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Friends
Okay, here is where it started - two years ago, my bestest friend moved away down south and I was devastated. For that time where she wasn't there, I lost touch with my other friend and we sort of fell apart although we were still friends but just drifted away. During that time, I got to know another girl that I was friends with but not that close to and I found out she was so much alike to me, almost like my soulmate - we understood each other instantly, made each other laugh and most of the time we think exactly the same things. I was settled and happy.
A year later, my old best friend phoned, saying she was moving back and I was just overwhelmed...but a few days later I was thinking that I enjoyed life as it was already and I felt guilty of thinking this, I didn't really want her to move back. Well, a month later, she did, and came back to out class. Things were pretty much as they were. I looked on her mysapce however and it seemed she had made atleast a dozen close friends and a new best friend where she was and kept going back to see them every weekened or so. This made me feel a bit sad- why did she move back if she enjoyed it that much there? Sometimes when I touch on the topic about her moving away she appears really upset and I know that she's thinking about her friends. It seems really awkward and I don't want her to be sad- I just feel really upset because her new friends are far closer to her than to her friends here. Because she left, I am really really close to the new best friend I made and she is one of the bestest friends I had ever had. I don't want my friend who moved back to be sad, I know how she feels and how her other friends would feel but I feel as though I'm almost taking her away to somewhere she doesn't want to go.
I guess it isn't really a problem, but I find it hard to mend things with her now because things are so awkward.
Sorry that this was so long.
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People Change Over Time, Things Happen, And Friends Eventually Fade Away. Dont Feel Bad For Her Moving Back, But Maybe Get To Resume A Friendship With Her Or Attempt To As Awkward As It May Seem, Comfort Her There. It Was Her Descision To Move Back.
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