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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.~Marissa
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I am now 16. When i was in 7th grade i started cutting my wrists....in 9th grade a was "an alcoholic" after i got over drinking i started taking pills...and this year...i started vomitting after every meal. I need help i know...but how do i get it and where...my sister is 17 and pregnant and just recently left home to her 38 yr. old bf "she ran away" my mom is so carring....she doesnt know i do this and it would kill her if i told her because she is under so much stress...i dont have many close friends because i have a bf and i spend all my available time with him.....he doesnt know either i alwayz wear long sleeved shirts and i always say i have to pee after i get done eating...now it is such a habbit that when i eat"if i eat till im full" it starts comming up on its own and i cant control it...its too late...plz someone tell me what to do????
Confused!
This sounds a lot like a friend of mine but she's 14, To get good help you should confront your mom which wouldn't be easy to do of course. But tell her you need professional help if your willing to get that, though you live in a small town they could send you to one somewhere. For getting the scars gone, go buy some of the "Kid's scar remover." It may help a little at least.
What causes the ugly red spots that show up when you shave your legs and are there alllll the time? Its really gross and ugly looking.
Anyone got any advice on how to reduce the noticeability of them or even make them go away?
I tried lotion but.. that only lasts so long and definately doesnt make them GO AWAY.
Is it just irritated skin?
Hmm, it seems your getting Razor burn. They've got products you can use to shave with.
Shaving cream and Shaving after gel, they stop razor burn from coming usually.
How do you tell your best friend you're moving?
that's hard to do I know, just take her out somewhere to hang out and tell her then
anyone know who sings this song???
goes something like this........
....these are the moments these are the times...let's make the best out of our lives....
that would be great! thanks!
it's called our lives by the calling
i want to get side bangs and i have a hair appoitment in 2 weeks, but i wanted to get them after basketball season ends(which is in like, 1 month) because i dont want them in my face while im playing. are there ways that i can keep them out of my face(somehing good cause i dont want to be rebounding and have someone rip out some big clip) lol
thanks
I'd say clips or bobby pins
okay so i just now found out that i am a B instead of an A cup size... how can i get my mom to buy me new bras?? im shy about this whole changing into a woman thing.. so is there a way i could convince her to take me? cuz i mean she always rubs it into my face and acts like she is totally blank about the whole me being a B.. it makes me feel uncomfterble..
thats how parents are they like to do those kind of things just ask her and she'll help you out
What are some fun things to do when you are bored and can't sleep? Sites would help.
I've already been to bored.com and have done EVERY activity.
Thank you!
www.myspace.com
www.xanga.com
www.neopets.com
www.runscape.com
www.funnyjunk.com
www.i-am-bored.com
Well I used to be friends with this girl named Kristina and I told her I liked my best friend Zach and then the next day she was all over hi and I was like what the heck !? and they were getting ready to make their realationship public and I i.med him last night and said so are you going out with the slut yet ? He said I should shut up about the people he likes and I said why you dont even understand and he kept yelling at me so then I told him why because I loved him and I started crying and everything and I seen him today and he was all over her and it made me sick because even after our talk he still was over her so I dont know what to do I cant really talk to him anymore it feels werid. & I promised myself I would fall for him and thats exactly what I did I dont know what to do. & today he is just acting like nothing is wrong and thats not the case I am very hurt I cried myself to sleep and I feel like shit I dont know what to do with out him as a friend and after last night I cant even look at him the same and I have a class with him next period. I need help, please.
Well the best thing to do would probably be to get over him, that'll be hard yes but it's for the best. He dosn't sound like much of a guy you should be going for since you told him the story and he was still all over her, well expecially all over her infront of you. Which would show he didn't care about your feelings toward whats going on right now. Try not to talk to him for awhile and look around for another guy, it'll take time to get over him but you can do it
Is there a code for myspace to make the comments part a certain size?
Because some comments are scretching my page ^^;
No, there's not. There is a code though to hide the comments on your profile when people go to view it though.
If you make a movie on Windows Movie Maker how can you put the link on your Livejournal or Xanga or any other websites.
go to www.youtube.com and register I've seen many people do it that way
what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart?
