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soo confused
ok so im 16,and i dated this guy for over a year, we had our moments..you know..on and off sometimes...but it always seemed to be ok..i thought that even after what we've been through, and what we're going through, it would get better..but it hasnt..we're recently broken up..and he has a new girlfriend..and this has happened before, and we got back together..i just dont know if i can take it anymore..it hurts to see him with another girl..but, i just dont know what else to do..should i just let him go? he was my first love, i know that sounds corny..but its serious. and i still do love him..but i feel like i just dont care anymore. im done with his crap. but how do i know if what im feeling is just jealousy or anger? i just dont know what to do. thanks in advance.
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You are probably feeling both jealousy and anger. That is normal so don't beat yourself up about it. You can't change your feelings- you just have to wait for the hurting to stop.
Since things didn't get better between the two of you, they doubtfully will. You've been down that road with him more than once. So you should just let him go so you can move on with your own life.
It IS going to be hard to do- I would never tell you it is easy to get over your first love, but getting over ANY love is no easy task by a far stretch.
Hang in there and have patience with yourself.
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Well im like that with my boyfriend now, I mean.. you have to think about all the good times you have with each other because if you think about all the bad times, then of course your going to be angry with him all the time, and im not saying you shouldnt be jealous of his new girlfriend, but have you ever thought of him dating her just to make you jealous, some guys are like that...
and as for letting him go, just think of everything you two have been through and decide on your own, because its really up to no one but yourself on wether you want to stay with him or not because we arent the ones going to have to put up with him, you are.
hope I helped ya love.
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