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My name is Amanda. I'm really open-minded and i have been helping my friends through just about everything you can imagine. I dont sugar coat things. I tell it how it is or how the best way to solve he problem at hand. People usualy seem to think i help them with their problems and i take a lot of pride in knowing i could have possibly made a difference. well. i think im done here. feel free to ask anything you can think of.
but remember you're the one asing for help. if you're going to give negative feedback because you dont agree with the answer given don't bother asking the question.

i do enjoy helping people out.
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ok so i have this wonderful boyfriend and he is wonderful and all the girls in school like him but i also like my neighbor who is super hot. he has a great personality and he always gives me rides on his motorcyce and me and him made out once and kissed a couplle times and i could tell he is in to me to. i kinda see my neighbor as more boyfriend material because my boyfriend was my best friend in seventh grade and he seems like more of a friend to me now. and so my neighbor gets more sexual with me and i like it the aggresiveness. i dont know what to do i fell i love them both!!!

oh jeez. okay you have to tell your boyfriend about your problem because if he hears if from someone other then you he is going to be pissed. But the decision is ultimitaly up to you. I know its hard but you have to think who will make you happier and not who you feel bad for because it wouldn't be fair to either guy. But from what you say you sound happier with your neighbor.
hope i could help

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HI um...I'm a 13 year old gurl((GOING 14)) and I'm dating a 17 year GUY his the best boyfriend a girl can ever ask for his sweet romantic AND I LOVE HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH well the point is that our anyversary is comming real soon is going to be A YEAR sense we've been dating YAY MY B-day well I want to get somenthing really special and well one of the things that came to my mind was SEX he has never really pushed me into anything but well his a 17 year old dude thats one of their main "goals" and well I don't know wat to do....I NEED HELP plz should I DO THIS??????

okay. it is you life and should be able to do what you want with it but heres the thing. you love him and he loves you. well. as far as you know right? Im really glad you have found someone for you but you need to think. "what if i get pregnant?" he could get in a lot of trouble. there are also a lot of STDs and things you shouldnt get when your 13 years old. He is going to be you first time and next year if he goes off to college things are going to dramatically change for you. What happens if he ditches you? i know you think he won't but he is 17 years old you never know. You would be heart broken if he ever left you. you shouldn't have to go through that.

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http://www.focusas.com/Depression.html
That's the site that I found the depression symptoms on! I've had all except the last 3 and the running away one. I'm relly scared and I don't want to tell my mom because she has alot on her plate right now and I don't want her to knoe. My mom has depression too I think and they did say it could run in families. She had it when she was 28 or 30 and now I have it wen I'm 14! I don't want to have it forever and I would relly appreciate any possible help!! Please because I don't want to grow up morbid

okay. i went through something sorta like this. I didn't tell my mom because i didnt think she would care. I did talk to my friends A LOT! they pretty much got me through it so it is a must that you talk to your friends or a conselor at school if you can't go to your mom. Depression does not run in the family if you look at it in sense of genes, however as people grow up we learn life attitudes and behavior from the people adn enviorment we are around. So if you look at it in this sort of way it can be passed down. But this can be your choice. Be smart about everything and make sure you stay actice at school. You will not have this forever.
and your mom has a lot on her plate but she is still your mom and loves you very much adn wants the best for you. You can talk to her if you want.

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ok so i am 13/f and i know girls can be nasty..
i am on a sports team for school and the first day was today.. its a 7th and 8th grade team and there are 3 other 7th graders that are on it that i am close friends with.. butttt there are about 15 8th graders. half of them are wicked nice and i've known them for a whille. but the other half seem to have a problem with me and my friends. truthfully we never did anything to them! i dont even know most of them and have never talked to them! last year they were jealos of our boyfriends, but im single right now anyways. they talk crap about us during practice and they get my bestfriends ex to call us names. i wanna make it through the seasons w/o any cat fights.

thanks ill rate high*xo

okay if i were you i would just ginore them. i know its not what you want to hear but it is the truth. It sounds like the girls are jealous of you and if you don't give them any of your time it will just further piss them off.Which will make them work harder to try and get your attention. Which will make them look completely retarded and they will embarass themselves Personally i love it when girls are like that because i get a lot of entertainment. Just make sure you dont do something really ignorant that could spark a fight..during pracice anyway.
hope i helped.

xox amanda

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hi my name is jess my b/f's dad told us that he didnt want us in the house when no one was there so we left until he left the house and we went back in. well we heard him pull in the driveway so we went out the back door and he was standing right there. now i knw its gonna be so awkward if i ever go to his house again. how can i stop feeling embaressed and awkward and get things better between me and his dad

yea. I had a situation really similar to this one. I was so embarassed and i never wanted to see my friends dad again but the next time i did see him i went and talked to him. i apologized and said that it was wrong to birng stuff like that into his house. he thanked me for being adult enough to talk to his face and that even though i messed up he could stil trust me. Try talkin to your b/f's dad and telling him you realize what you did was wrong and that you will will respect his house and its rules. Whether or not it is true but it will most likely earn his trust back and gain some brownie points too.
hoped i helped=]

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