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Okay don't get me wrong I really like this guy but i don't want to go out with him. I'm 14 female and all I want is to be friends with benifits. Lets call him Pete, so me and Pete are BEST friends but I want more. So how can I devolp that more of a relationship without him asking me out? Love always diane (and i rate high pure truth!)

well since you and pete are BEST FRIENDS, you dont want to do anything to ruin that relationship, but if you want to be more then friends without going out with him, then just hang out with him more and just be a REALLY GOOD FRIEND!!!!

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My g/f and i broke up a while back but I don't know what i did...we were only going out for two days and she said that she was scared that we wouldn't be friends if we broke up. The next day she had another b/f.....what did I do? Are there any suggestions on how to impress a girl...plz?

well tell you what, since im not a guy, but if i were in your situation i would just BE HER FRIEND, just like she wanted...

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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions?

hey, well the first place i would go to is forever 21, their cloths are not expensive and are really cute... Other places you can try are ross, old navy, tj Max, maybe JCpennys>>

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There is this girl at my school and she's super sweet!She is most likely the nicest person in our grade.WE're friends and all but she's really getting on my nerves.She's always sitting with me at lunch we have to be partners for everything(she is in 4 of my classes), and she switched into band because im in it too. First i just let it go because i know she just wants to be my friend. But now she's been doing it for 3 weeks and its bugging me. I need some time with my friends and myself. I cant be with her 24/7!
So what should i do or say? I dont want to be mean cause she's really sensitive...

well since shes sensitive and all, maybe you should try hanging on for a little while. and if she keeps on then sit with her and try to talk to her, but dont be to mean to where your saying "get away i dont want anything to do with you" you should try telling her to get into some other social groups and try something new at your school..

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Ok i started talking to this one guy on aim and we talk about all kinds of stuff and he's really sweet and he goes to a school in my district and well we've met before and he's known me for along time but i never knew him until about a week ago and i really like him but my ex boyfriend told me that he was on drugs real bad and that he gets drunk every weekend and well a bunch of other people have told me that but i still like him...and he told my friend that he thinks im hott and that he would like to talk to me so when i asked him about it he said he did like me and he did think i was hot but he had to find out what was going on with this other girl before we could start talking...do you think he really does like me or is he making and excuse up and making that up about that other girl? If he decides that he does want to start talking should i sense he gets drunk and is on drugs? What should i do?

well you should take your chance if you really like this guy. Maybe he is using the girl thing for an excuse, but then again he might really like you...You should talk to him over the phone (a couple or not) you guys can always be friends..and i think you would be able to sense if he gets drunk, cuz hell act wierder then usual..

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hey guys well my Best friend moved away a little less than a year ago and we talked every day.. until a couple weeks ago we started drifting away and its sad its like she doesnt care any more. soo im looking for some quotes that are like about best friends who drift away and its sad and you miss them or something so if you have any thank you..

I hope this helps:
There are moments in life that i'll never forget, not just because i achieved or got the best, but because you were always there..

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Ok im really bad with my self-confidence like some of my friends think i just say "oh i'm so fat" just to get them to tell me im not.. but i really don't i really think of myself as fat.. like my face is pretty but i always think im fat, sometimes i think its because i have such gorgeous friends and they get all the guys i never think i can get any. I always brush by hot guys because its almost like i know they would never like me.. it's horrible but its how i feel.. like (1) i need to know how to feel better about myself and not think of myself as ugly. (2) does anyone know why i got this way.

okay you shouldnt compare your selve to your friends, you should be happy with what you got and you shouldnt care what people think, but if they give you good compliments, then take em.. you need to stop looking at yourself in a negative way, and start thinking positively about youself...

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alright wellll theres this guyy who ive kind of liked for a while and its been a while alright well it isnt like im in like 5th grade and have a crush on him but since like the end of august ive had a thing for thing i guess and throughout the year its been like maybe he'll like kind of fade away for a while, but like whenever im with another guy or like getting on another guy or whatever all i can think about is him and like its weird because its like i always want the one thing i cant havee sort ahhaa but idk what to do like im just sorta trying to find another guy or whatever but idk if i should just move onnn or i dont know what to do and like ya:-( i jsut nnnnnnneeeeeeed help please! and hes older than me and i cant stop thinking about him whenever i hear a song i think aboutt himm

well if you really like this guy then take your chance.. Ya i know that your feeling may go on and off once in awhile, but the best thing to do is take your chance and stick with it..

