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After you put toothpaste on a pimple, is it supposed to tingle? Does that mean its working? (link)
dont do that. cause how do you know if it works try a face wash


When it comes to guys I always rush things. After that, one of two things happens:


One:
I find out that the guy is nothing like I expected. Most of the time it just turn out that he's a immature pervert and his charm and humor are an act. I don't take time to REALLY get to know a guy so I don't find out how they really are until we're close. After that, I completely loose interest (duh) and break it off with them.


Two:
It gets too serious and they are too in to me. It freaks me out because I either won't be ready for it or I won't want it. I just want to date and have fun. Nothing too serious that makes me want to "think of the future" with him. I guess me rushing things makes the guy think that I do want that? So again, I then break it off.


I always find myself in one of the two situations and after a month or so (most of the time less) I'm guyless and moving on to another one. Most of my friends know this about me and lecture me about it all the time but I have no idea how to fix it. I know it happens but I don't know how to keep it from happening.


It's like a routine for me. Meet a guy, go out, break up after a few weeks (because of the above said reasons), and meet another. How can I keep this from always happening?
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say i need to get to know you first before we actually go out.


does anybody know of any cute *name brand* jeans other than american eagle (i basilcly have all of their jeans!) that has *petite/short sizes* that come in zeros!
thanks!
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lei mudd try those


I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.

Cheers. I rate high (link)
do not do it if you catch yourself doing it you tell yourself no !


hey. i really want to start doing crew. i hav friends that do it and they say its a lot of fun and it sounds like super awsome. but i do ballet on mondays and wednesday's for two hours!! does anyone hav any ideas how i could get into it and maintain ballet at the same time (link)
no.


For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?! (link)
yes it is normal i get like that two just look at him in the eyes and smile and you will get used to it.


My girlfriend and I live togehter and we both believe she is pregnant. She was told by her doctor years ago that she has endometriosis and that she coold not have kids. We had a scare several months back. She took 5 at home pregnancy test. 3 came back positive and 2 were negative. 2 weeks later she had her monthly cycle. She is now late again 2 months. She again has taken at home tests. All 5 have come back positive. We are pretty certain that she is but need a doctors blessing before we tell our families. Problem is that she has no insurance until mid January 06'. We cannot go through the holidays without letting our parents know. Do you know of any places close to or in Geneva IL. where we can get a doctors exam that will not cost us over $100. I have called several OBGYN offices and with no insurance it will cost atleast $135-$175.00.
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I do not know. keep trying i know theres hope!


i just found out that the guy (he wasn't my boyfriend) i have been totally crazy about for the past seven months has a girlfriend. i am completely crushed. he flirted with me some and had me beleiving that he liked me, but then i found this out. it feels like he led me on, but he may not have known what he was doing. i feel terrible! nothing can make me smile. i dread seeing him again! is there anything that can help this situation or am i totally hopeless? i'll rate! (link)
tell him to shut up . and ignore him i mean wahts his prob


does anyone know an exercise for ur butt? and theighs? lol it sounds funny but im serious (link)
god made the mso live with them there all yours


Well I'm a 16 year old girl.


I usually have a huge appetite and I would eat enough for about two or three people my age but for the last month I have had no appetite at all. My friends think I'm going anorexic but I'm not. I want to eat like I used to but I'm never hungry. It has been 5 weeks since I lost my appaetite and I see no signs of it coming back soon. My friends and I are getting worried because I have now lost almost 7 pounds and I was originally at the healthy weight of 124. I don't know what to do. I talked to my counselor and she told me to go to the docotr but I just went to the docotr about three weeks ago because my throat was looking really bad and hurting. She also told me to eat healthy when I do eat and for the most part I do. When I eat I usually eat like a few bites of a sandwich or a small amount of pasta or a piece of fruit. I just don't know what to do. My friends think I might be developing an eating disorder but I don't think so. (link)
sometimes when your not hungry you really are you should always try to eat something no matter what your body says. just have a light snack like pretzels.


Does anyone know any songs about lost friendships? I'm kinda going through something right now, and I'd like a song to relate. Thanks! (link)
no i dont wish i did !


does any one no any websites with...
- make up tips and techniques? or basically anything to do with make up and beauty?
- different hair styles i could do. ive got long hair thick hair.

im fed up with the same sytle of make up and hair do's all the time i need new ideas.

please answer asap i rate! (link)
try some magazines like all you im pretty sure they have tips for ALL YOU and make up


