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Hello, my name is Kutt. I am 14 years of age, and I feel like giving advice to anyone who needs it. For, I have been given alot of advice, and for this knowledge, I want to pass it down. So, if you have anything to ask, ask me! Now, my other friend is sharing this account with me.



My Name is Savanna. I am simple, humble, and will not be as idiotic as my friend here to give out any personal info what so ever. But, I am willing to always help those in need. I am wise for my years, believe it or not, and have seen some things that no teens should see. I give sage advice, in fact, Kutt up there is one of my very first friends to whom I have given advice. I will probably not be as active as my dear old friend, but when I am on, I will help who ever I can.



Also, if you are going to im me on aim, I will only ask two questions at first,"Did you get my screen name from Advicenators and what is your question?" I do not need alot of people to im me just to talk. I DO have a life, and I can't spend it all day talking about stuff like ponys and video games.


Anyone, please visit www.freewebs.com/blarg_weeatyou, and if you would like to join. Please go ahead. When you join, you will mostly be on this, advicenators, because that's what our main rule is. Give advice to anyone who needs it, no matter who it is. So, take a look around, and if you are commited, and like what you see, please talk to us!

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i was thinking abouts switching from cingular to verizon. my bf & some of my friends have verizon, so overall i thought it would be a good idea so we can be "in" & have free mins including the regular plan & texting. my cingular plan is 2 years, so it's not over until december. the thing is, my cingular bill has been going up & i really think we should switch to verizon so that it wont be as much. is there anyway to break that contract. if so, what are the outcomes & how long does that take?? if we do break it, can i get a verizon phone from the store as soon as i do that?? i want it so that i always have a phone & there isn't a time where i don't have one.

thanks!!

Okay. See, I have verizon. I do like it and all, but I really spent up my minutes. It is great if you get a plan where you can call other verizon people and it won't cost. But see, my plan is that so I cannot use free minutes when I call my friends who have verizon. It is a pain, and I can't change the plan after 2 years. If you decide to get verizon, make sure your plan is that when you call verizon people, it's using free minutes. Also, if you plan to break your plan with cingular, it will have to cost some money. I was thinking about going to T Mobile. But, I found out, that if you break Verizon's contract, you will have to pay alot of money. And i'm not talking just like 50 dollars. It's either between 300-600 dollars. But, that is what I heard from one of my family members. If you do decide to get verizon, you probably will be able to get verizon after you get rid of cingular. The problem might be though, your parents will have to make you pay for it. And, that is going to cost quite amount of money.
I hope I helped!

-Kutt

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where can you save a file that was made from Jasc Paint Shop Pro? i tried photobucket, but they don't use the .pspimage at the end. how can i upload my picture to be put on myspace?

Okay, so let's go through this step by step.
1. You save your picture by clicking on "Save As"
2. A box comes up and it tells you what you want to name your picture and underneath it, it has "Save As Type:" There, they have many choices to choose what to save your picture as.
You need to pick, JPEG-JFIF Compliant. (There will be behind those words, jpeg,jif,jpeg. Something like that.)
3. Once you have saved your picture as JPEG-JFIF Compliant click Save. There might be another option that says JPEG 2000. Ignore that. You only need JPEG-JFIF.
4. Now, you should be able to save your picture on photobucket.

Hope that works for yah!
If you are stuck, just reply back.
-Kutt

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hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back?

Well, it is very hard to get her trust back, since you do lie to her alot. You shouldn't really have done it, because your mom is like your best friend, and of course, your mom. You need to stop lying, and tell the truth. Even if she doesn't believe you, you need to look her in the eye and tell her you are telling the truth, and not just lying. If she doesn't believe you, you are going to have to do alot of stuff for her. What I would do, if I was in your position, would be to try to do stuff around that house that I normally don't do, without being asked. Maybe, give her something that you made, and you made it espiecally for her. If she thinks you are up too something, say you aren't, and you want to acknowledge her for being a great mother. And maybe, you shouldn't talk to those guys behind her back, because that isn't going to help at all. You can either stop talking to them, or tell the truth to your mom. Tell her, so she can trust that you will tell the truth for now on. That is what I would do.

