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HI i am 15years old and a female and i am a freshmen in high school! okay soo there is this kid that says he likes me and that he would so go out wit me!&& i really like him. but like he is such a player it is not funnny at all! && i am scared that if i do go out wit him! then he will cheat on me and i am scared if gettting hurt, what should i do go out with him, or not? (link)
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You should take more time to know him close enough to set up some stability for if you do have a relationship. You need to decide if hes worth the risk or not...
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I'm in love with this guy and we have history and he still likes me but in the time we were mad at each other we got involved with other people. He still has a girl and I was about to hook up with this other guy who's really sweet and I like him..but the problem is, he's not replacing my feelings for the other guy and i dont think anyone can. Lately I've been in a better relationship with the guy I really love and he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend and I couldn't have been happier..until a day after the convo the other boy I might've hooked up with asked me out. I felt soooo terrible I didn't know what to say =[ I said I would have to think about and told his friend that I was in love with someone and not him and word got to him and now we're just..awkward. I like both of these guy but am only in love with one. I want to be with the person I love but...I feel bad because I pretty much led this other guy on while in a bad state. How can I handle this? (link)
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Well I totally understand where you are coming from, and you need to be totally honest with the boy you led on. He should understand however you want to put it. You need to decide whether you want the boy youve loved or the boy you like. Letting go can be good and bad whichever way you make it. Think things over and tell me!
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Over the past few weeks I've gotten to know a guy I have a couple of my classes with. We have a lot in common and we talk all the time. I guess you could say I have a crush on him and it almost seems like he likes me back. The problem is he has a girlfriend. I respect his relationship with her but they fight all the time. He's always telling me how much of a bitch she is and how he doesn't want to talk to her. I asked a friend and she told me to talk to him about it but I don't want to sound terrible asking him if he likes me because he's been dating this girl for a while. Help me out? (link)
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Well it depends on how you want to take it. You can be there for him through his problems and show how much you support him. I wouldn't jump the gun with you telling him you like him just yet because it could show up later to his girlfriend or other people that could cause a problem. Get really close to him in your own way
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i kind of adore you.
again. (link)
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aww really?
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you're really cute.
I lost my phone number, can I have yours?
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hehe thanks, its 518 369 7835
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hi, i was just wondering your step-brothers name was. (link)
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I dont have one... yet lol
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Okay well the last few years i've gotten into two really serious relationships. and I feel inlove with both of them. There were relationships inbetween but these two were different. one was my best friend but hates me now.(different story) The other one we had to stop talkin for other reasons that had to do with family and such. i have never loved someone like that and from time to time i see him and i wanna die. we were friends for a while and it fell back into the old stuff so we stopped. i hate him not being there. but(the real problem) i have a boy right now thats inlove with me and i feel horrible because to say it the simplest, i dont love him back. i say it and pretend and i know thats wrong but i dont wanna hurt him like i have been hurt... (link)
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You think you rushed things too fast? The situation your in, really is something you need to look at deep inside you. There is no easy way in and out...
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Mkay, this is the same person who wrote to you about the guys asking me out and all that, and ya, but right when I was finally feeling better, and he was out of my life, he just comes on msn and just starts talking to me again like I'm his gf. =/ I hate it. Because I'm finally over him, but eversince that day, I was always unsure if I started liking him again. I know it sounds mean to say, but I want him to STAY out of my life, how should I tell him?
P.s. I think you're cute (link)
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That's tough. Hmm sounds to me you still like him because your hurting when your talking to him (thats how ive felt). Well it's your choice if you want to talk to him or not, do you still want him in your life or not... If you dont tell him nicely that maybe you two could be friends in the future and you need a break from him right nor or just deal with him. Tell me how it goes!
Oh and thanks :)
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my friends are the bomb but some are 2-faced how do i tell them that they lie to much with out being mean? (link)
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They won't take it easy no matter how you tell them, and two-faced people usually stay two-faced from my experience with them. What ever you say to them make sure it's nice and make sure not to use TWO-FACED, thats straight out asking for it :) If they are truely your friends they should understand where you are coming from...