This is so weird..
Two nights ago, I was dreaming and suddenly this guy i used to like, (but know we're just friends)came into my head. I havent seen him in a long time.. but i dreamed about him.. the weird thing is that I knew it was him.. but he looked completely different. He had red hair instead of blonde, really skinny instead of buff, and had a whole different feature to him. When i dream, its like i have two brains on; one saying thats "Matt" and the other one saying "but it doesnt look like him".. i knew it was him though.
Then, last night, I had a dream about reuniting with a man that helped my family overcome a terrible car accident.. Again, he looked completely different... and really old with a grey face instead of what he actually looked like.
Can anyone interpret these strange dreams or has anyone had them?? Thank You!
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have a day of relaxation to clear your mind. and try not to think of "him"


Today in school they had assemblys for each grasde level well it was all about fighting. this is my first year at my school because i moved I'm a junoir well the school i go to now has not had a fight until this year like we've like 3-4 fights already i mean idk to me that not realy alot my old school we had tons of fights i mean constantly fights some would be bad and some would not. point here is my school and the people in it make this big deal about the fights saying they are going to end up being a bad school and what not. To me i want people to stop talking about it cause its driving me crazy i think they are over reacting about it.

I don't know if i should just let it bother me and aggravate me or just let it blow by.
- is it really all that bad having 3-4 fights this year.? counting they havent had any in 6 years?

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say to the person i dont do fights. u wanna fight nope i aint fighting im not a baby i just wanna go to heaven not hell


I know this might sound nasty but it burns down below when i go to the bathroom. and this morning on the way to school it still kinda burned and it felt weird, not normal. i dont know if i have something wrong with me and if its because of sexual activity? does anyone know what this might be? please dont tell me to go to the doctor because i dont want to do it right now. just tell me what you might think it could be! im so scared. please dont leave ride comments im just worried about my health! anything will help!


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&&heaRts; scArEd anD WorrieD! (link)
i used to have that. It is called a yeast infection. talk to you mother about it but heres my trick it works. when you go to bed sleep with no underwear on it WORKS!! when you go it should have gona away a little bit if not, do it again the next night.


My iPod is connected to my computer and my computer recognizes that its connected, but it wont show up in iTunes. What do i do?? Please help soon!! (link)
i d k


I've never been a big fan of my nose and I've always thought that if I got plastic surgery, I would look a million times better. I don't want anything huge - just that little bump that some people have in the middle of their nose removed and straightened - but my parents are both against it because of the risks. What kinds of risks are there, exactly, with very minor plastic surgery like this? I understand that it could possibly go wrong but if I go to a surgeon that I KNOW is a good surgeon, wouldn't that eliminate that risk?

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yes the doctors scrape some of that hump bone of and it gets staightend. but get it when you a little older like 18.


There is this awseome song I'm thinking of singing for chior called Lean on Me, by Bill Withers. Where can you listen to the full song,even if it's not the original or if its just the backround music? I need to get a sence of how me and my group are going to sing it so anything helps. Do you think it would be better to sing it accapella or with the music?
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try this website >>> launch.com


Im trying to lose weight Is it okay to consume more calories but w/less fat in them by end of the day.

Example: Consumed total 1770 cals
" " 24 grams

Pls reply
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all you need is 20 minutes of exercise a day and eat foods like lean cusine the frozen dinners are lean cusine. they taste like regular food you can eat anything just as long as it si a small portain just try lean cusine if you would like.


I’m 15 and have huge boobs. In about 7th grade, I had C’s.. and they just kept getting bigger and bigger. Now, I have about D’s, maybe even DD's??? Boys stare, and it gets annoying. I don’t want people to only think I’m pretty or “hott”, because of my boobs, but I do like my boobs… it gives me something that I can be happy ( i guess) about.. because it's uncommon/ the problem that most females complain about is usually how small their boobs are...that they barely have any... but for me, its the opposite! I absolutely love shopping for bathing suits, although I can never find any, for a reasonable price that truly fits- That im NOt half hanging out of (my boobs)! I am a cheerleader and fit, and I have a good body ( i think). I weight about 128 pounds and I’m about 5’7”. My stomach is pretty flat, and I'm happy with my body- but my boobs seem unproportioned! I know most girls complain about how small their chest it, but for me, it’s the opposite and sometimes its soo annoying. Even finding shirts is a challenge. I have to end up getting the XL’s just so it will fit around the bust, even though they’re always big around the stomach and stuff…I dunno, it just seems like my boobs are extra-big, and it gets annoying. Where most people would be overjoyed with big boobs, it seems like they get in the way of my cheerleading and whatnot.
I guess this really isn’t a question that neeeeeds advice.. but I just wanted people to tell me that I’m not alone.. and big boobs r great. Lmao. I’m sure all the guys love em… but it kind of makes me feel insecure.. like everyones starring like “whoa.. they’re huge”.?? Well, I know my boyfriend loves em.. and all the boys are jealous.. but i dont even know what to think. WHY DOES IT ALWAYS SEEM LIKE U WANT WHAT U DEFINENTLY CANT HAVE? :( Please help!
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my friend has huge boobs and the same thing with her change the subject if someone says something.




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