Hi everyone (:! I'm Angela, or Angie; whichever you choose to use! I'm basically just here to help people the best I can with whatever they choose to ask me, and maybe even get a little help in return! I may only be sixteen, but I have a LOT of knowledge and experience about the world, that I'm planning on using to help others, and to improve for myself! I'm pretty much up for anything, I support pretty much everything, as long as your not hurting yourself or anyone else...so give me a shot; I'm all ears!!!!
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my boyfriend won't fuck me
what the fuck do i do (link)
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ahhahah. well hmph. ask him why? &then talk it out with him...guys can sometimes feel unwanted sexual pressure just like girls... so try not to make him feel uncomfortable.
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16/f
i have always had a hot temper but it used to take ALOT to make me let it out, and when i did i would mostly just yell then go up to my room and lay down away from everybody until it went down
But lately the smallest things absolutely ruin my day. when i lose my temper which is a daily thing now, i cannot say anything otherwise my dad who's temper is byfar the worst i have ever seen will flare. so i twist and pinch my arm while he yells at me. i then go to my room and throw things, punch my pillows and walls, scream as loud as i can into my pillows and trash my room. when im tired i cry for hours. the rest of the day i cannot talk to anybody. just the voice of somebody who wants to talk to me makes me feel angry all over again. I wake up everyday in such a good mood but my temper always seems to take the day away from me.
how can i control my temper? it's ruining my life (link)
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im not trying to judge your circumstances, but it seems to me that you may have something called bipolar disorder. this is a type of depression, one of which you are feeling the following:
severe ups&downs
getting angry for the littlest reasons
having trouble containing your emotions into reasonable matters
feeling sad
feeling hopeless
feeling extreme happiness one minute, and then flying into a fit of rage shortly afterward
things you can do to help it:
talk to your doctor, tell him/her your symptoms
see if a medicine called Lithium is right for you
try WRITING down your feelings, or TALKING about them, not distructing yourself, other people, or things, verbally OR physically
talk to a trusted adult about what your feeling
www.depression.com will show you differnet types of depression and answer your questions
"when nothing matters anymore" is a GREAT book to read about what your going through, and how to PERMENENTLY get better
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Tips on focusing on reading with out distracting with train thoughts and others (link)
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try reading something that you are interested in; its a lot easier to focus what your doing when you actually LIKE what your doing, or learnig about.
if this becomes a problem that you are generally worried about, talk to your doctor; a medicine called aderol (im on that) will help tremendously on getting your focus in tact; and not just with reading, either!!!
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i have this friend who no one likes, and i kinda like her, but she has her moments. Plus everyone thinks she a lesbian, and i kinda agree. I hate talking about her, but idk what to do about it. I dont like confronting her on the issue, but i also want to be sure of her sex. SHe does many things to me which i dont particularly want ehr too, but its weird to tell her STOP!! im not sure what im asking exactly, but i need advice!!! (link)
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sexual orientation should not have a damper on any friendship...UNLESS someone is putting you in difficult situations, (making you feel uncomfortable). as far as that, i really do think that you need to sit down and tell her what makes you feel unconfortable, even though you think its "weird" to tell her stop, that issue really needs to be addressed, or else this friendship is going no where. as far as being uncomfortable about being friends with her just because OTHER people don't like her.. well then, your not really being a true friend. trust me, everyone talks about EVERYONE. EVERYONE has thier moments... and if your actually that worried about what other people think, well then, im sorry, because that occuring issue will really start to wear down your self asteem, not to mention, you could be losing a really good friend here, just because of what OTHER people think. do yourself, AND your friend a favor, and judge her on your OWN terms... not what outsiders have to say about it.
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I'e always shaved "down there" but I've noticed lately that I've been getting bumps lately. A few of them have scarred but most of them go away after a while. Is there anyway to fade the scars and prevent scarring and bumps from occuring again? (link)
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use skinimate... (for DRY skin) .. its a light pink bottle...
use UNSCENTED lotion... if skin, for some reason becomes irritated, use lotion only every other day, or every three days. etc.
finally, if those dont work, try only shaving there every other day, or every three days, etc.
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This morning my grandma passed away. The news pretty much made me cry for hours, and right now I still feel a bit distraught.
But last night, I had a dream about her, where I was visiting her at the nursing home (where she lives) and she was alive, happy, and glad to see me. We were surrounded by a big room filled with lights and it was just white. She was wearing brightly-colored clothing, and all she did was smile at me.
When I woke up this morning from that dream, I found out she passed away.
As a christian, I deeply believe that was God telling me that she is happy where she is right now (in heaven), and smiling down on me, feeling happy she is at peace.
