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Well. Lets start with my name. My name is Whitney. I'm 13 years young. I'm pretty cool if I say so myself. Most likely, I'll stereotype you, place you into a group, and judge you; So prove me wrong & show me who you really are. My favorite stores are Ruehl, Nordstroms, & Rearends; but, I'm not scared to be seen in a salvation army. It's kind of like, if I see something I like, I'll get it. I am my own person. I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet, or the meanest. My favorite color is brown. I'm allergic to cats, but I have three. My friends mean the world to me, and my sister is my major role model. If I'm having a bad day, watch out. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when people drop things in my inbox. I WILL try my hardest to answer your questions & give the best advice I can. I'm not too good with relationship problems, only because its hard to explain over the internet. I've gone through a lot through these measily 13 years, but I'm telling you, I've got some knowledge.

But anyways, I really hate talking about myself. So I'm done.
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16/F
The school year is coming up, and I want to look great. I'm not a girly girl, but i do wear skirts and some cute things. I feel best in a hoodie and pants tho.
I'm not super skinny, but I have a great body. I do have that tummy that hangs out when I sit tho. I'm 5'5, Taller then most my friends, but shorter then the guys(i have a boyfriend going to college tho.))
So what can I wear??
In my school we're not allowed to have tank tops without anything over it. The straps of our shits have to be two fingers wedith.
I have a thing with shirts. I sweat, but I'm going to wal*mart to buy this stuff.
I Like hollister cloths, but I never pick out super cute things. But This year, I'm trying to go shopping with my friend, and she is truthful about how cloths look.
So good idea right?
Any ideas on what to wear?(pictures maybe)

Now Hair.
I have short hair. To my shoulders. Im use to having long hair. I got my hair cut in May, but I have no idea how to wear it. I have straight hair. So I wear it straight, and I can srunch it. I do the little srunched hair half way up with straight bangs down. Which is cute.
Any other ideas?(maybe a picture of step by step or something to tell you how to fix your hair?)

Thanks a ton!! =] (link)
Alright. So about clothes. I wouldn't really go with Hollister. I love that store.. but I dont know about you, but I like having clothes that others don't. EVERYONE WEARS HOLLISTER. I would try and get some cute clothes from Forever 21 [if you don't have that store, they have an amazing website.. its www.forever21.com]. They have really cute contemporary vintage clothes which is totally in style right now. I suggest getting plain colored t-shirts. Shirts with designs or patterns usually attract to your areas of your upper-half that aren't really in the shape you want them to be. Dress it up with a contrasting color of big beads and maybe a matching headband. For something new, maybe try wearing skinny jeans or distressed ones with maybe flats.

& For hair. If you don't have layers already.. GET THEM. Get shorter ones in the back so it gives that 'teased hair' effect. It looks great on almost everyone. Maybe if you have the right face shape, get side swept bangs. =]

I hope I helped and good luck!


Okay so this may sound strange but i need to ask.

Im white and NOT racist whatsoever. But whenever im describing a person to someone its easy to say he/she is black or white.

But when i say someones black, a part of me inside feels like im sounding racist. Im not sure what to call African Americans in a non-racist nice way.

I will take any anwsers but anwsers from any thats african american would be nice. (link)
I am actually white, but my step mom is half african american & I just asked her the same question recently. She said it is the same thing as calling someone white. They don't get offended unless your saying it in a rude way or making it sound as if you are racist. If you are just mentioning it in a description of a person or something like that its fine. Just don't joke about it;; I'm sure you wouldnt since you arent racist.


My earlobe stinks REALLY bad and it's been like that ever since I was born. Now adays, fashion is really big so everyone like shares earrings and and stuff but I don't borrow anyone's or let anyone borrow mine because my ear lobe stinks so bad that when you take it out you can smell it on the earrings really strong and there's like white stuff on it, really gross.

And I have like a large amount of earwax in my ear even though I clean it everyday.

And recently when I sleep on my side (i always do), and when i wake up I can't hear out of the ear I was laying on. why? It's just now

please help it's so gross.. (link)
well whats making your ear lobe smell bad is sort of like "puss" that comes out of a pimple or something. this usually means its a little infected or a tad irritated. i would suggest going to Claire's or even sally's beauty and just get a bottle of ear cleaner & use it every night and morning or you can just use hydrogen peroxide.

