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is there any way to delete completly an aol screen name and password?someone has my password and logs on as me.
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Have you tried changing the password? If that doesnt work then go into the Master screen name on your computer and then you can delete the screen name that is causing you so much trouble.


Hi!
I don't know what to do anymore! I know my friend is lying. I have proof against it! I have confronted him and still he denys it all! We just had a big fight today over it.
I'm just worried because he is loosing friends because of the lies. He has already lost me. I don't trust him anymore. Nobody trusts him!
What should I do?? (link)
If he won't listen to you when you try to confront him about it, bring someone who is also feeling the same way you are and the both of you should try to let him know how you feel. If he still doesn't listen, it may be hard, but it may be time to find a new friend who you can trust and who would not lie to you. If this friend really means something to you, then you should stick with the problem and let him know how much it bothers him. Don't let him lie without facing some kind of consequence or some sign that shows your hurt. Good luck :)


ok...im 16 years old and ive always dreamed of being a model...im willing to work really hard to reach my goal but i would like to lose some weight first. im not what you would call fat cause im 5'6 and 130 pounds but i know that thats not good enough. does anyone have any good ideas on a workout or something to help me lose some weight? im willing to work as much as it will take. any type of advice is appreciated. (link)
I would go to a local YMCA and see what classes you can join. There are always classes going on and that would be a good way to get a work out. Also, running in your neighborhood could get you into shape. Eating good foods and getting vitamins are also a must to be healthy. Good luck with your modeling career. :)


how do you flatten your stomach out? im trying to eat better and doing lemon squeezes(if you know what they are) but its just not working. i have muscle at the top, but then a little above my belly button its all ..not musclely. lol uuh are there way to flatten it out by summer?
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Crunches help a lot. Its just you need to know the right way to do them in order to get the results you want. When doing a crunch do not use your neck, try to get your spine off the ground and in stead of curling in a ball, go straight getting your back off the ground. These crunches should hurt after a few... thats how you know your doing it right. Don't rush into the crunches.. do a little at a time and work your way up. Also, do a variety of crunches, do regular ones, straight legs, lay on one side and do a crunch, anything that you can think of will help. There is this one really good one. You lay on you back with your hands under your butt. Have your legs straight up in the air and count down from five, as you count down slowly bring your legs to the floor (keeping them straigth). When you get to one (before you hit the ground), bring your legs back up and do the excersie again. DO about ten or so and on your last one, hold your legs six inches from the floor for about twenty seconds. This excersie is amazing and really burns your abs. Another excersie like this one is when you are in the same position (legs in the air) and you have someone push your legs to the floor. You have to catch your legs before they hit the floor and bring them back up for the friend to do it again. Its painful but worth it in the end. Oh and one more thing, while you crunch, concentrate on your breathing. You breath out when you curl and breath in when you straighten your body. Good luck! Let me know how you like my suggestions.


I'm not quite exactly sure this is under the right category, but i don't think it would fit under anything else.

Well i'm 14 and my breasts have stretch marks on them, they have been there for a long time. I mean i know they are growing, but they don't seem to be changing size.

Is there any other reason i could have the marks?
and if there is a way, how to get rid of them?

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There is treatment for stretch marks. There is a cream that can be found at most drug stores. Try that!


I'm 16/f and my bf is 17/m. Sometimes he acts soooo immature and after a while it gets annoying.


The other day I was at his house and he was acting like a little kid making random noises, talking about burping, jumping around like his house was a trampoline, and making stupid comments about everything.


So I said, "Stop acting like a five year old and grow up. I swear you act like my little brother"


I guess that kind of upset him because he didn't really talk to me after that. And today, he had an away message up that said "'acting like a 5-year-old' with Mike hit the cell"


I don't know if I should apologize or what because I know I might have hurt his feelings but I feel like he needs to know that he can't act like that all the time. What should I do?
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Yes, apologizing would be the first step. The second step would be talking to him and telling him how you feel. If something bothers you in a relationship, don't just ignore it and hope it's a "phase" bring it up when you are hangning out and let him know its bothering him. I bet he would rather have you tell him that that's annoying him than have you be mad at him every time he is acting mature and not even knowing it bothers you.... sorry... did that last sentence make sense? i don't know what else to say, just talk to him and let him know how you feel. :)


ok so in my spanish class i sit in the back of the room with my best friend. behind me is this kid who thinks hes "emo" and is really annoying. stupidly he wants to stay back because all his friends are a year younger than us so he doesnt do anything. the one thing he does do is harrass me and my friend to the point of tears one day. he does little stupid things too such as tapping after we asked nicely to stop or pulling our hair and talking to us and saying rude remarks while were trying to learn. my teacher mrs B has noticed some of it and has countless times kicked him out or moved his seat but somehow he finds his way back to the seat behind me. today i finally cracked. i wasnt having a good day to begin with and he just made it worse. the two of us started flipping out and stuff and our teacher joined in too getting him in trouble and stuff. but even after that class it continued. i feel like were in elementary school and its highschool ... grow up. we are not the only two this kid does this to and the other girls have taken it to the principle and it doesnt seem to pahse this kid. its annoying and its the icing on the cake to all my other more serious problems im having this year(see my other questions). and i dont know what to do. please help me because im at the breaking point. and please dont tell me to ignore it because ive been trying to everyday... all year and im done.. (link)
Since ignoring the kid didn't work, I would talk to your teacher about switching your seats. Next, I would seek help from a Guidence Counsler and see if they can help you at all. Tell your parents about this kid and all that he's done to you and your friend. Have them call the school and complain about this kid harrassing you two to tears and how the problem has been addressed before, but no action has been taken. If none of this works, I would also confront the kid in a calm manner... tell him to buzz off or something. If he really wants to stay back a grade, he better quit bugging you and your friend or he might end up expelled or something. I honestly don't know what else to say. I hope I have been help to you and I hope all goes well... good luck :)


