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I am a nineteen-year-old male from Georgia in the USA, and I am gay. I do not make that distinction because that is what my life revolves around, but it is a very important part of my life and does make a difference. I like to help with relationships of all levels, and am here to talk about anything without judging. I hope that I am able to help, and would love to hear follow-ups on how situations turned out.

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Choices are; Wind it up by Gwen stefani,sweet escape Gwen stefani,Sk8ter boi Avril Lavigne,D.I.N.O.S.A.U.R Ke$ha or Mobile Avril Lavigne???? Please I can not decide!! SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS,SOS!!!! :( :(

I would deffinately go with Sweet Escape by Gwen Stefani. I love that song.

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Hi im a 15 year old female and sometimes I feel like I want to be in a relationship. Then, days later I want to just be single. I'm currently still single but sometimes I want to be in a relationship but I do not want to get in a relationship then want to be a single again and vice-versa . so what should I do?

I have struggled with that before, but when you get in a relationship it usually changes. When I am in a relationship I never want to be single, but I go back and forth when I am single. But honestly, you're only fifteen. Stay single. It is so much more fun to just be single and hang out with friends. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is great and all, but it will happen when it happens, don't try to force it to happen. Just focus on having fun, and if you find someone, let it roll. Hope this helps!

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16/f
Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that?

I have had a friend with benefits before, and it broke my heart. He never wanted to comit to me, and in the end he founf another guy and ended up totally cutting me off, making me feel terrible. It is not a good idea. I have been there, and in the end, it hurts way to much; the immediate fun is not worth it. I highly suggest you wait until he wants to commit to a relationsihp before even kissing, because (if you're like me) kissing only lasts a minute or two and then it moves on fast. Hope this helps!

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I am gay. I havent had a boyfriend in months. I really want a boyfriend. My friends say "You'll Find someone" but i havent. its been 8 months. Does anyone have any advice on how to pick up a guy?

If you are always on the look out for a boyfriend, it won't happen. I have never gotten a boyfriend when I was looking for one, it always happened when I was not expecting it. When you look to hard you give off a desperate vibe and it really turns a lot of guys off (I have met that guy and I have been that guy). But you do have to be happy with yourself. My last boyfriend helped me feel a lot better about myself with a few pointers:
1) Wear clothes that are your size, not too tight or too loose. Too tight can make you look egocentric, and too loose can make you look like a slob.
2) Walk with pride. I walked with a slouch all of the time, and I never realized how big a difference it made to stand up straight and sit up straight. It says a lot about how confident you are in yourself, and it actually makes you feel better about yourself.
Those were the two biggest ones. And if you find a guy that you like, dont try to rush him. Let him take his time. Let me know if this helps, and message me if I can help you with anything else!

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I need help cleaning my room but without it being so boring!I don't have the ability to listen to music a. because my parents are asleep and if I wake them I'll have to clean the whole house instead of just my room b. I don't even have a radio in my room! and c. Even if I did I wouldn't get any work done because i get distracted WICKED easily and I would just sing along with the radio and not do any work! I just cant find anything that makes cleaning the pig sty I call a room fun! :(

One thing I do to help is to set a goal (say I work thrity minutes or an hour non-stop), and when I accomplish that I let myself get on my computer for a little while, text a few friends, grab a snack, anything that seems fun. But if I work for an hour straight I try to limit my break time to ten minutes so that I can still go back to cleaning. It helps me get a lot of things accomplished, but it takes a lot of discipline to stick with it. Hope this helps!

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