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does anyone know how to see who has looked at your AIM profile?
thanks in advance.

you can go to set up and go to preferences and go to privacy and click on the one that says "allow only users on my buddy list to see me" and that way you know that only people YOU add onto your buddylist can talk, see your on, or look at your profile.

also theres a website with a link that you put in your profile and when you click on it it gives you a list of all the screen names that have seen your profile. i think its called buddy tracker but it ISNT ON BUDDYTRACKER. COM. (bad site DONT GO ON IT) lol...i made that mistake. ill let you know when i find it.

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m/13 so my friend and me discovered this new way to inhale aerosols, through toilet paper to get high. i heard people do something like this as well. he said its the ethanol that gets you high. ive tried smoking and this thats all, but i like inhaling much better. he said that it doesnt do anything to you and its not dangerous, so is it? we were inhaling deodrant. it feels like your dizzy and light. i get a kinda head ache after it aswell....

dont rate me for this. but you have got to stop. whats the point of getting high? do it to much, or wrong, or anything, and you'll be dead. you're only thirteen, and i dont think you want to end up this way in the end. just stop before it gets bad.

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Does anyone know of any extremely gorgeous clothing. Like whole outfits I can buy

I like abercrombie & fitch, hollister, ruehl, juicy couture, zumiez, pac sun, guess, true religion, rock n republic jeans, and other designers.

Just give me links or something to the outfit. Please make sure its a complete outfit if possible.

Also, shoes would help tremendously!


* Price doesn't matter.

Thanks!

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_332272_-1_12604_12552
^^ pants

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_351370_-1_12597_12552
^^ shirt

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=318457&langId=-1&categoryId=12599&parentCategoryId=12552&colorSequence=05
^^ shoes


thats more casual. here's a dressy casual.

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_355659_-1_12607_12552
^^ top

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_350519_-1_12595_12552
^^ bottoms

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_322078_-1_12599_12552
^^ shoes

here's a dressy one lol.

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=350571&langId=-1&categoryId=12626&parentCategoryId=12552&colorSequence=02
^^ pants

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10051_10901_12274_-1_12203
^^ fourth one to the right (the green)

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10051_10901_12252_-1_12203
^^ seventh flip flops over


andddddddddd really dressy
http://shop.guess.com/ProductDetails.aspx?style=Y73W4704&image=Y73W4704-EMK&root_category|46=WOMEN&category|59=WOMEN&browse=1&rpt=Department.aspx&pt=ProductListing.aspx&new=1
by itself or with black leggings or dark skinny jeans
with
any dressier green or black flip flops.



hope i helped

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okay so my dad is a drug addict.
and everyone yells at my mom and tells her to divorce him and everything,
but what tey dont get is that hes a good guy.
just not when hes on drugs.
i remember one time he ran me and my mom out of the house and we camp back like an hour later and we walked in the door and the lights were off and he had thrown everything all over the floor,he was sitting on the couch and he looked so mean and angry.i was so scared.and when he does dugs it makes me feel like im not good enough for him and he needs drugs to like make him happy or something.i just want him to stop and i tll him that but he never listens and just says whatever.and he already has a brain tumor and a tumor on his hip,but he wont go get them check out.they just keep getting bigger.and i try to stay strong for my mom because she has way more to worry about like paying bills and not having enough money and everything like that.and i know that i shouldnt make it seem like my life is soo bad because theres people who have it way worse.
and i know that.
i guess my question is,
how do i get him to stop?
&&should i be worried about?
what should i do?

it sounds like he really needs some help. i know it might not sound like fun, but maybe try talking to your mom about family counseling, or even counseling for you. i really think a therapist could help. that really sucks and i am so sorry. i hope it gets betterr

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does anyone know of any ways
to get involved with acting or modeling?

well if you've never done either, start out small...i've never modeled but i act.
i just do it at a small theater in my town.
after you get some experience, see if you can find an agent.
and by experience i mean, actually have done the shows.
i dont know any agents, but i know they're the ones that find out where the auditions are and what theyre for.
i also know that theyre expensive.
i dont know if they do both modeling and acting through the same agent.

