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Hey my name is Ellie :) I'm 16 years old from Staten Island, New York. I'm a pretty laid back and nice person :D or well.. at least I think so lol. So feel free to ask me anything, I'll try my best to answer your questions. If I don't know the answer, I'll do some research and send you all the links I can find to help you. Also feel free to add my aim or msn account, I talk to anyone. Thanks!

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i just started dating my boyfriend about a month ago how soon is it to have sex with him i dont want to have sex with him to soon.

It really depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship. Some people feel that they're ready to have sex after the first month while others like to wait 6 months to a year before having sex for the first time. My suggestion would be to just make sure you're ready and whenever you feel that you're ready to have sex, then go for it :) Also remember to consider the other person's feelings on the situation when deciding when you're ready to have sex. They might have a different feel on it. Also remember to have some form of protection before thinking of having sex, It's always nice to be prepared. Hope I helped!

-Ellie

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can u get any sexual diseases from masterbating cuz ive been doing it lately and ive notice a bump and some white dots and ive never had sex before

It's a very slim chance of getting an STD by masturbating. It's not impossible though. The only way you could get STDs from masturbation is you either shared a sex toy with someone who has an STD or you fingered/jerked off someone who has and STD and then did it to yourself. But you'd have to of done it at the same time. My suggestion is to get checked out by the doctor if you've done any of the things I've mentioned. If you haven't, then there really isn't anything to worry about. Hope I helped :)


-Ellie

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Okay so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now and for some reason he cant get completly up. Im not use to teasing boys and so on. My ex was already always ready to go. So i have no idea whats going on. I try and to different things kiss him bite his ear go down on him and so on, and he just still wont get fully hard. He says its cause hes not comfortable around me. But what does that have to do with anything he also says i need to be more of a freak. What do i do someone please help lol

Lol! "More of a freak" Okay sorry that was funny. But I'm thinking just sit down and talk with him about the things that turn him on the most during sex. Also try to set the mood a little. Make it so both of you are comfortable and then just go with the flow. It'll happen, No worries :) Hope I helped.


-Ellie

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what are the chances of being pregnant if you have never missed a period, have had literally about 80-100 negative pregnany tests done and one negative blood test from the doctor but have had uterine cramping and pain for the past 4 months.

Uterine cramping can be anything (Like the girl below me said) and seeing that you've taken over 100 pregnancy tests that have all turned out negative, I'd say your chances of being pregnant are extremely thin. You should still get checked out by your doctor for the things that the other girl has said. Hope I helped somewhat lol. :)


-Ellie

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14/f
I have been dating my boyfriend for about a week now. The only thing is that i have a moustache that is sorta dark and a lot of people notice it i'm sure. It's really embarrising because i don't want him to see it. I can't do anything about it. I'm not gonna wax, shave or bleach it. What do i do? I'm scared that he will be grossed out by it and break up with me. Help!

Well You guys have been dating a week already and I'm sure you've known each other before you started to date, which would mean he's probably noticed it already since you say that it's pretty noticeable. But since he's still dating you and still likes you apparently, You really shouldn't try to change it. He likes you the way you are now, Don't try to impress him or feel that you need to change the way you look just to be with him. Relationships are about loving the person the way you met them and loving them for the person they are now. Just keep in mind that he'll always like you, even if you did bleach or shave or wax (which btw is a pain after you do it the first time, It keeps growing back and it's just annoying). Hope I helped :)

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