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hi hi dennis ok well my boyfriend left to forida the day before valentines day and i told him it was no problem and it truely wasnt.the next day valentines day we had snow day (yay!) i was online but my away message said " i wanna be the friction in -----'s tight ass jeans" but i was just a joke my friend tyler is my bbf who i've known since i was like 6. but once my bf saw that he flipped out and we havent talked since i'm really nervous cause i love him so much and i dont want my stupidity to ruin this for me and him. he means the world to me and i dont know what i'd do if we broke up.
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Well, did you tell him what you told me about how hes been your best friend since you were six, how it was only a joke, and losing him? If so I mean hes your boyfriend and hes only watching out over you, but he should understand or atleast try to. Message me back! :)
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Okay, here is where it started - two years ago, my bestest friend moved away down south and I was devastated. For that time where she wasn't there, I lost touch with my other friend and we sort of fell apart although we were still friends but just drifted away. During that time, I got to know another girl that I was friends with but not that close to and I found out she was so much alike to me, almost like my soulmate - we understood each other instantly, made each other laugh and most of the time we think exactly the same things. I was settled and happy.
A year later, my old best friend phoned, saying she was moving back and I was just overwhelmed...but a few days later I was thinking that I enjoyed life as it was already and I felt guilty of thinking this, I didn't really want her to move back. Well, a month later, she did, and came back to out class. Things were pretty much as they were. I looked on her mysapce however and it seemed she had made atleast a dozen close friends and a new best friend where she was and kept going back to see them every weekened or so. This made me feel a bit sad- why did she move back if she enjoyed it that much there? Sometimes when I touch on the topic about her moving away she appears really upset and I know that she's thinking about her friends. It seems really awkward and I don't want her to be sad- I just feel really upset because her new friends are far closer to her than to her friends here. Because she left, I am really really close to the new best friend I made and she is one of the bestest friends I had ever had. I don't want my friend who moved back to be sad, I know how she feels and how her other friends would feel but I feel as though I'm almost taking her away to somewhere she doesn't want to go.
I guess it isn't really a problem, but I find it hard to mend things with her now because things are so awkward.
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People Change Over Time, Things Happen, And Friends Eventually Fade Away. Dont Feel Bad For Her Moving Back, But Maybe Get To Resume A Friendship With Her Or Attempt To As Awkward As It May Seem, Comfort Her There. It Was Her Descision To Move Back.
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Dear Dennis;
There's this guy I really like who asked me out, so I tell my friend what happened, and she tells me he already has a gf and I was crying, so I decide to ask him if its true and he said yes, but he wants to dump her for me but I told him not too, that there's no use, and a few days ago, his gf added me on myspace, and eversince that, he's been TOTALLY mean to me. I've been depressed about it for 6 weeks, and I go onto his myspace every now and then and I see his gf's pictures all over, and it hurts, what should I do? (link)
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You werent wrong for saying not to dump her for you because I think that is dirty when someone does that for someone else. He might have taken that the wrong way like as "Oh she doesnt like me anymore" and taken that out in anger. His gf might have found out and he couldve changed the story around and is taking his anger out on you to show his gf nothing happened between you too and to get back at you. Also his gf adding you could be a way to monitor your two conversations. Thats what I Think
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hey i badly need advice, and i heard ur the best around.... my boyfriend is amazing..we hang out mor ethan once a week and hes in my grade..i dont have any classes with him tho and a million girls like him, i know he wants to be with me but he always is talking about the other girls, and i want him to only talk about me and brag about me and treat me like im his everything..see i want a guy that will give a present for no reason, or suprise me, and if a guy even calls me i want him to be mad at that guy cuz he likes me soo much. my boyfriend doesnt really care,he just kinda blows things off, the biggest thing tho is the girls, hes friends with his ex girlfriend and shes no good..and i dont know what to believe when he says that he doesnt like her...i know theres nothign i can do to get girls to stop likeing him, but how can i get him to treat me like everyday is my birthday? (link)
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Well first off, what kind of personality does your boyfriend have? To me, it sounds like hes a sweet caring guy if he doesnt get too jelous. With him bragging about girls could be to get your attension or get you jelous. But it could be another way of him telling you that your the only one and they should be jelous (I Personally Think). Think of all these girls liking him as a positive thing. Make them jelous :) Make the best out of it you can, because you cant really stop them to like him. You Got Him, They Dont! Although he might not show hes jelous, he could be on the inside or never really felt that jelous (yet or might not ever). It all depends on how open you are with eachother. How long have you two been dating? The way he treats you might not be to your standards just yet, but could be if you hint to him or go at the pace in this relationship as hes going. Friendship with his exs; you cant really do anything about that. If you are worried about that situation, have a talk with him.
