me down because I want my best friend to like my boyfriend...I just don't know and yeah I know I need to talk to her about this I just don't know what to say and how to say it...Because she gets mad really fast at small things and yeah I just need to know how I can tell her that I don't like it when she says things like that about my boyfriend I don't think she is very supportive of me...I think she might be jealous because she can't find a guy that will stay with her for more than a week...Please help me!!! Thanx!!!! (link)
Okay well if she gets really mad easily dont tell her you think she is jealous, just tell her "You're my bestfriend and I really like this boy and I want you to be supportive of my decision of being with him because right now I dont think you do"


and maybe you should reconsider being bestfriends with someone who isnt supportive of your decisions.


I finally have my first bf and Im embarrassed that I never had my first kiss yet. I don't know if we'll ever kiss but just in case.

My friend gave me a tip but it wasn't very helpful lol "it's like..eating an apple.." (link)
Its really simple, you should just follow his lead, and it will come naturally.


i've never shopped at a&f but i want to start. The problem is, the store that was in my area was closed down so i'd have to order online, and i don't know what my size is. I don't like going by the size charts they give because apparently i'm not proportionate. I'm a size 6-8/medium in pants and a medium in tops at AE, so based on that could someone tell me what my size would be?
oh and if its not too much trouble hollister too? because i'm in the same situation as A&F with hollister too, lol.

thanks
danielle♥ (link)
they're clothes are a little bit smaller than American Eagle's

so id suggest a large shirt.


and as for hollister, same thing.


Well, Christmas is coming up and I've decided its time to get some new make up. The problem is, I'm not sure what kind of brand is best so I don't know what to ask for.

Does anyone have advice for make up brands, or certain kinds that work bestt? =] I'm not asking for specific colors or anything, just item type and brand. (link)
M.A.C. make up works really well, but its quite expensive


if your looking for a cheaper brand but good quality..

you can try trublend, I used that once before and it worked really well, and it even blends in with your skin tone.


i wear mostly hollister and abercrombie and american eagle and i have jeans from there but i always see people with really nice ripped jeans that aren't at those stores. i've looked in department stores and stuff and i can't find any. does anyone know where i can find really nice ripped jeans??? (link)
People who don't get there jeans that are ripped from namebrand stores usually do them thereselves.

its really easy, you just take a razorblade and make small cuts ACROSS on the thigh and knees of the pants.


then you wash them. wahlah!


13/f
i have a boyfriend and i really love him a lot..but..i have a crush on another guy to...is it wrong? what can i do? i dont wanna dump my bf, because i still love him, but im going crazy because i like this other guy a lot to..is it normal to have these feelings?
thanx:) (link)
Yes it is normal to have these feelings
but don't get me wrong, your not in love, your in lust.

you're too young to be in love right now, when you get to highschool your going to find many other people who you would want to be with. But as of now, I would just continue talking to the other guy and see what happens.


15/f

I met this boy on espin and he is sooo nice and he lives 45 mins away from me and he gave me his cell number and he's supposed to call me today.

The thing is, when we meet in person how can I convice my mom to be okay with that?

She assumes that any boy you meet online is a murderer/pedophile. (and i agree with her but still...)

and if anyone has any espin the bottle success stories please tell them on here. thanks (link)
well first off, your mom isnt going to be okay with that, because of course, she is a mom!


but..

what I would do is meet him WITH a friend just to be on the safe side, you can never be to sure about people you meet on the internet.

but I've tried espin the bottle and it seems like a safe site.

who knows, he could be the person you've been waiting for. just tell your mother he is a friend from school.


okay this is ganna sound pretty gay but whatever. me and my friend have this joke like pajamas with the lamas. and likee it sounds gay but if you were there it was funnyy ass hellll :] kayy so. as a christmas present i wanna get her pajamas with lamas on them. is there any placee where i can get those. or like have any ideass. ?
thankss much. :] (link)
I would start off with ebay... they usally have everything.


or you could try to google it.

I think ive actually seen some on

delias.com


ok so im 16,and i dated this guy for over a year, we had our moments..you know..on and off sometimes...but it always seemed to be ok..i thought that even after what we've been through, and what we're going through, it would get better..but it hasnt..we're recently broken up..and he has a new girlfriend..and this has happened before, and we got back together..i just dont know if i can take it anymore..it hurts to see him with another girl..but, i just dont know what else to do..should i just let him go? he was my first love, i know that sounds corny..but its serious. and i still do love him..but i feel like i just dont care anymore. im done with his crap. but how do i know if what im feeling is just jealousy or anger? i just dont know what to do. thanks in advance. (link)
Well im like that with my boyfriend now, I mean.. you have to think about all the good times you have with each other because if you think about all the bad times, then of course your going to be angry with him all the time, and im not saying you shouldnt be jealous of his new girlfriend, but have you ever thought of him dating her just to make you jealous, some guys are like that...

and as for letting him go, just think of everything you two have been through and decide on your own, because its really up to no one but yourself on wether you want to stay with him or not because we arent the ones going to have to put up with him, you are.

hope I helped ya love.

:]


i have no desktop on my comp, i can only use background colors. whenever i turn on my comp, the background says something about restoring backgound, but when i press it and error occurs. when i right click, then properties, then desktop, i can't even select a background to use, how do i fix it? (link)
Your going to have to reboot your system with the restore cd it came with.

:]


i'm f/13, and my boyfriend broke up with me a while ago, but i don't really care. the problem is he was my first kiss, and i think one of the reasons he might have broken up with me is that the girl he was cheating on me with kissed better. anyway, i've read tips, but my mind totally blanks when i'm kissing a guy. i don't want my boyfriend to think i'm like kissing a dead board. i want him to like it. so what's the best way to kiss? (link)
usually it depends on how he tries to kiss you, just follow his lead,if he leans in for the kiss, dont back away.. just lean into it also and then if he kisses you with tongue, then you know to use your tongue, its simple! just close your eyes and follow his lead, its always worked for me.


and im sure you'll be fine :]




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