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about 4 years ago, i got a dog for my birthday. a chihuahua. a male.

it was really nice as a puppy and everything was fine. now, he's a fucking retarded aggressive shit.
he bites me and barks at me for no fucking reason, at MY house. IN MY FUCKING HOUSE. I can't even go in my room without it barking at me.

it doesn't bark at my mom and my dad and my sister. but it bites and hurts and scratches me whenever I pass by.

we can't even touch it without it growling. it just does NOT let you touch it. and ITS SO SMALL! and the worst part, is that this insignificant little piece of shit has to have a MUZZLE on whenever we take it to the vet! It's fucking WILD

I don't know what to do.

My parents protect it. they're like...all defensive towards it. I don't think it's right that I have to live in a house and constantly be harassed and bitten by a dog that I CHOSE that I BOUGHT AND SAVED with my OWN money.

hell, my cats are nicer than him...

what the hell am I supposed to do?

I'm 16/f. My finger's throbbing right now from trying to get through to my OWN yard and my dog bit me.

And when you hit him and discipline him, he barks and bites back!
I don't know WHAT to do. Advice please?
I asked my parents to put him to sleep, but then the defensive shit kicks in...

I mean, I love animals. Please don't get me wrong. But this one's just abusive. (link)
If it gets that bad I suggest you let it out "accidentilly" and when it bites someone animal control has to put it to sleep.

xoxo
Stephii


hi im 14 a guy and well my penis is really small
about 3 inches long its really embarrassing
will it get bigger? and what age does do you stop growing? im relly worried (link)
Well it will probably get bigger but I don't know [nor does anyone else] how much bigger .

Male puberty usually ends around the age 18-21 so you've got a while yet .

Hope I helped

xoxo
Stephii


Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked? (link)
1.you're being really sterotypical and mean
2.theres always a chance
3.if you like him dont let your friends get in the way !

xoxo
Stephii


Anyone have any tips for how to kiss i just want to be ready for my first one so i don't look like an idiot! (female) (link)
Lay back and let the guy/girl lead you .
When you get a bit more experiance try lip sucking / nibbiling .
so sexy
and kissing their neck
!
=]


I totally forgot how to like, edit my name on MSN. Can you please tell me how? (link)
go to where your name and picture are on the main screen , then like click it...then go to the bottom one and a box will show up and just erase whats in it then type what you want and click okay or finished
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what exactly is a douche ? will it help a bad smell down there? (link)
it's a bag full of viniger & other ingrediants to clean the virgina .
and yes it will
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I started working at this place, and gave one of my co-workers my number. we text everyday & he calls me, we talk online, etc. & at work we're always flirting. the only thing he is he's 5 years older then I am (making it illegal) he turns 21 about two months before I turn 17. We're of different cultures & religions, but I can't help falling for him.

advice? =/ (link)
continue to flirt
if you're willing to take the risk [and he is aswell] then go out but don't make it public untim you turn 18 .
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is it okay to have 2 different kinds of vitamins. like take a centrum and a one a day every morning? is that unhealthy? (link)
this is healthy , vitamins won't harm you . Its impossible . so just keep with this schedule !




my vagina has like, a sort of baggage effect to it. like. no bumps or anything but like a little bag. is that normal? (link)
yes , this is completly normal , everyone's duffrent so don't sweat it .


hello, im a guy, 14 and i have a 27" waste and i want to get some white skinny jeans or just some skinny jeans that are 27" but i cant find them--any suggestions on stores? (link)
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earlier today, my brother took me to get my belly button pierced. i was just wondering how you're suppose to clean it and how many times. can you use the same solution that sayy you would get at claire's when you get your ears pierced ? and what else do you need to do to take care of it ? thanks. (link)
They should have told you in the peircing place , and they should have given you a panflit ... but ...

Navel 4 months to 1 year to heal
How should I clean my new piercing?

Follow these steps to prevent infection

Wash your hands first with soap and water before touching or cleaning the pierced area. (Don't let anyone else touch the pierced area until it is healed.)
Remove any crusty material from the site and from the jewelry with warm water.
Gently wash the area around the piercing with antibacterial soap (liquid soap works the best).
Gently rinse off all of the soap and crusty discharge.
Gently dry the area with a paper towel or plain white napkin. (Bacteria can stay in cloth towels.)
Do steps 1-5 twice a day until the skin heals. (Over-washing or over-scrubbing can irritate the area.)
Do NOT use antibacterial ointments because they don't allow air to get to the area and they trap bacteria.



I have 6th period with the guy i like. When I get in the class I blush ALOT & i have to sit next to him. Today I got super sweaty & my face gets red when its hot or i feel uncomfortable. I look super weird because I am the only one in the class who will be all red and sweaty so I turn my head away from him until about 10 minutes into the class when Im not as nervous anymore. I absolutely HATE this. Is there anyway to make it stop or something? (link)
Get comforatable with him , talk to him try to just be friends.

hope I helped
xoxo
Stephii


16/f

How do you tell a guy you want them to feel you up? :/ Like TELL them without saying anything, but kind of implying it.

thanks! (link)
like while you're making out move his hands up your shirt .


