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2 sided feelings
13/f
i have a boyfriend and i really love him a lot..but..i have a crush on another guy to...is it wrong? what can i do? i dont wanna dump my bf, because i still love him, but im going crazy because i like this other guy a lot to..is it normal to have these feelings?
thanx:)
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Yes, but if you really "loved" your boyfriend as much as you say you do- then you wouldn't even think about liking someone else. I know I'll get a bad rating for this- but love is a word that is just tossed around like an old baseball.
My friend explains what I'm trying to say very well:
"I LOVE YOU"
This term is used ENTIRLY too loosely. People throw it around like nothing; when in reality it means the world. Boyfriends and girlfriends think that once they are a couple they need to say this. well, i disagree. i don't think they should say it until... they mean it. Don't tell your girlfriend or boyfriend "i love you" until you actually do. The minute you know you are in love with them, tell them. Not a second sooner. Love is something bigger than people throw it around as. It's when that one person is all you think about, and you know you can't live without them. The intense feeling of trust and honesty in your relationship. The moment you fall in love; you know. It's one of the most amazing feelings in the world, and it doesn't come along often, and it doesn't come for everyone. But, the lucky ones who do find love; I congradulate you.
You don't 'think' you are in love,
You KNOW it.
--Jack
(16/m)
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I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I will give you something to keep in mind:
You are young- experience different relationships. Otherwise, how are you really going to know what kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with in the future?
ygs-29/f
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Yes it is normal to have these feelings
but don't get me wrong, your not in love, your in lust.
you're too young to be in love right now, when you get to highschool your going to find many other people who you would want to be with. But as of now, I would just continue talking to the other guy and see what happens.
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