I would love to help you truly but I am woundering the exact same thing. Try opening up with a friend tell them how your feeling/wondering and maybe they can talk it all out with you and you'll understand all your questions.
what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?
I turly think when you're ready and you know they are the right person if you still arnt sure if they are I'd wait a little longer make sure you trust them.
Hey... I'm 15... recently I shoplifted and was caught. I was told it wasn't concidered a "felony" because it wasn't over $400. It would go on my record as pety theft and my mom would be fined. ...Well when I'm 16 I want to get a job but... is it going to be difficult (or harder) with pety theft on my record? I was told that when I'm 18 I can 'seal my record'. For now... is the pety theft thing going to be looked at when I apply for a job? Has anybody ever been caught shoplifting? if you have, does it make it harder to find a job? or some jobs like wokring in a mall or department store or any store? Well thanks for your time in reading this.
It may be harder but I'm not sure I've never experinced or looked into this. Either way I'm guessing you'll get a job it was a petty thing and truly I don't think most people will hold against you.
A friend of mine just told me something about a guy we are all friends with.
Well she told me that she was over visiting one of our friends. Her computer had broken down, and our friend (the guy) was over to try to fix it. She told me that when he was sitting at her computer, he was looking at a small picture of me that I had given my friend that was near her computer. She said he kept looking at it, and said "who's your friend?". When she said it was me, he kept looking at it and then said, "oh, it must be an old picture". She told me she thought this meant he may have a crush on me. Do you think she's right? I know if it were me, I wouldnt be showing such an interest in someones picture unless I really liked them.
It's a possiblity. Though he also could just think you look differnt from then and now. Maybe get to talking with him more.. You know? Try to see if he flirts and ect.
I had those little rhinestones that you can get from Claire's on my cell phone. Well they started to get old so I tried to peel them all off.
Now the sticky glue stuff that held them on is all over the back of my phone and I can't get it off. I've tried several different things but nothing can get the glue off. Do any of you know how to get it off? Please help, my cell phone looks disgusting noww!
Nail polish remover can help sometimes. I've done this before myself it's a major pain right? I ended up having to pretty much scrape the glue of and fine some Goo type remover to get away the stickyness left behind from the glue. Sorry I don't remember the exact name of the goo remover it has "Goo" in the label though I'm guessing any could work.
Many people on AIM with profiles iv'e seen say "via Hiptop"
any reason what that means? or does anyone know why they say that?
later
(real answers get 5s)
It can mean they're on the cell phone or a sidekick.
What is the best music program that is free and doesnt cause any problems...oh and is legal???
I also want it to have many songs.
Thanx
LimeWire works,I'm not sure on the legal part I don't think any downloading of music is leagal.
My sister is really depressed lately, and I'm really scared for her. She is pretty okay around me, but everyone else, (even our own mother and best friend) she won't crack a smile!!! I think it might be a 12 year old thing, but I'm a happy person who never really gets like that. I usually understand things, but I don't understand her! Tell me what to do.
Aunt M.
just sit down and talk with her let her know your always there to help
i cut myself and i hate it so much i dont know hwo to stop it is so addictive and i dotn talk to peopel who reayl understand how i feel im scared because me and my mom are best friends and i tell her everything but ever since i started getting realy upset and cutting myself i find it hard to tell her anything i know she is worried btu she has o clue i am cutting myself my realy close firend nows that i cut myself with a rubber band i told her becasue i wanted to see what she said btu she asked if i have ever REALY cut myslef adn i lied to her i just want to be happy and no depressed thanxs i hope you can help
maybe you can talk to a councler or something or maybe "accidentaly" have your cuts show around your mother and she can get you help
i know i know i shouldnt cut and its bad and everything but its too late now.. about 4-5 weeks ago i got into a major argument with my mum and dad i ended up cutting myself, now i go to a councellor. it was quite a bad cut and it bled for ages now its like quite a thick scar from multiple scratches but like it hurts when i move my wrist it fully healed about a week ago but the scar hurts. i've cut myself before but the scar never hurt, it feels almost like its still a scab but it def isnt its also quite bumpy i know its deep so there would be a bump but almost like theres 2-3 spots over it and theyve been there about 3 days. anyone tell me whats going on?
the cut is probably still healing on the inside