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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time?

if its a little yes it its alot no!!!!!

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My boyfriend and I had intercourse two Saturdays ago. I'm due to get my period the begining of next week. Normally, by now I'd be showing my normal signs of PMS such as lower back ache, tender breasts, bloating, excessive eating, and cramping. The only thing that I'm getting is slight lower back pains, slightly tender breasts (but hardly), and the excessive eating. We did use protection, but as you may know, condoms are not 100%. Could it be possible that I am pregnant? Or do you think it's a little too soon to tell? I should be getting my period between the 23rd-25th. 17/f. And for the mothers on this site, when you didn't know you were pregnant, before you got your period, did you show your normal signs of PMS? Thank you.

if the condom wasnt broken your not pregnant if you get a test it will show up even if it says you need to wait until after your period trust me on that on i took a test two days after my first time and i wasnt due for another three weeks

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hi, im 16/m and me and my gf have been talking about having sex for a really long time but i want to make it special for her. does anyone know any good positions or things i can do to make her feel good or turn her on? i rate high if theres a good answer!! thanks

just make the day about you two stay at home watch movies then kiss her and touch her tease her down there and try and make it last not to long but long enough also it maked me feel good personally when my boyfriend always asked if i was okay it shows you care more about her and her pleasure than how you feel

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Well heres the thing..

Sex..

im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!

any advice on the subject??

thanks

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get on birth control patchs and or pills i suggest trojen becuase i use those all the time and they have never broken also tell you guy to pull out before he cums if you do all of that theres no way you will get pregnant. also tell him to pay attention if the condom breaks in the begining of your sexual encounter you can replace it

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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.

you can be pregnant but i doubt it go get a home pregnancy test it you dont get your period it should deffintily show up since your period was to just dont stress because that can cause you period to be delayed

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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters

sex can be alot of fun the first time isnt so bad as long as his dick isnt huge youll feel sore afterward and since he is a virgin also it might not last long dont go for your second time the same day because then it will mostlikely last longer and cause some pain id carry a condom with you or make sure he has one because you have to be safe

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im a 21 year old male and my girlfriend is 19 and 8 months pregnant.She's thinks i dont find her attractive anymore because it seems like ive lost my sex drive!!what should i do??

tell her you see more in her now because of what you two have made together just explain that the sex drive is put on hole because next month you two are going to expierience something in life more great than sex

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My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer.

getting fingerd can be alot of fun and feel really good it may hurt a little the first time afterward but it can be fun so dont worry and just enjoy it

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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

if he ejaculated near you it could have swam up in you

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My boyfriend and I are currently long distance and often find ways to masturbate together. Recently I had an issue where there was some bleeding unrelated to my period. I figured that since I was a virgin my cherry may have popped; it wasn't thick like I had really torn something, just sort of dark pink and watery. A month or so afterward it happened yet again. It didn't lead to an early period (in fact my period wasn't until a couple weeks afterward), so I'm pretty confused. Is this normal?

not normal but not unheard of i think you cherry might have torn a tiny but and its coming out with you cum and such so to speak

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just this year i decided to loose my virginity to my boyfriend of 10 months. the first two times we had unprotected sex. it freaked me out because i thought just maybe i could be pregnant. we have been intimate a couple of times more. truthfully, i wished i waited like i intended in the first place. i love my boyfiriend and i am 100% sure that i will marry him. but i am soooooo scared of the responsibilities that comes along with sex. i really wanna wait til we get marreid, or at least until we are finanially responsible for any "accidents". He loves me , and he said he will never be upset if i decided to wait. but lately he haven't been coming over. i think its because he knows i dont want to have sex. he is very persuasive and that scares me because 80% of the time i give in to him. i love him and he loves me, but i truly believe he will be very unhappy if we discontinued being sexually active.

well you have to choose are you ready to be a parent at this point in your life if he wants to have sex use a condom get on birth control pills or patchs there are tons of way to stay protected and if he doesnt like or understand that then its his problem

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I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period?

you can be preg and have your period but it is possible that the test were detecting your period hormones but i would either go to a doctor or take another test after your period it should be a bold positive and if you were thinking you were preg and stressing that could have caused your period to be late

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when having sex with my boyfriend after a few mins my vagina starts hurting like sometimes I have to ask him to stop, I've been checked for STDs and I do not have any but sex is still very painful sometimes, what could it be?

if your having sex right before/after your period it may cause pain um if your you have sex and then have sex again it may hurt the second time and or if you maturbated things along those lines

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many people on this site give contradicting advice as far as whether or not sperm dies when it hits the air or not. so let me ask you this, if that were true, would it not be pointless to donate sperm? (masturbating in a cup, and then freezing the sperm, which have been in the air for at least a minute or more) so my question is, can i assume all this advice on sperm dying in the air (and that it is impossible to get pregnant from any means other than sex) incorrect? thanks!

sperm do not die until they dry up if the hit the air they can still be swimming around and if the sperm would come anywhere near your lower parts it can swim up there and you can get pregnant\

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well i wanted to know if anyone has some advice on the best way to pleasure a guy, my bf and i have had sex and i give him blowjobs and handjobs but i want to know what guys like best? anyone have any ideas on what i can do to pleasure him the most?

ask him and read some cosmopolitan it really does help pleasuring him can start with some rubbing and such then when you do do something sexual he may enjoy it that much more

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Last night i got fingered... how long will it take before it doesnt hurt down there?

a day or two get a nice bubble bath dont think about it and dont do that again until it doesnt hurt anymore


hope i helped

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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!







flirting is the fun of it but you cant be :the other woman: move on for now and see what happens between the explain to him how you feel and see what he says

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OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was one of them on the list. and i really do like him i just dont know what to do I mean i dont even care if he likes me or not just being friends is enough for me. How do I get him to re add me and talk to me again like we used to??????

email him but the one he sent you sounded rude i dont know if i would even care for him anymore but i know how hard it is to get over guys


hope i helped

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ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a week now and hes really shy. i highly doubt he's ever going to kiss me so i decided to make the move. but how? how should i kiss him? i rate 5's. hurry with the advice!

best way i think start with hugs and kiss' on the cheek then bring your heads together talk a sec and kiss him






hope i helped

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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads?

im a red head two i do have freckles tho and my hair is straight my boyfriend is 18 and really good looking lol not only my opinion by the way lol

but anyways im fifteen so i think there are just a few really great guys out there that are attracted to us red headed beautys


hahaha

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