I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again? (link)
If he does he's not worth it so relax and talk to him about it , plus he knew it was gonna happen so , he shouldn't have been such a dick about it !


14/f sorry this is long!

im a freshman and my brother is a junior. he and i have lunch during the same period and our tables are literally 10 feet away from each others.these are the guys that sit at my bros table:kevin,patrick,matt,ben, and jason. everyday kevin looks at me and winks at me. and he has like a scheming smile on his face when he does.and he asked me to give him head like 7 times.and i said no everytime.and he asked me to homecoming like 3 times but i kept saying no because i thought he was being cocky and i didnt believe him. he also gave me his number one day but i didnt think it was him..but i texted him and it actually was.and he was actually nice when we texted and i dont get him because sometimes hes nice and he flirts but other times he acts like a perv.. and i knew that i would start to like him and i do [[unfortunately]] but im not gonna let him know because idk what would happen.

but i really like patrick too..hes nice to me and me,him, and my brother hung out an entire afternoon and hes pretty cool.he talks to me and hes like tried to help me with my homework sometimes.

does kevin really like me or is he just being an idiot?and how do i get patrick to see me as more than just his friend's sister? (link)
Okay I know from personal experiance , don't bother with Kevin , if you give him what he wants he will be done with you , and if you go out with him he'll expect it and if he doesn't get it he'll dump you .

As for getting this other guy to notice you , I think [from what your saying] that he already does notice you , he's helped you with homework and all.Just flirt with him , see where it leads .

Hope I helped !!

- Stephii


Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)

thanks (link)
Sure , lay it on me !


i was pregnant.. my boyfiend made me take a pill to kill the baby, i was about 1 momnth and 3 weeks along.. almost 2 months... i did not want to kill the baby, i wanted to keep it.. dont judge me on my actions.. thats not why im here..im here for help.. ok? well any ways.. i did this 2 nights ago (thursday night) and that night i was in horrible pains.. like cramps.. and he said i was supposed to bleed.. kind of lot he said... ok well i didnt bleed so much but i did bleed.. but the blood was kind of like.. mmmmm chunky i guess i can call it... i hope you understand what i mean.. ok and well i still feel a little wierd.. like i still have some cramps... but i still feel hungry all the time and dizzy and my breast still hurt and sometimes like i want to throw up... ok well my question is...

is there a possablity that the pills did not work and im still pregnant... i know i was bleeding and was bleeding in a strange way... and by bleeding in that strange way... does that mean the baby is now terminated... and all the things about me being hungry still dizzy wanting to throw up, is that just in my head and me wishing i was still pregnant or that my body hasnt like umm "realized" im not pregnant anymore.. or could i still be pregnant?




((now i really wish i still was, and i am going to the doctors next week.. but i dont want to get my hopes up thinking im still pregnant,because i really wanted this baby... but i need to know if there is a possablity if i stil could be... what do you think the percentage would be...))

please help me with this... should i stop hopling i still am... or just accept the fact that its gone....
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First of all , your boyfriend FORCED you to take the pills thats abuse or something ! and 2nd how old are you ?

Anyways , there is a possibility that you are still pregnant , you need to go to the doctors to be sure.Go to the doctor A-SAP because the stress from not knowing could harm the fetus further.

I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this because the way it seems , he has abused you and that IS illeagl !Please tell me how this is ? Message me or feedback or something Please !

Stephi-Giles


that i used to like like serioulsy 2 years ago, and i am 16 now. and i just cant seem to let go of those feelings....can you please tell me how i should let go? because i tried everything i could think of. (link)
So there's always this guy in these questions lmao . Anyways , Just think of all the bad stuff about him and all that and it might help?

Hope I helped !!
-Stephii


i was watching a episode of " friends" the other day, and joey was auditioning for a role in a movie. and the director said that he had to " not be jewish" and i asked my mom about this, and she said that there was something on a mans penis that joey didnt have but he said that he did...
can someone PLEASE explain this to me?! (link)
aha , okay this concept baffaled me for quite a time ! It's called circumcision , it's when [at birth or not] when a doctor cuts off the foreskin on the penis . A lot of Jewish boys have it done at birth.Serch it on Google for more info !!

Hope I helped !
-Stephii


im ready so don't be like it's when you are ready caue i am (: but approximately how long in a realtionship do you think you have to be in to be felt up..like i like this boy soo much and he likes me a lot too...but like 2 months or what..cause i dont want to get a reputation like "wow they went out for this long and he got it and so if i go out with her for that long i can get it"...soo just give me an estimated amount of time (: thanksss a bunch.

if it helps. im 14/f (link)
No matter how lond you wait , people will talk.When you do that , just don't make it public.Only tell the people that won't judge you [aka your friends] , that way you don't have to worry about it !
Hope I Helped !

-Stephii




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