& for the wax problem, you should look into getting your ears candled. its not too common but it works amazing and gets out all of your infections and wax. you will be able to hear and feel 10x better ; guaranteed. & no it doesn't hurt, it actually feels really calming.


has myspace been messed up for anynoe eles today (3/22) or is it just me? like i will sign in then 2 seconds later it will etll me i need to log in again (its not a myspace becuase i click home, and i also type in www.myspace.com to make sure and enter it so its not a virus so dont etll me that) or it will take me to a sign up for myspace page, or tell me my account is locked for 15 minutes but then let me log in 2 seconds later. myspace difficulties? (link)
thatr is a virus. whenever it says to do that, check the URL.. its something like melanoma or something idk. but what your doing whenever your retyping your password, it kind of steals it from you and screws up your page, trust me, its happened to me 3 times now.,


how do you know when your in love with a guy? like i dont know him all too well meaning as to i dont talk to him alot of times, but i really like him i think! but idk if its love..

13/f (link)
No its not love. Love is getting to know eachother on a one on one basis. If you've only talked to him a little, and you only really like him, that right there shows its not love.

Love is like that "that can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the stars over the fence" kind of feeling.

Don't search for love at your age. Trust me, the only way you can get out of it is heartbroken.




i sent my friend a video i found online. at the end, a boy blows a kiss with two fingers, then they split into a peacy sign and he sticks out his tongue. my friend said this meant somthing nasty. what does it mean? i dont knoe how to search urban dictionary because its a motion, not a word. thanx!!!!!! (link)
its an oral sex sort of sign. its for eating out.


Im 13. My best friend Sean, and I have been best friends for a long time. im alot taller and im gothic. He is short and a dumb nerd. i love him as my bff but a bf to. i love him and he loves me. my friend told him that i really loved him and everything and then he told me he loved me. but we just wont go out i wont ask him he wont ask me but we really love each other. but now we dont act the same anymore around each other. i always used to hug him and just do stuff like that but as my best friend and he'd do it back. now when i do he just looks at me. i say just as friends because hes my best friend. i dont kiss him because hes a guy and that would be like bf gf i do that to my friends that are girls they do it to me. its not the same anymore i want it to be the same again. he takes everything differently. am i flirting? what should i do? or say? (link)
Thank you for clarifying all of that!

What I think he thinks is going on.. is that Sean thinks that you want more than just friends. & I think that scares him probably.

Not trying to be stereotypical, but the typical 'nerd' doesn't usually get much attention from girls. So maybe the fact that a girl that he likes is actually hugging him and paying attention to him, it makes him nervous.

Everyone responds differently to nerves. I usually show mine by being hyper and loud.. while Sean might show his by being shy and quiet.

I think you need to confront him.. whether it is online, in person, or through a note.. I think you need to tell him that your friendship means a lot to you. & Just because you guys know each others feelings for one another, shouldn't affect your friendship.

--I hope I helped!

Good luck sweetie!

XO-WHITNEY



ppl say im gothic but i dont think i am i do like dying my hair different colors or streaks and i want tips. what kind of dye will wash out in like a month.and i mainly were black brown and pink.thats 1 Q.my other Q is...im 13 this month i love my bff he loves me. hes the loudest im the quietest but im very loud and crazier around him and my other bff but i love him hes been my bff for forever but i want him 2 b my bf but eveytime sum1 dates they end up hating eachother but i love him as a bff and bf (link)
QUESTION ONE: I'd suggest any kind from your local pharmacy... CVS ; Wallgreens

QUESTION TWO: In order for me to answer your question, please resend, with better grammar & details that need to be included. I am a little confused.. maybe use fake names or just their first names just to clarify some things.

Thanks!


okay, see i have an 18 year old boyfriend (im almost 15) and i know that he wants to have sex. i want to and all, but im still a virgin. and sex hurts right? and yes his penis is fairly large so it wouldnt fit in that good and then it would really hurt and we would have to stop. and plus im so nervous but i really want to do him. what should i do? (link)
i know this sounds stupid coming from a 13 year old.. but if your nervous.. i dont think your ready yet.


i know this is a stupid question but how do you flirt with a guy and get him to like you? (link)
look down maybe 2 pages. this same question was asked. please read and see if you can find answers :]


I don't really like Uggs. They are ugly but.. I actually saw some good ones.