but make sure you kinda know what you're doing, with acting, before you get an agent. sorry i cant tell you much about modeling.

hope i helped (:

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okay well i've been with my boyfriend round 7 months and i couldnt be happier i know i love him and i do think im inlove

every time i kiss him even a little one i get butterflies and cute little things like that

ive never ever felt this way before bout anyone else ever

i think im inlove with him

what do ya think??

sounds like it to me (:

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theres this song on a commerical and it goes;
"can i have it like that? you got it like that. Can I have it like that? You got it like that"
does ne one know what that song is and hoo sings it? thanks.

gwen stefani and pharell "can i have it like that"

i think

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if you get side bangs do you have to style it?

i usually have to straighten mine, but thats all i really have to do.

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i have sprint and its a family plan on a contract so i cant change that part but is there any way i can have a slider-tyer phone or a phone thats not sprint but still stay with sprint? sprint has no kool phones:( OMG help

does sprint have a sim card? if it does, under the battery will be a little card. you can buy any phone from any other service that has sim cards in their phones. (aka tmobile, cingular..) hope i helped.

oh and if it doesnt, you can go to ebay and look for phones from sprint and go to the store to get your number switched to your new phone.

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I am going to massachusetts wensday, and im coming back monday.
Its like a full week. Tuesday night im sleeping over my nanas to go to massachusetts real early in the morning, like 7.
I am going with my sisters and staying with my aunt.
I am really going to miss my mom and dad and brother and dogs.
what can i do , to become less sad when i leave them.

ugh i hate leaving them. honestly, its hard not to get less sad when you leave them, especially if they're criers like mine lol. i would try saying goodbye, i love you, i'll call every night, and then as you walk away, toward the gate, think about the vacation and how fun it's gonna be and even about telling them everything.
one week isn't bad either, i know its enough time to get you home sick, but i usually go away for two weeks every summer. it sucks, but try not to worry about it and just think about what youre gonna do while your out there. hope i helped (:

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where can i get a cute pair of skinny jeans
that look like some of these
(and dont say kohls or jc pennys cause just eww)

http://i7.tinypic.com/5xnd5oj.jpg
http://i18.tinypic.com/4lzaoaq.jpg
http://i13.tinypic.com/674ccaw.jpg

thanks

the levi store
hollister
abercrombie and fitch
maybe macys
(and you can try sears but idk if thats eww to you )


hope i helped (:

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what are good songs to listen to when you're pissed/frusterated. songs like
never again by kelly clarkson
kick me when i'm high by sr-17

stuff like that? no like screamo though

thanks

the taste of ink by the used
hate by the plain white ts
picture to burn by taylor swift
and maybe thriller by fall out boy (its a little more if your sad)


hope i helped :)

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i am moving in like 5 days...and idk how i am going to fit in. how will i make friends? like is it hard? am i going to be able to make friends? like what should i do? should i just go up to random ppl and start talking to them? or should i wait for them to come to me? i am very confused on how to make friends. please help!

oh i hate that. i've lived in 4 different places, 2 of which in different states, and i know it sucks. honestly, you just have to be yourself. dont shake hands, unless they do that to you lol. and at your table in class, try talking to people (or if seperate tables, talk to people around you) and most of the time at least one person is extremely nice and can help you out. sometimes they even have people you can follow until you get used to it. just be yourself and dont be afraid to start conversations with people, like hi i'm __. and usually they'll be like oh hi i'm ___...where did you move from..ladeedaadeedaa..but if they dont respond, dont waste your time with them. lol. just be yourself. hope i helped

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how do you get away with wearing black nail polish without coming off as 'goth' ?

i've always wanted to wear black nail polish but i dont have it lol. emily osment on hannah montana can really pull it off. i think that

a) goth is a stereotype and dont let other people judge you and
b) just dress it up with girly or whatever kind of clothes you wear.

hope i helped ♥ rae

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ok well i just got my hair cut. i liek the hair just not the color.
thats a pic of me with my hair
http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p289/dionnespicy/CIMG3582.jpg
what color should i dye it? and how should i dye it? i was thinking a few different colors or something. thanx

idk if i would die it, but maybe some auburn like reddish brown highlights would look good. (not the firetruck red, or orang, more like a natural red)

