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Age: 14
AIM: almOstxblOnd3
Member Since: July 24, 2004
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My friend cecely smells really bad.. i don`t know weather i should tell her to take a shower or not ... becuz i feel if i do she will get mad at me! .. WHAT SHALL I DO! help please (link)
Thanks qabby fOr that very very UNTRUTHFUL statement abOut me lol i still Love ya anwayz!!!!


My friend greg just recently asked me out. I like him but i want to be single for a while , just to know who is out there * shuld i say yes becuz i like him or shuld i say no because i want to stay single?? everyday he asks me fer the answer, but i dont kno wut to say because we are good friends n all* help me please!!! (link)
Let him knOw hOw yOu really feel. Tell him yOu dO like him but yOu wOuld like tO be sinqle fOr riqht nOw. Make it clear tO him that yOur nOt rejectinq him yOur just statinq what yOu want.


ok this has been my problem for a while now but I always like guys that are 1-2-3yrs older than me. For some reason I just cant like guys my age and Im not sure if its based on maturity or what but I cant. Like I've thought I've liked a guy my age but the more I hang out with him the more I realize I'm really not interested in him. And when I tell older guys I like them, they really could careless. When I tell them they either say "oh your hott for your age your just younger" or "i'd go out with you if you were a year older" and its like... "um...thanks?" I need some advice please! (link)
yOu likinq Older quyz nOt Onlii` has tO deal with the fact that qirlz are 3 yearz mOre mature then quyz but alsO just yOur type. Likinq quyz 1-2-3 yearz Older than yOu isn`t that bad, but of cOurse it wud be better if yOu foUnd sumOne yOur Own aqe where yOu twO wOuld have a lOt in cOmmOn. Likinq Older quyz isn`t necessarily a prOblem but sumtimez likinq Older quyz can be danqerOus. Just wen ur findinq tha riqht quy, nO matter what aqe, make sure yOu qet tO knOw them.


My friend *George* told my other friend *Jill* that something bad happened to him but he didn't want to talk about it. I really care for George and I want to be able to comfort him. BUt I'm also really worried that like something REALLY bad happened to him and he is too afraid to tell anyone. I'm really worried but Jill told me not to talk to him about it. How can I get him to come clean with me? (link)
Well, if GeOrqe tOld Jill what it was that happened then it`z best that he tOld sumOne. and as a friend Of cOurse u wud be scared cuz it mite be sumthinq seriOus, but if it was sumthinq that u shud knOw i think Jill wOuld have tOld yOu. sO if i were yOu i wOuldn`t rush GeOrqe intO tellinq yOu, just let him find tha riqht time.


Just to clarify, Im 16 years old. Im from New Jersey.


Heres the deal.. I like this certain girl, and Im more than positive she likes me back.. and this other friend I have doesnt quite agree with the idea of me and this girl going out. And if this other friend wasnt so close to me, I really wouldnt give a shit what he/she thought. But I care for them alot.. and i respect them alot. What should I do? (link)
Well, everythinq really dependz On hOw much u like this *certain qirl* and hOw much faith yOu have that it miqht wOrk Out... ur Other friend, if she/he was a true friend she/he wOuld be happii` for yOu nO matter what decisiOnz yOu make thrOuqhOut yOur whOle lyfe.


my sis is 17 yrs old and she just told my family that shes preganant...idk wut to do but cry! she is under alot of stress bc my parents r trying to get he to get an abortion! im only 15! im not rsy to be an aunt! wut should i do to help my sis? she alrdy said no to getting an abortion! HELP! (link)
Well, there`z not much yOu can dO... but tha One thinq u can dO is be there fOr her 10o% - she`z qOnna need yOu!!


Hey Everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and this summer my mom and I planned a trip to Tennessee. So she said I could invite a friend, so I did. Today we went out with that friend and another one, later at dinner my mom said she was re thinking bringing her with because she was a lil out of control. She said I should take my other friend that was out with us today. I don't want to lie to the one I already invited and take another one instead. I asked if I could take both, my mom said she'll think about it. So should I go to take both? Because I really want both of them to go! I rate. :) (link)
yOu shOuld deff. take both friendz but if ur mOm decides yOu can Onlii` brinq One, brinq tha One the asked first... yOu dOn`t want tO be rude and ditch her


ok well theres this kid that i like, but i ahve gone out with him and it hasnt worked be4... but he seems to be like INLOVE with me.. and i only like him a lil bit. i dont really wanna go back out with him cuz i dont wanna ruin our very close friendship but i also dont want him to think he needs to impress me.. bcuz i was kinda hoping to move on... what do i do?! and how do i move on :/ HELP PLEASEEE!!! (link)
First Of, dOn`t lead him On anymOre. Be strqiht up with him abOut hOw u feel and hOw yOu want nothinq more than a friendship with him... if yOu dOn`t tell him nOw thinqz may qet wOrse


ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
It`z not Okaii` fer a quy tO lOok at other qirlz! but quyz dOn`t seem tO understand that, us qirlz need tO start sayinq sumthinq abOut how we feel. Or, we can just loOk at Other quyz and say, "Oh it`z tha female hOrmOne`z, nO biq deal." But of cOurse as qirlz, everythiqn iz different, and it shOuldn`t be that way!


im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please (link)
dOn`t lOok fOr a quy based On if he`z Older. believe it Or nOt Older quyz can be just as immature as 6 year Oldz. When ur lOokinq fer a quy, lOok at his persOnality, nOt aqe, qrade Or wat kind Of car he has. Sumtimez datinq an Older quy can be weird, yOu may nOt have thinqz in cOmmOn and yOu may lOose interest in him...abOut ur friend, lOok fOr all tha bad thinqz in her relatiOnship and fiqure Out what kind of relatiOnship yOu`d like. that wOuld alsO help yOu find tha riqht quy.


well it all started when i was helping out @ a summercamp, and every1 came over 2 my house 2 swim. and this 1 hottt guy was upstairs with me signing on as his sn. and so when he left his buddy list was on so i looked @ it (i know i shouldnt have) and so i noticed my sn on there but i am blocked, and i thought we were friends. should i ask him y he blockd me? what do i do?
madison (link)
I think yOu shOuld ask him why he blOcked yOu. i`m sure there`z a reasOnable explanatiOn. But if yOu two were freidnz, then he wOudl be hOnest with yOu.




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