They were black ones [the longer ones; almost knee high] and I was wondering where I can get some similar ones?


Honestly, I'm not going to waste like $160-$200 onto those. I don't even have that money.

Any stores? (link)
there are tons and tons of imitation Uggs for probably less than 100. I would try Macy's if you want good quality.. or any other nice department store.

If you are just looking for some super cheap cute ones, I might try Target or even Kohl's. Good luck & happy shopping!


I'm biratial. My mon is black and my dad is white, and I have really curly hair naturally, but I also have a perm. I use oil in my hair so it won't be all frizzy, but it leaves my hair really greasy. I was wondering if anyone knew of any hair products that would work on curly hair to make it less frizzy that dosn't leave my hair oily. (link)
I suggest scrunching your hair with gel. It loosens the curls a litte bit & eaves your hair pretty much frizz-free!


has anybody used any of th v.s's hair care or makeup products...if so how satisfied were you. (link)
beautiful makeup.
great hair stuff that smells good!!!

& i agree.. the blush is AMAZING!






well now it turned out that she likes his best friend and she does like him but not more than friends but she doesnt want to tell him....but he didnt tell me he liked me he told my friend did this happen to someone before if it did will you please give me advice


help,

kelly (link)
I dont get what you need help with. Thats good that she likes his friend instead of him right? Because now you have him all to yourself!


i like this guy and he said he liked me but one time my friend came with me and he was there and they were hanging outand i think he likes her instead and i dont know what to do and they are going on a date on friday and i really want him to go out with me cause i dont think she really loves him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


please help,
kelly (link)
Dear Kelly,

Wait let me just clarify this for myself.

so you like this guy & he told you he likes you back.

one time you and your friend hung out with him and he was sort of paying a lot of attention to her.

& they are going on a date this friday?


Well thats what I got out of it at least. So if this is the case, all I can do is suggest you just not worry so much. You should always expect the worse to happen, but hope for the best.

Maybe, you can kind of hint around to join in too, and make it sort of a group date or something.

I'm sorry.. I'm not too good at relationship probelms, but pleasse keep asking.

Good luck with everything babe.

just remember 'expect the worse to happen, but hope for the best!'


hi i was wondering where you can get ediable glue, to glue food to items. (link)
vanilla frosting


Okay, well I'm 13/f

I just got my period in November so I have only had it 3 times...

I want to use a tampon so bad because it's so much less hastle...

but it hurt...

so I talked to my mom and she said that there is this thing called a "cherry" and that to use a tampon you'd have to break it or else it would hurt too bad. And that some girls break it with a tampon or with sex.. and I know the second one is WAY out of the question... but I'm kinda scared


so if any girl knows what it feels like to break it with a tampon please tell me if it's worth it to wait..


THX (link)
first of all. you can pop your cherry by putting in a tampon.. but its not that likely.

you see, that opening is bigger than you think. A small tampon usually does not break it.

You can pop you cherry all sorts of ways.. from dancing to riding a bike.

It probably is hurting because you are inserting it wrong.

Heres how i do it:

put one leg on the toilet seat and open your legs.
aim for your butt i guess or your back

good luckl


this question is mostly for guys. but if any girls have guy friends or boyfriends that tell them, then this is for you too! do guys like when you have anything on your lips when you kiss them? i mean like lip gloss, lip stick, chapstick, nothing, etc. i mean wahts their preference and does anything annoy them? thanks in advance! (link)
chapstick is def. the way to go.


I shave down there but I'm not sure how often I should shave? Also are there any tips to prevent it from feeling all stubbly? (link)
I shave every 3 or 4 days, it all depends on how fast your hair grows.

I would recommend using shaving cream [make sure you wash it out thoroughly after] & a good razor, not some cheap disposable one. I like using Venus or even better, Intuition.


What are the best tampons?
I want leak protection that doesn't leak before the whole tampons is full. (link)
I found that Playtex Sport [super] ones work amazing. Because they are the sport version, you know that there is some major protection!




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