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dennis i dont know what to do. im a freshman and this year everything just seems to happen and i just have to find a way to deal with it. my parents put so much pressure on me and whenever i try to talk to them they refuse to listen. their expectations are too high and when i tell them im having a hard time they just tell me im online too much or on the phone too much. the pressure of friends and everything is taking its toll too. i hate the way i look because it seems like all my friends are gorgeous and im the ugly one in the crowd and i hate it. i just want to be good enough and be able to reach the expectations that people set for me so someone will just be proud of me for once. in the past ive resorted to unsafe things to dealing with all this and i dont want to go back to it.
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Hmm... First Off You Need To Look At Everything Thats Going On, Break It Down One Step At A Time. Your Parents; They Might Be Hard On You With Their Expectations Because They Want You To Do Good. Even Though You Might Be Telling Them About Everything Going On, It Seems Like They Arent Seeing Other Problems That You Need To Take Care Of. One Thing Can Effect Everything! If You Havent Tried This, Ask Them To Have An Important Talk With You And Tell Them How You Feel. As For Your Friends, Try Not To Get To Involved With Their Problems Even If They Are Tell Them You Are Having Problems Of Your Own. If They Ask Talk To Them About It And They Could Help Alot. As For Looks, Dont Judge Yourself And Think That, They Are Your Friends And Shouldnt Judge On Looks Either. Dont Have People Set Expectations For You, Be Yourself! Set Goals For Yourself If You Want To Change The Way You Look Or Do Better. Take It One Step At A Time, And Even If Things Look Crappy To You Right Now, They Will Get Better! But Whatever You Do, Dont Do ANYTHING To Harm Yourself! It's Purely Stupid And Your Only Hurting Yourslef Causing More Problems. Hang In There, And If You Ever Need Someone To Talk To, Im Here :)
Sincerly,
Dennis
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Dear Dennis;
I feel stupid writing this ^__^ lawl I’m the usual advice giver in my group of friends but now I’m the one needing advice and I know no one to go to. Ok here goes nothing :]It's going to be long soo don't die on me here. (but if you want you can stop reading this and just respond “ *smiles and nods*” or something I don’t mind. just writing about this helps me *shrugs*) Ok so once upon a time I went to a new high school where I knew absolutely no one ^__^ but I made friends in like a day because that’s just me spontaneous and outgoing. Well ok so I knew this boy who I had met through another friend and now he’s dating my best friend and I totally hate him -.-;;(but that’s another story I’ll tell you some other time lawl meaning I’ll be back ] Ok so my BFF was talking to this guy online and then I started talking to him and we talked for a long long time and we ended up friends and turns out he went to my school lawl -.-;; Ok so I met him and he gave me this awkward wave and stuff and looked at me like if he had seen a ghost. So I immediately thought “Oh god this kid must hate me.” And I told my friend this and she was like “Oh its jut because he is EXTREMELY shy.” And I was like “Sure. He hates me.” And it turns out that I found out from a friend that he looks for me all the time after school and stuff and gets worried when I don’t go to school. So we became good friends and I found out that he truly is really shy and he tells me all his problems and family problems (because he has a lot :[ ) and he has low self esteem problems (which he shouldn’t because he is gorgeous) and sooo to make a long story short I fell for him. I introduced him to my friends they fell for him >__< and now I don’t want to like him because two of my best friends like him tooo and yeah. I’m the kind of person that can drop a person as quick as I pick them up but for some reason with this boy I can’t as much as I try I can’t stop liking him and it drives me insane >__< I told my friend this she was like “He soo totally likes youuu.” And I was like nahhh he prolly likes my other friend let’s call her Maria, because she is prettier and funnier and cooler and she said “NO WAY YOU ARE THE PRETTIEST, THE FUNNIEST, AND THE COOLEST AND RANDOMEST GIRL EVER!” and oh my fucking gosh why am I telling you all this!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?! >___< I lost my point like half way through this paragraph. I’m sorry I wasted your time. I’m going to send this to you anyways because maybe your psychic and you’ll now where I’m coming from or know what I’m trying to say lawl.