Do you think God was really trying to give me a sign? Or is it coincidence? (link)
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..i ABSOLUTELY believe that God was giving you that sign.. as to not worry, an actual sign from both Him, and your grandmother.. that she truly is, not only okay, but HAPPY. that is a wonderful, wonderful thing to experience...you must have been one heck of a grandaughter, and child of God, for them both to take the time to do that for you!!!!
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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what's the myspace URL for a music site that has the song "sara" by stevie knicks? (link)
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..go on your myspace home page, click, at the top, where it says "music" .. search for Stevie Knicks, making sure that you are spelling it correctly, and then, where his music is played, (should be on the right hand side, towards the top of the site), look for your song, Sara. Click add if you wish to put it on your page.
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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I have a question:
You know how if you are living in sin you need to go before God and ask for forgiveness? What if you do something wrong, for example, I kick friend's dog. If no one witnesses or knows and I go before God and repent, say I am truly sorry and receive forgiveness. What if a year later my sister asks me, "have you ever kicked your friend's dog?" Am I obligated to tell the world my truths? I know this is a silly example but what about sins that are more serious... you know? Say I was married and I had an affair? Or if someone had an abortion. I know those are more extremes but are we obligated to be honest about sins of the past? If we are no longer in sin what is are obligation? Shouldn't it be between God and each of us? OR are we obligated to be open with the world of our sins.
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in my belief, i would say that yes, if someone straight-up asks you if you have done a certain sin in the past, whether or not you are saved by forgivness, then yes, if you are truly saved, you should be able to admitt it, and account for it, by simply saying, "yes, that was a part of my life, but i admitted and asked for forgivness, i am forgiven, have learned from it, and no not plan on reliving that sinful part of me again."
simple as that! however, if you DO feel extremely uncomfortable, depending on who may ask you, then sure, God will understand if you do not want to re-open that wound with another human being, and prefere to do it only, if ever, with God himself.
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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I need some new quotes about my Grandpa passing away ... I was very close to him. I want to put it in my AIM profile, so something cute, but not something that's hard to comprehend [like Emily Dickinson, for example]..
I've tried Google, but I didn't really find much..
Thanks. (link)
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"Its amazing how we don't quite find the value in pictures...untill the people in them are gone..."
-anonymous
"the best things in life are unseen; therefore, although he isn't there to see with thine eye, he is there to see with thine heart; and therefore, is much stronger, and much more present than before; for he is in heaven; which is everywhere; he is everywhere now."
-anonymous
"understanding is the reward of faith.
Therefore, seek not to understand that thou mayest believe, but believe that thou mayest understand:
-st. Augustine
"we are not rich by what we possess, but rather we can do without"
-immanuel kant
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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im just rele... not in a good mood. im pretty upset and i need some1 to talk to. i just feel like shit and like i shouldnt be. my whole problem is i wear my heart on my sleeve and ive already tried to cut it off but that didnt work. i just fall for people way to easy and then they never like me for anything than just a friend. tonight i went to a play to watch the girl i liek perform cuz lastngiht she invited me and i decided i would come again. well lastnight i couldnt ifnd her and tonight i told her after the play to come find me and i would be sitting where i was before. well i waited for 5 minuites then found one of my other frineds and talked to her until she helped me find the other girl. she was talking to and upperclassmen (btw, im a freshman and the girl i liek is a freshman) and it really hurt me inside to see her with him cuse it is obvious tht she probubly likes him and he probubly likes her only for her body. im tryin to hold back tears while writing this cuz my mom is downstairs and if i cry she knows something is wrong. this spring break has completely sucked for me. ive already thought of giving up on everything. i just feel so unloved and its got me depressed and its slowly killing me. (link)
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well, i think that the first thing that you need to realize is wether or not your depressed emotions are comming just from this situation with the girl, or wether your just depressed in general. if its just about the girl, i would sit her down, tell her how you feel, and see what she has to say in return. (i know that might sound a little scary, but hey, your already feeling really down, so things can basically only get better.) however, if yoru depressed feelings are more rounded on your whole outlook on life at this point and time, then i suggest you tell a very trusted adult. depression is something that i went through for five months, and am still recovering from, and please, please, if you get anything from this answer that im typing to you, understand this: depression will only get WORSE if it is not treated properly and with the proper amount of time. after talking to a trusted adult, you should maybe even see a therapist, one just to talk to, one to perscribe medication, or BOTH. finally, what you can do to really start feeling better is to excersie, which lets off a chemical in the brain that helps you feel better. (clinicly true) eat healthy, (sunflower seeds contain a natural antidepresant that can make you feel calm adn good) and try to focus your attention on getting better; whether that means more time to yourself, your family, and/or your friends that you trust. finally, if you EVER feel like hurting yourself, please, call, or log-on to right away.......
depression.com
NAMI-1800-950-6264
NDMDA-1800-826-3632
ask any questions you need, they are professionals that will answer you and help you in any way they can.
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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