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I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :)

hey i think you should ask him what he wants and if he doesnt answer, then try compromising with friends.. (Get em a movie he really enjoys to watch, or a cd and you can even try going out to eat or to da movies...) Either way get em somthing he'll enjoy...

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I need help. well actually my guy friend does. He likes this girls that lives in P.A. but she wont go out with him because of the distance. Hes been really sad lately(or at least i see sadness) and I never see him smile and he never hits me like he used to when we would play around. What can I do to make him happy again? I really miss him being happy. So if anyone can help me... please help. I miss him a lot... :-(



well try and talk to your friend and if he still isnt happier then try and get ahold of the girl he likes in P.A. and ask her for some help.. ask her to help you by talking to your friend, being his friend...cuz everyone deserves a chance. Then maybe he'll cheer up!!!

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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!

well if i were you i wouldnt let him be all touchy around me.. For one thing its kind of creepy having a guy that isnt your boyfriend touch you. and if he wont listen the first time, then tell him off the second... Even if you like this guy, its for the best( unless you know that, thats his way of saying he likes you).other then that TELL EM OFF!!!!!

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okay this is kinda stupid but o well,
i BEHOND like this guy a LOT o-m-g u do not even know! Well... the thing is that i kinda of met him over the internet. But technically i did not because one of my friends has been firends with him for forever! and my best frend went to a camp with him,
well I do not know what to do? he asked for my number and he said he put it on his hand, but i am really scared that I am going to get hurt if he doesnt like me. Well i have not really met him in person ( you mite think that is crazy) but its not, I might have seen him before though. He always wants to call me but I am soo confused soo PLEASE i am begging you!! H-E-L-P!!

p.s. I kind of told him I like him because we have been talking for about 4 months now but is it creepy that i do????????

well if you really like this guy, then take your chance and go out wit him.. And if you dont have the nerve give him your number and let him call you and then take your chance. or have your friend help you and ask him out for you!!!

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Yea so theres this kid lets call him Tony, and its impossible to go out with him.. Like hes not gorgeous but i think he is. and were really good friends soo hes always tellingme how he likes gorgeous girls.. but i feel like im not gorgeous and i really like him but if i tell him i dont want it to be like o wow.. yea i dont like u , like hes not gonna wanna hurt, me so hell probably make uph and excuse like oo yea im not into the whole girlfriend boyfriend thingy but how do i tell him i like him without weirding him out.. signed, a little self-conscience with guys

Well i think since you guys have been friends then maybe it would be a good idea for you to ask him out, and if he refuses then just tell him "then were friends right, maybe we can be more then friends later"

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ok this past weekend my cousin which is like a sister to me i mean everyone thinks we're twins actually came and stayed with me over the weekend and Friday my other cousin come over which isn't from where i am and i hadnt seen her in forever...well lets call the one everyone thinks is my twin Kaci and lets call the one i havent seen in awhile Michelle well Michelle knows the guy that Kaci goes with and she has known him for a loong time and she's real good friends with his sister well...she told me some stuff that shouldnt have been said and then she told me i needed to have a talk with Kaci and tell her to make sure it's the right thing before she slept with him or anything and for me to tell her how it messes with your life and your reputation well without thinking i told Kaci and Kaci really got mad at me and we were just giving her some advice and trying to save her from ruining her life...which i guess was wrong...and she went back and told her boyfriend that we was trying to break them up and said he had all kinds of diseases and stuff and that we said if she slept with him then she would get those diseases and mess her life up...which isnt the truth and me and her boyfriend was friends he helped me out all the time and now he doesnt want anything to do with me and doesnt want her to come back to my house...I dont know what i should do anymore because she lied on the both of us and we dont really appreciate that because we dont want them breaking up we're the ones that hooked them up in the first place you know..what do we need to do?

Well i think you, michelle, and kaci have a good thing going..and if you and michelle are trying to help kacis relationship with her boyfriend and she takes everything the wrong way,then shes not a true friend.. Cuz friends are soppose to help each other not hurt. Then maybe you should just let her get hurt and live out the pain, then shell go back to you and michelle and shell know what she did wrong and that she should trust u if shes a reall friends!!!!

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