Ok thank you for your time.
--boatsandbirds.
ps-i usually don't type el oh el like lawl (i find it rather annoiying) but this thing isn't letting me say el oh el.
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Well First Off, Dont Put Yourself Down Thinking Someone Is Better Than You. You Will Get No Where. Second, If You Really Like This Boy, Tell Him How You Truely Feel About Him... Dont Let Him Slip Away.
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i hope you can help me other ppl dont know what to say
my really good friend and i are really close and i think i might be having feelings for him but the thing is he just told me 2 days ago that he thinks hes gay and i dont know what to do please help?? (link)
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Well That Is A Difficult Sittuation To Be In. Although He Might Think Hes Gay Shouldnt Hold You From Telling Him How You Truely Feel. Just Come Out And Tell Him, But Make Sure You Tell Him How You Dont Want That To Ruin Your Friendship. Take It From There...
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hey dennis.
okay.. i love my friends more than anything and they've gotten me through really tough times. But for like,, ever, they've been making fun of me. im a blonde so that combined with the fact that i make some stupid mistakes, they always tell me i have no common sense. it really bugs me because i really am smart but thy just point out the stupid things i do.
how can i get them to stop and realize that there's more to me than blonde hair and stupid mistakes? (link)
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Well There Could Be Many Ways To Look At This Depending On How Serverly They Do This To You. They Might Be Just Doing It To Get Humor Out Of It, They Could Be Using Humor To Teach You A Lesson, Or They Just Arent Your True Friends (Which I Think They Are For Helping You Through Alot). As For You Getting Them To Stop, Tell Them Nicely Tell Em Its Getting Old. Show Them You Are More Than Just A Blonde, Because Im Sure One Of Them Is Gonna Have A Problem And Go To You. Everyone Makes Mistakes, Dont Listen To Them Unless Its A Positive Outcome.
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Hi,
K, so i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me, but i talk to him all the time. I really want him to be my boyfriend, but i dont know if he thinks we're just friends, or what. And i don't know how to get him to like me or let him know i like him... without telling him to his face. What should i do? (link)
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Well, You Wont Know Until You Tell Him How You Feel. How Long Have You Been Friends? If And When You Tell Him How You Feel, Make Sure To Add In Something Like This; "Its ok if you dont feel the same, but I dont want this to ruin our friendship." Keep Me Updated :)
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Dennis,
I don't know what to do. I've been really close to you this year, but you only seem to lke me in a "friend" way. I've always wanted to tell you, but you always had another girl around. I got you a lint shaver foe christmas, when you open it I want to you to know who it is that likes you.
lovelovelovemuahmuahlove,
3weekswaiting (link)
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Aww, well I will just have to wait to see who you are... Wont I ;)
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ok like have a problem i REALLY liked you before then i thought i had no chaance of ever going out with you or anything then today some 1 told me that i probly did so i was all confussed but now u have a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend that i feel like i am treating reallllly badly by saying this should i break up with him and give up on likeing you? (link)
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Its personally up to you... You need to look inside yourself and figure out what you truely want. Dont feel bad for telling me though, ok?
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