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Today my mom told me to clean the house and that means clean the everyroom. SO i went to clean the bathroom and i cleaned the shower sink and when i went to clean the toleit surprise surprise. There was a meduim sized brown (like a brownie colord) stinky poopie floating on the top of the water. I hit the flushed but it wouldnt work. HOW DO I GET THE DOO DOO OUT??? (oh yea i cant ask my parents there not home...there out together *wink*wink*)!!!
from: PoopiePladder
P.S. it wasnt me!

haha. put lots and lots of toliet paper on top of it and it should help it go down. or if it doesnt just put enough toliet paper over it so it just looks like theres a bit of paper left

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hi i heard of cybering and i wanted to know where i can find ppl online to cyber with. websites? idk

hahahah. chat rooms.

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im a 13/m
and i have a lot of pubic hair. is it normal to shave it?

guys have pubic hair. its not to usall to find a guy that shaves it on a normal basis, most guys trim, as so its not to bad, doesnt stick out of underwear. its your liking, but if your going to shave it all, you might learn the hard way why its hard for girls to shave 24/7 so i think you should wait n the shaving part and just take a pair of sisors and hide them after you use them so no one else has to use them =)

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OK well i think i might be annorexic. I'm about 4'9 and only like 86 pounds. That never seems to be thing enough for me. I'm always trying to lose weight some how or another. Now i don't know what to do...i don't want to tell my mom b/c i'm not sure if i am or not and i don't want to worry her. I'm just scared that i'm getting myself into trouble with this stuff...does anyone have ne suggestions for me? I'm scared...i dont want to end up in the hospital b/c of this...thanks in advance!

well its really yourself who can answer this. you dont sound overweight to me, but im 5'1. it depends on your body, chest, ass, that kind of thing because they contribute to it. alot of girls think thier fat because of the rolls on thier stomach... but honestly just dont throw up and eat what youd like.. a healty diet is one thing,, not eating is another. for your height you sound about perfect to me..

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Hi I have had my nose ring pierced for about a month now and a little bump has just developed next to it. Any advice on what to do or what not to do? What happens if I popped it once the other day? My nose is not sore or anything its just like an annoying little bump.

i just had that problem. i didnt clean my on a regular basis and i got a lil bump next to it and i popped it, and it went away, but i ended uyp getting another one. well i ended up haivng to let it close and pierecing it again. learn from me, clean it dayly with the soap they usally give you, that and if you can take the ring out and put it in the cap full of rubbing alchol or peroxide.

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ok im really sorry if this is really long and i understand if you dont want to read it but i would really appreciate if you would take the time to and give me your opinion/advice. ok i all started when my mom's sister and my dad's brother got married, in doing this they concived a child, and then they got divorced. now for the child's baptisim (he is now eight) the father (my dad's brother) was not invited to this, and he is really upset. and the reasons she dint invite him was because she had invited him to many things and he never showed and she had to lie to her son and just say that something important came up and your dad was not able to make it, instead of saying "your dad blew us off" so she always would leave messages and call him and he purposely would not get a hold of her back (he is now remarried and has 2 other boys)
so she wanted to save the dissapointment and she never bothered to invite him (plus she said it would be eaiser on her not to see him)and i can understand why my uncle would be upset, but now my parents are against each other (there defending each sides) and they are talking about a split, my dad was cusing to my mom and i never heard it so bad before, and im really upset right now and im accually crying right now. my dad was talking about that i would probally want to go with my mom cause i would not want to be with him, and then he started saying how bad of a dad he is and all this stuff. and im a christian and my dad dint know i was right there and i heard him say under his breath "christians my ass" and i got really upset, well i really REALLY do appreciate that you took the time to read this, i will rate really high, thanks again!

well first things first. in my opinion there no reason to get upset about somthing untill it actually happens. dont bother crying untill there really seperated. parents love to threatin eachother. breaking up being one thing that really works. itll take alot to actually spilt up on thier part since they havee a child and everything. 2nd. your dad saying christians my ass, is just him saying stupid things since hes so upset, along with the hes such a bad dad, unless he is? but im thinking hes not.. so basically hes just upset. when you get really sad or really pissed.. you tend to say things that if you really thought about.. you wouldnt belive. so dont worry about that any more then them splitting up. if you want to do something maybe you could talk to your mom about it. explain how you feel, you feel its stupid to break up over somthing like this, that and you dont want to have a broken family. if shes not one to understand go to your father. explain this to him, or simply suggest that he send an invitation himself instead of fighting over it. ask him if hes honestly ready to lose your mother over something this small.