ok i was leaning behind my couch to get my dogs bone, and i must've leaned the wrong way on my chest becuase the place between my breasts, the bone, is hurting EXTREMELY badly. It happened after I leaned over, so its nothing to do with anything else. I heard a little crack when I leaned over, so could I have maybe fractured one of my ribs? My mom says no and it'll go away soon, but I really cant bear the pain. Please Help ♥ (link)
There is a possiblty that you did fracture your ribs or sternum... I would suggest taking a few days and if the pain is constant and there are no signs of improvement, I would tell your mom that you think you need to go to the docter... if she still doesn't believe you I would see either the school nurse or talk to someone you trust and find out their opinion.


so theres this girl in my class who used to be my best friend in elementary school. of course im 13 and we're in 7th grade now. so anyways sometimes shes really nice to me and we have a good time together.. but lately shes been hassling me about my clothing? idk probably just becase i dont buy everything from abercrombie. i have some stuff but i have mostly a variety of clothing brands. so today i had this new outfit which was really cute, and she kept giving me this horrible look and asking me questions about it.. and then she was talking about me becuz of my clothes? i have no idea what this girls problem is, but right now i dont know if i should still be her friend or if i should ignore her..

5's for any answers =] (link)
My advice is to ignore her. She is either jealous, or not a true friend to you. She is probably insecure about herself and wants some way to feel better about herself and that my guess is by putting you down. Ignoring her would show her that you are stronger than her and you don't care what she thinks (you shouldn't anyway)... If the hassling continues, confront her about the problem or seek help from the guidence department at school to schedule a meeting with her and your counsler to work the problems out. I hope this helps... :)


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my bestfriend and her boyfriend have to sneak around so she slept at my house and we went to the movies and met up her boyfriend and his *friend*up there. his friend and i were cool but didnt talk too much and then we were clicking (sorda..atleast i thought so) and then my friend was like "B" (the guy i like) how many girlfriends have you had? and he said 2 serious ones (we were cracking jokes that he was gay) and i was like have you ever made out with a girl? and he was like "yeah" (then we made more jokes) and then he said "id make out with anyone here..ANYONE (he looked at me a lot) and then he was like "yeah id makeout with anyone here (there were only my friend & her boyfriend around besides us)..am i getting mixed signals or no? (link)
No, don't think those are mixed signals... this guy is trying to hint that he likes you. Saying he would make out with anyone there, means that he wanted to make out with you because my bet is that he didn't mean he would make out with his best friend, or his best friends girlfriend... my bet is that he meant you. If you really want to know how he feels, confront him and let him know your true feelings too... Good luck!


Hey!
I was wondering if anyone knows where to get airwalks, you know, the shoes like crocs only the holes are dimonds and they are less money. I googled it but I couldn't really find anything. Please help me becuse I really want those shoes! Thanks if you do help me though!

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I just bought a pair at Payless not too long ago... try there... that'll be you're best bet


(17, Female) I already work at a candy store & am supposed to be working there over the summer, too. They are very nice to me & I enjoy working there. However, I am also very into theatre & I found out about an audition for a theatre for grades 9-12 that does performances on issues important to teenagers & then has discussions with the audience after. If you make it once you audition, it is a paid job (I do not know how much though). I really wanted to audition, but I found out that the training will be for one month over the summer mon-thur 1-6 pm. I did not realize it was that big a commitment& it becomes a problem because that would probably interfere with the job I already have. The candy store is open form like 10am-5pm, & they said we could be working longer days over the summer (which was good for me, b/c I need to work). Howevere I really want to do this theatre thing, but I can not & do not want to quit the job I already have. The theatre program sounds like a really good experience but it's just so time consuming. I don't know what to do & I just don't want to quit the job I have (I already told them I'd be working over the summer). What would you do in this situation? (link)
The first step would be try out for the theatre program and see if you make it. There is no sense stressing over a situation that may not happen. Another thing you need to do is talk to your boss at the candy storre about this dilemma, I'm sure they will help you work out a schedule so you can do both the theatre program and keep your job at the cany store. I hope this helps.. good luck!


is there a good way to slim your thighs?
like i know that running is good, but i've been doing that && i havent been seeing much of a result.

is there any good ways to do it && how long should it take? (link)
Jazzercise is amazing at helping you slim down... There are also some classes at the YMCA that can help a lot. I hear a cycling class is starting soon, that could be a good way to burn those extra pounds. Good luck!




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