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15/f

Theres this one girl, at my school who is amazinnggg, she is like sooo popular, and so pretty, i mean shes absoulty gorgeous, and shes so nice, unlike all of her friends, but still. and were kinda friends, kinda. but shes just soo nice. i mean for her birthday, her mom bought her all this stuff, and then gave her like 5000 dollars, and she went to the mall and like bought all these clothes, and gave them to the poor! shes always thinking of others, and she just so sweet! i just want to be just like her. i mean honestly, i dont know how she can be the way she is. i mean shes like the richest girl in our town, and she doesnt act like it at all, shes always thinking of others. and shes really smart, and i mean, i just want to be like her. how can i? shes like a freaking saint, she doesnt talk behind anyones back, shes not stuck up, bbut thne yet she has so much confidence in herself in everything she does.

I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE HER.
how?

woah lol i think you should be yourself but try to be nicer, like without being her "mini me" try donating old clothes that don't fit to big brother or something like that. also, study hard to get good grades and just think about other people before yourself. you shouldn't be just like her because she should be able to be an individual, so try to be nicer and more conciderate and over all a better person and that will make you kinda be like her and other people with out literally being just like them. i hope i helped

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do you think I should get my lip pierced, heres what I look like with a fake one in.

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=638mbeh

uh, i think its a little too big. maybe a smaller one, but idk. i think you might look better without one, but if you really want a peircing, get a nose one (wicked small) or a smaller lip one. hope i helped

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I am currently working as a hostess for a "up-class family dining restaurant." I am required to wear my hair off my face, but I am looking for something more exciting than a simple ponytail. I have very long hair (between the bust and the bellybutton) that is thin and blond. I've tried parting it to the side and doing a low, side ponytail, but I just want to try something different. Any ideas would be much appreciated. Thank you-

try:
braiding it
scrunching it and putting it in a ponytail
straighten it and put it in a ponytail
scrunch it and put it in two low ponytails
straighten it and put it in two low ponytails
do a smooth, tight bun in the middle or towards the top of your head
straighten it and put it in a ponytail then crimp small sections (so the majority is straight and there are small strands around it that are crimped)

hope i helped.

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i want to make a AIM new screen name. I have tried....

Xx_muah_xX
Xx_kisses_xX
Xx_Erin_xX

and stuff like that, but they have all been taken. I really want my sn to have Xx_ _xX in it, with a word in the middle. But I want it to be cute, and I dont want any numbers in it. Please give me your ideas.

Thanks : ]

well..idk if the _ are supposed to be spaces, but AIM doesn't allow those in their screenames.
try some of these

Xx love xX
Xx mwah xX
Xx its erin xX
Xx erins on xX
Xx peace xX
Xx flirty xX
Xx cutie xX
Xx qt xX
Xx beachbabe xX


or any sport you like:

Xx volleyball xX
Xx soccerbabe xX
Xx soccer xX
Xx cheeer xX
Xx cheer xX

or anything girly

Xx shopaholic xX
Xx shop chick xX

ect..
hope i helped

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Ok so i have this boyfriend and we get into aguements alot. He tells me that im stupid and retarted. sometimes he even calles me a stupid bitch, dumb ass bitch, or jus plain bitch. he says that im tha problem and that im always getting him mad. Im only 15 and my friends and familly say leave him but some say dnt if ur happy. Im tired of heareing that hole "theres more fish in tha sea" cuz thers really not im in love with him not anyone else. I dont know wat to do anymore im in love with him and want to spend tha rest of my life with him but not like this..
Please someone help me wat do i do????

-shawttii

it definitely sounds like he's verbally abusing you. i know you don't want to hear this but you need to leave him. you're only fifteen so if there isn't any one else then he'll probably still be there. but also, maybe he'll find someone else anyway, whether you break up or not. if someone treats you like that, they shouldnt have the privilage of being your boyfriend. i know its not what you want to hear but you really need to leave. if you were older i would tell you counseling, and you can, but you are still really young. maybe your really desperate and its worth a shot.

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