wear a jean skirt with a black shirt or blue sweater with a black cami with the black tights. that will look really cute :)

ok well im 16, so that means last year i was 15...obviously. and i know lots of kids that are super into pot ;P and def alcohol. ive never done pot b4 and cant stand the stuff, i know plenty of people who do it and it smells awful on their clothes and it makes them act like complete idiots and their voices are all perminently scratchy sounding. of course alcohol on new years and what not, but drugs and alcohol are really not my thing. i kinda think its an excuse to act like an idiot (i can sooo do that on my own. lol)

so anyway, i think you should just put the pot behind you, totally and completely. its illegal and it ruins lives, ive seen it happen first hand. there is no possible way of smoking weed w/out some sort of unwanted consequence.

to stop drinking you just have to want it. if you're friends call you up and ask you to come over or w/e and you know that drugs and alcohol will be involved then you just turn them down. simple as that. dont get yourself involved. its not worth it

as for friends, try joining a team or extracurricular activity to meet new people. invite some over and make sure you put yourself out there to give them a chance to befriend you

school: all i can say is, if you dont understand it, please go in sometime and get some help on assignments. you shouldn't be faling 5 subjects. really, just do the homework and spend time actually doing it and reading the books. you say you're grounded most of the time? well i know schoolwork isnt fun, but dedicate that time to working on stuff. its not going to come easy and you're going to have to work your butt off but it will be worth it in the long run. post-pone your social life and just focus on school. that will also help the friend/alcohol problem b/c you wont have as much time for the stupid drama and superficial stuff. and if they think its stupid then more power to them. i bet you a lot of popular people at your school are smart

most of my friends are smart and dont drink and we arent at all made fun of or geeky or w/e you want to say. if you dont let people walk all over you and get inside your head then they just cant. dont think about it so much and do what YOU want, and nobody else....(also try not to swear too much, its kind of a turnoff if you ever wanna get a girl) just a heads up
and for the acne just make sure you are washing your face morning and night, and eating right (that also means no pot/alcohol)

hope that i helped you some...

well sometimes girls get their periods and then they lose it for awhile while they are still going through puberty and then it will come back. the doctor should know best if she says its normal then it is. dont worry about it, i once had a friend who got her period when she was 8 and when she was around 12 she stopped getting it and it didnt come back for almost a full year. when you are still developing your body just goes through some wacky changes is all...everything should be a-okay.

he shouldnt really care. i think if anything he would like a girl who has a little more experience, whether thats a good thing or bad... just ask him if he is ok about everything. bring it up by just saying "is everything okay?" but dont push it, he may not want to discuss your former relationship w/ this other boy. just dont act awkward whatever you do. remember that a situation can never be awkward unless you make it that way. and if he acts awkward, tell him that as well. just be relaxed and act normal, it will all fall into place. dont worry about whatever these other guys are saying, guys are always known for saying stupid crap like that, but your bf should know that and he'll get over that b/c it's just what guys do. no worries :)

try talking to him. if he likes you he'll come back. but just make sure sex isnt all he is after...that wouldn't be very good. but let him know that you aren't a virgin if thats the only thing that is holding him back. good luck with him. but always know that if it doesnt work out you will eventually stop thinking about him, even if it takes longer than you'd like it too...

well someone needed to say it. and i never said i didnt care about their existence. sorry that you misinterpreted me :) maybe you shouldnt jump to conclusions so easily...

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first off-i think its pretty stupid that you're posting your suicidal thoughts on the internet. you either need medical help of you just are asking for attention in the wrong ways. not to be a meanie or anything.
and secondly, um ending your life is not the answer. you only get one life to live so make the best of what you have. once you go off this earth you can never come back so dont you wanna contribute something? even if you dont have your wife or anything that u say is "oh so important" to you. so what if you've lost a few things? it was meant to happen this way. for whatever crappy reason, it was just meant to happen like it did. but maybe that means you are suppose to be destined for something different than what you thought. it just might take a little while to find out what that is...but dont worry, you'll find it soon. dit gets better. i promise :)just do things that take your mind off the "bad" situations brought to you. go run, swim, hike, listen to "pump up" music, go to work and work hard. take a vacation someplace really nice, go have fun.

life is like a movie, except your are the main character. (funny thing is, movies always turn out okay in the end> just like your movie will)

here's a couple quotes for you from some of my friends that might be helpful:
"everything turns out alright in the end, if its not alright then its not the end."

and "dont take life too seriously.no one gets out alive anyway"

so basically you might as well just forget about the past. so some things are screwed for you...so what? some things are screwed for me too. just like anyone else. everyone goes through terrible pain and losses, trust me. and if you are sick then just keep holding on, b/c things will get better. you just have to try for you and everyone else...

what's done is done, move foward. dont think so much and keep your hopes and attitude high b/c if you give up on yourself then you're giving up on everyone else too. we are meant to be here for some reason. and we all seem to be insignificant b/c we are all just little specks in this huge world. but think about it, if there was no reason to be here...why would we be here? im not religious but just think about it. you are destined for something. just dont let go.

omg, i love that show. and no, he is not a replacement!! thank god!! haha

so basically:
zoey was in england with her family but then she sees a video cam of chase where he says he is in love with her

so zoey decides to go back to PCA, while chase decides to go to an england boarding school to find zoey

so they switch and find each out that the other is gone when they get to each of their schools but zoey's parents wont let her come back, and chase's wont switch him back either b/c of the money... they try dating over the computer but that doesnt work out so well so they decide at the end of the semester when chase comes back to PCA then they will try to date again..