-Kutt

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Okay so my best friend has some sorta bladder problem (i think) she goes to the bathroom like every 5 minutes. I know that nobody knows but her family. Even i dont know. (she has never talked about it) So i was wondering what are some types of bladder problems. Just because i kinda wanna know whats up. Like i know that they are bad but she really so goes every 5 minutes, it just doesnt seem normal.

Well, she could have a urinary trac infection...I'm not sure if that is how you spell it, but I use to have that. Like, I use to go to the bathroom and then a couple minutes later I would have to go again. Or either, I would go to the bathroom before I was leaving somewhere, but then I had to go back to the bathroom again because I still thought I had to go, but I really didn't. And, is it a first time that she started going to the bathroom every 5 minutes? Or has it been happening over and over lately? If it has been going over a period of time, she might want to see a doctor. Because, if she waits too long to see a doctor, it could turn out that she might have a really bad infection, yah know what I mean?

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im 14 and i used to cut not that long ago. i have stopped but i have random urges to start cutting again. im not sure what is causing this. i think it may be because im gonna be going to high school and im nervous. please try to help me.

I'm just like you. I'm 14 and not too long ago I use to cut myself. But then, I started to see a counselor. Now, I really regret that I cutted myself. But, sometimes I feel like, I still want to cut myself. But, to get my mind off of that topic, I find something too do. Call a friend, play a game, go outside on a nice sunny day to read a book or ride my bike. See, if you go back to cutting, you are risking yourself on being caught. Which, is a good and bad thing. The good part is, you will be helped and treated. Example, you might start seeing a counselor who can help you. The bad thing is, for me, is that I have to go through one day for an hour every week to see the counselor. I mean, I don't mind visiting the counselor, but it starts to get on my nerves. I mean, i'm on meds right now, and I feel good. I don't get those bad days anymore like I use too. But, I don't see why I still have to talk to someone, when there is nothing to talk about. You just have to look at your options and ask yourself,"What is the right choice?" Would it be, Cutting yourself again, which will get you no where good, or shall you avoid cutting? Because, if you do get the urge to cut again, you will look back when you are older and think "Why did I ever do that?" But, if you choose not too, you will look back and say,"Wow, I did the right thing to stop." That's how I think of it anyways. And don't be worried about highschool! Everyone is, so don't feel like your going to stick out because you're the only one who is nervous. Believe me, I'm going to highschool, and i'm nervous too. But, I've already made some new friends there from my summer program up at my soon to be highschool!
If you have any more questions, just reply back. I hope this helps!


-Kutt

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ive known robbie since the 8th grade. we used to chill alot, but we stopped for a bit. now that we are going to be juniors we have talked. in may i saw him at the carnival and we were talking. he started IMing me after that and we talked alot. since june hes been texting me alot. we`ve been talking a real lot and when he was away for a week and a half we talked every night either texting or on the phone. i know its sounds like a stupid- non serious thing but we`re older and its just idk. we hungout on the 4th and hookedup. we like eachother and he said hed want to go out with me after we chilled. but.. im scared.. i know he already likes me but we`ve only chilled like twice, and thats fine but we are going to a concert tomorrow and im scared hes going to think im like chubby or grosse. idk i have no confidnece and im just so scared about him. hes not snobby or anything but yeha im a pretty girl but i feel he can do alot better and it just scares me. what should i do when im with him at the concert tmra to make sure hes like serious and stuff?

Well... I wouldn't ask him. Some people take the direct way... But I've seen it cause more problems than it helps. I would say just go and have fun with it! Have confidence in yourself, put on a little extra make-up (not enough to look like a clown, of course) and put fourth a little more effort than usual... Then do little things to show him you're commited. Just see how the night goes, than talk to him about it later. That's honestly what I would do myself.

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