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my boyfriend & i have been dating for almost 6 months. we love & respect each other very much. the furthest we've been is 1st, & we don't even do that anymore. i try my best to respect my parent's wishes which consisted of hugs, cuddling, & an occasional kiss. lately it seems like they're becoming more & more overprotective with this rule. my boyfriend came over last night & i had a stomachache & didn't feel good. so, he put a pillow on his chest/stomach area & let me lie on it. he spread his legs out so i could lie down while he sat down comfortably. our "private parts" weren't touching indirectly, because i know my dad doesn't like that. he was rubbing my tummy to try to make me feel better. no one told us to stop so i thought they didn't mind it. then i overrheard them talking about it today & how disgusting it was. how my "private parts" are above & below my tummy so he should never touch there. so then i told my parents later on i wouldn't do that but i just feel bad that they keep assigning random rules left & right & i feel like a bad person, because i do. my boyfriend is hurt everytime i tell him we can't do something because my parents don't approve of it, but they always feel uncomfortable telling us that. he feels like they don't trust us. & i feel the same way. why don't they? we don't do anything majorly wrong. i'm trying so hard to gain their trust. when we're alone, we do the same as when we're around them. i don't want to do nothing around them & then do more with him when we're alone [nothing past a peck] because i feel weird about that. like i'm sneaking or something. someone please help me fix all of this. i've talked to them about it many times but they just don't listen. they say they're too old fashioned. but they're really hurting my relationship with my boyfriend. we have a lot of love & sometimes we want to show it physically, but just with a hug & an occasional kiss. they're married & have sex, so why can't they understand that? ugh i can't take it anymore. thanks if you can help. (link)
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Well find a way to know they can trust you...my parents do the same thing they are just protecting you...they dont want you to do anything you will regret. Tell your boyfriend that they just want to protect both of you because his parents might feel the same way they dont want him to do anything he will regret and if something happens you cant change it so dont complain because you will thank your parents one day!!!
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Theres this guy that I work with (I work at Worlds of fun, an amusment park were both 14) well anyways i really like him. hes one of the people that dress up as the snoopy characters (lol i know its funny) and i work in the gift shops so sometimes ill see him. that last time we talked we talked and kinda flirted a little bit. and the other day we walked passed eachother we just stared at eachother it was like neither of us could take our eyes off of eachother lol i know it sounds retarded but i really do like him but i dont know what to say so him when we talk please give me advice about how i can show this guy that i like him and hoe can i terll if he likes me? (link)
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If you are walking to like someone where to eat or you are on your break and he is too then just say you want to go to like lunch? if he says yes then just take it from there!
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Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things. (link)
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Ok my friend does the same thing. She gets mad over stupid reasons, just tell your friend you have to do things with other people and not with her all the time. She has to realize that you dont have time for her!!!!!!!
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almost a year ago i got a 3year old cot i was so happy but i was not there when my dad brought her home i came home week later to find my cat hateiing me loveing my dad i dont no wat to do because i really want her to like me any suggestions?
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Play with her pick her up and do stuff that your dad does with her
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okay to start off I'm such an IDIOT! I dumped my boyfriend about a month ago, and we went out for 4 months. i was happpy that i dumped him cuz i wanted to be single. i still like being single but i still like my ex. It made me sad when i figured out the girl he liked. He is still like my friend and stuff but i kno he doesn't like me. How do i get over him? I WILL RATE (link)
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Think of everything you couldnt have done when you were with your ex. Stay friends its the best thing...just think and do other stuff to keep him off your mind
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I`m going to be asking this guy that I like out tomorrow or sometime soon, whenever I see him next. I want to look cute / sweet / pretty, you get what i mean. But I dont want to look to sluty or anything! what should i wear? p.s im pale so sometimes i dont like wearing skirts but i kno its summer so yeah..
any suggestions? (link)
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wear a halter but one that isnt too low...(slutty) wear cute capris put ur hair up nice curl it maybe and just act like urself and you will do great!!
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Hello!
I live right near Six Flags` Amusement Park && I`m having my fourteenth birthday there. Problem is my brother && sister, who are both younger, age 11 && 8 want to come with me && my friends to the park along with my parents. I want to go along with just my friends, but I don`t think my parents will let me. I just went to the park last Saturday alone with my friend (who`s 14) & my parents weren`t exactly fine with it but they let me go anyways. Well I don`t know if it`s too much to ask of them to let me go alone. I mean there`s only me and like 4 of my bestfriends...How can i convince them to let us go alone for a few hours? The majority of my friends have cellphones but yeah...what should i do? kthx!! (link)
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Tell them u r responisble call them every 2 hours let them no ur ok then maybe they will trust u
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i'm 15 almost 16 female
okay so i'm going out with this great guy but he's out of town so much and i'm tryin to have fun and at a party i met this really sweet guy and we hung out the whole time; the only problem is that i think he likes me and i never see my boyfriend and i would actually see this guy; so should i break up with my boyfriend or what? i'm so confused! (link)
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Well since he is ur boyfriend but u never see him then its not a relationship to keep going with have fun girl ! GET OUT
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My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened? (link)
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hi
just find your friend and tell him that you would love to go back with him. Or most importantly tell him you really loved being friends but mostly together. And thats how you want it to stay. Try that
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I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;
I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..
Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...
and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!
I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??
What should I do?!
PS. Sorry for the lengthy question (link)
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hi
listen the best thing to do is sit down with your parents tell them just say let me talk before you do. And b4 u get mad i want you to no it was all done by peer pressure. Just let it out. Once you tell them and they send you tell them and talk to them you will be very relieved.Try that
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