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I am supposed to be hanging out with a kid I like and that likes me. I went out with him 3 times before but he's changed a little since that. We're supposed to hang out at my cousins house with her boyfriend too. What I wanna know is what if he asks to do anything with me (I want to by the way) but i'd feel a little uncomfortable infront of my cousin :-/..and it's at her house..what do I do??

well it is your cousin.. i know.. and it is kinda weird infront of anyone sometimes, but they do the same thing, and if your that unconfrotable, maybe wait till her and her bf does stuff, that might make you loosen up right away, but if it bothers you.. go for a walk, go somewhere else, or maybe not even do anything... but i suggest gettin away from your cousin, the dark outside is always fun =p

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Alright well a little while ago I found out that this girl I know gave head to my now boyfriend 5 days before we started going out (we have been going out for about 8 days now) even though it was before we were going out for some reason its still bothering me. Any suggestions on how I could make it not bother me?
x0 love maddie

i understand that one my bf of one year got like 6 blow jobs before me but did nothing else.. i was his first kiss. *weird* but it still kinda bothers me.. i dont really wanna do it to him cuz i know hes had so many before but it had nothing to do wit me or you in your situation, talking about it really helps, him reasuring it was nothing, which it probably wasnt anything, helps alot.. but just saying its kinda odd to him will help alot, and just remember it really had nothin to do with you, unless you were really close before you went out like together but not kinda thing, then you should be pissed or really talk to him

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Ok. I just had minor surgery on my left big toe. To be more specific, the surgeon ripped off half of my toenail and now it is wrapped up in a big toe turban. But the problem is, because the toe turban is so huge, it won't fit comfortably in a shoe! And I'll be having that toe turban on for a long time until my toenail grows back! And I'm going to school next week! What can I do? I really hate (and don't have any) sandals!

sweety you really may be stuck with sandles.. but untill a day before school you should keep it in what he gave you and im sure youd be able to switch it to like two wrappings of gause or however you spell it, that or just something thinner.. toe nails that fall off or something grow skin easily where the nail isnt so it shouldnt be that bad.. sorry i couldnt help more

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this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them?

welcome to the worst part of being a women.. razor burn.. it hurts. basically if you shave and shave within a two day period your gonna hurt yourself. something about the hair down there, lots of lotion, and not shaving everyday is what makes it go away. i usally shave fully every 2-3 days if you need to that much.. but honestly dont shave unless you really need to like boys.. being naked?.. bathing suits ya know. but lots of lotion, baby oil even after lotion. and taking breaks from shaving helps!

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I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer.

once your out of middle school everything is ok. in highschool people dont care what brand it is, if its cute its cute, im middle school its all about who you are and what your wearing. 'the popular kids'. yeah well thoses popular kids you have in 8th grade become the kids who 'only talk to that group and think there everything but people really hate' in highschool.

and cuyrly vs straight.. its your facial.. girls dont really wear curly hair so guys tend to like that because they never see it.. but its mostly about just new styles and what looks good on you.. i just love curly hair so i prefer to curl mine =)

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Hey. I was wondering: How much money are Chanel sunglasses (The big black ones)? and Where can you buy them? If you could give me a store name and/or a website I would be truly grateful. Thanks!

chanel - 200-300 real ones.. knock offs any street corner in new york city lol... exspenisve sunglasses stores that are in malls sometimes.. or actally chanel stores..
http://www.italiansunglasses.com/
http://www.7star-replicas.com/

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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

well if your HS is anything like mine. SPEGETTI STRAPS ARENT ALOUD AT ALL. except theres about 20-35 girls a day in the warm weather that wear them.. plus flip flows.. and tubtobs.. as long as there not horrible they prolly wont care.. but a tj's and marshells are good stoers for cheap.. but its a chance.. i can go 5 times and get nothing but i went yesterday and got the cutests black lacey shirt, a abecrobie shirt for 7 and cute kapris

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does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.

http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/homepage.html

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All my friends seem depressed expecially my one friend who talks about "Killing her parents with no remorse" on her xanga. Im really worried for her. Thing is, she says she would do it but I know she wouldnt. She talks more about suicide and how terrible her life is. Her life really isnt bad, her parents just have really strict limits which I know can drive a teen crazy. She doesnt seem to know that there millions of kids out there with way worse situations than her who make it through everyday. She keeps repeating it alot probably for attention (Maybe shes asking for help, I dont know) Im just really not sure what to do anymore...