meanwhile, since chase is gone, the lady for PCA rooming has another kid take chase's place in his dorm with logan and michael. they try to trick her that chase is still there but eventually she finds out and assigns them that new kid (who i forgot his name)

but yea thats pretty much it..:)

yea it works, and it is a lot healthier than tanning. that is what i used last year. i dont even care anymmore. haha, but make sure you use it on the weekends and give it a day to settle before school comes along because, depending on how much you use it can get a little orangey. but it wont be that bad as long as you dont like take a bath in it hahah. so yea it does work well

um okay, well... yea i wouldnt put things up yourself if i were you. if its like a vibrator or something along those lines then i suppose that would be fine...and dont put soda there ever. im pretty sure that would just be a bad idea.

and oral sex is just using your mouth instead of actual intercourse.

okay you just hold down the menu button and center buttons at the same time and hold until the screen goes blank. it might take a moment, and the when the screen blackens, the apple sign should apear, and the ipod will take a minute and kind of reset itself. then it will be fine. the songs wont disappear either, it will just go back to normal

you just need to pretend like theyre another girl. just act natural. dont think so much, takee a deep breath before going over and talking to them and just let it flow.
maybe wear a ring so you can figet with that subtley instead of concentrating on the guys around you, that kinda works for me. maybe also carry around a water bottle with you and if guys turn up and come talking to you, just take it out and take a few sips to calm yourself if you get like that. (they wont even notice for what reason you are taking a drink) just make sure you dont choke. but hey, if you do at least you will have something to laugh at...:) hope i helped some

well my friend recently had a baby (she is 17) but babies are a really big responsibility. im sure everything will go alright soon enough. parents are suppose to love their children unconditionally no matter what happens, so chances are, her mom will let her come back with her soon...i hope. its very hard, but you need to somehow let her know that you are there to support her all the way. she needs you especially now. as for yourself, if you plan on to continue having sex, maybe be put on birth control as well as use condoms for extra protection, so you have double protection. however, as im sure you are well aware, abstinance is the only sure way to not get pregnant or contract STDs and AIDs. i dont really think that 14 is old enough to be sexually active. not trying to reprimand you, but you are still developing into adulthood and the stress from school is overwhelming enough, plus guys tend to take advantage of younger girls. but you can take that for whatever it is worth.

that sounds very nice.
maybe does he have a car? maybe get him like a car decoration or sumthing..that would be nice. something manly of course haha

def get him food too, like chocolates or something

okay well it really depends on the girl. i know a few girls it didnt hurt at all and then there were some girls it hurt really bad only the first time. and again theres other girls where it hurts a little bit and gradually goes away every time you have sex... it also depends on the guy, and your own body and also if you've ever had any other sexual encounters before

food.
gift card from a store he likes.
out to dinner.
concert.
collage of u and him.
chocolates...

its okay haha. you are only 14 years old hun. im 16 and i still havnt had my first kiss yet. and ive had 3 boyfriends (one of who has already had sex before). i dont think that guys will takee advantage of you if you make sure to give them the right idea of what you are truly looking for and what you expect from them. and especially at age 14, you dont need to worry about having your first kiss yet. when i was younger i would have thought i would have had my first kiss by now (part of me still wonders why haha) but most of the girls in my grade have actually never had theirs yet either. just dont worry about it, it may seem like everyone else has but they really havnt...it will come when it is meant to...

you just need to take a breather and think about which is best for you. im sure they all have different qualities that you like about them, but you have to be honest to them and yourself. you dont have time for everyone. so maybe make a pros/cons list and try and figure out which one you truly want the most. also ask some of your girlfriends what they think about each guy. and yea, you are going to hurt their feelings if you dont pick them but hey, they'll get over it eventually. better stop sooner rather than later right? cuz by waiting and leading them on further its just going to make it harder on everyone. try to cut back communication slightly with whoever you dont want to lead on and hope that they get the picture and if they continue to ask you about how you feel for them just say i dont know who i like at the moment or just tell them straight up though i know that can be hard. i once liked a guy who i had to tell i didnt like him even though i liked him a lot for some really hard reasons, and let me tell you it was not fun. but it will all end up okay. i promise!! :p hope that i helped you and everything goes great!!...

wow girl, i am in kind of the same dilemma haha. so you need to wear something red or pink because research has shown that guys feel something toward those colors, plus it is valentines day which suits that well. if you are thin wear a cute tight sweater or a flowy longer shirt with leggings. it will be so adorable. if your are not then wear a flowy shirt with cute jeans. wear your hair down of course, straightened or curly depending on where you are going. but i curl my hair for school sometimes and that seems to get some attention. make sure what you wear you feel absolutely confident in so you aren't freaking out the entire time, but at the same time a little sexy/cute. i dont know if i would wear boots but if boots are your thing then go for it. i would go for a cute pair of stilleto heels but not boots. but again, if you like them the sure, go for it! do light makeup on your face, but slightly dark eyeliner, guys like that. make sure your eyelashes are curled as well. good luck getting him back!!! we are in this together!!! let me know what happens btw :)
hope this helps...

hey

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