well depending on the age of you guys and her personality. i had many of friends explaining how bad thier lives were and parents were horible when in fact its the kids that dont say anything that have it worst. strick rules are things a kids talks about but having parents that beat you or mentally abuse you, you neer hear about if there doing it, so if a kid so saying it often, usally and most likly it aint that bad. i had a friend whos my sister now, shed move in wit me if she could get away from her parents, its a nitemare i know for a fact, but i didnt find this out till about ayear into everything... you dont cry wolf if therse a problem, worlds f*ed up like that. plus the age. theres a age where everyone in sa certain grade all of a sudden belives that thier parents are the worst. and it tends to be a spreading disese or sumthing for some time.. it stops eventually as you grow up

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I was just wondering what kind of things women did with their pubic hair. For example, I don't want to wax or shave mine, I know there are creams you can use, but I don't really want to get rid of it all. Do people trim theirs? Do they use scissors? How short do you do it? I know everyone is different, but I would like some kind of idea anyway.

There isn't really anyone I can ask this without sounding stupid and I don't really want to google it, I can imagine the websites it will bring up!

Thanks for any help people can give me.

i know yu dont want to shave but in all honesty if you put a little soap on it, just a little so it feels like it, not faomy, and lightly take a razor to it, very liguhtly, it makes it thiner almost, dont gotta go near the skin at all, i like how it almost just thins it, that and you could use sissors, but its what you feel comforrtale, specially if a guys gonna be down there, women tend to feel better if the hairs really short if hes down there, but i suggest the light razor, less you cant use razors or sumthin..

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ya well for night i know ur supposed to wear pads but i have the dinky to go ones.. n i used my sisters but i dont want her ot know and now she like has none.. so i dont have any to wear at night and my mom is outta town with my dad (not like im goin to ask him) n i cant ask my sisters! what should i do!!!!!

i rate 5's

NO GAY ASS ANSWERS PLEASE!

oh and i have my period right now and idk what to do!!! about the pad thing

first of all put on underwear your not worried about ruining. for sleeping purpouses alot of toliet paper, bwecause usally girls arent that heavy during sleeping anyway, your mom should have somthing to ya know. and why cant you ask your sisters? i garentee that if your mom knows, they know, plus theyve gone threw the same thing you have if they have it in the bathroom, its embarrising i know but its one questian and then they can get help. if you really cant find anything else wear regular undies and maybe cut a rectangles out of a clean rag to fit, not to thin ones, that should help for awhile, just keep chaing them and hide them wit toliet paper in the garbage

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how do yyou know your ready for sex? im a virgin..and when im with this guy and we do stuff i really want to do it..but ik its cuz im horny or w/e...

ask yourself one thing. if he breaks up with you anytime, are you gonna regret it? sex doesnt have to always be about romantic love, it could simply be that you know this man is your best fing friend and hell never fu** you over. its what your saving yourself for, if your saving yourself for love then you have to know that hell never leave you and you KNOW that for a fact, but love youll find yourself, if its not that kinda thing to you, make sure the guy is a best friend, not just a boyfriend. and as long as you want to do it because you like him, and you wanna do it when your not in the moment, it usally means your not just horny

i knew i was ready because my bf even tells me that if he says he wants to break up, ignore him. if he hangs up on me, he calls me back within 15 mints. i can really count hah =), he needs me, and i kinda do need him to be happy. i know no matter what hes not leaving me. he loves my body, and was the first guy to really make me love my body too, he loves the imperfections and i know he does, and it takes alot to say you KNOW he does. if you say no to sex for awhile, hell be okay with it., and usally time helps, but i know i knew i loved my bf the day i went out with him, but i waited a year with him, not to sound stupid or anything...

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im 14 and a freshman in high school! i have been going out with this guy for almost a 2 months now and he is moving slow cuase he doesnt want me to dump him with i wont but I Want to makeout with him but i dont want to make that move you no..so how can i like tell him that i want to make out wiht him with out me like just going for it?

its confusing sorry

it maybe outfront but if you talk to him online or on the phone it wouldnt be that hard to simply ask him why he hasnt kissed you, that or get into the topic of how you feel men should make moves first, or you feel girls shouldnt ask guys ya know, play it up, even if thats not what you belive haha, but simply saying 'why havent you kissed me.. do you not like me that much?' thats not embarrising because id make him kinda feel bad or like he needs to. ..it puts it on him.. steada sayin KISS ME

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♥ Im suuuper bored right now. && I usually dont play games on the internet lol. But it sounds like fun riight now. Anyone know anyone good sites with lots of games? just like easy ones not like the sports ones. Thanks!!

http://games.yahoo.com/

http://www.games.com/playgames/home.jsp

http://www.pogo.com/home/home.jsp?sls=2&site=pogo

http://www.miniclip.com/

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