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I just got a new light colored bed set, and im so afraid of getting blood from my period on it because it will stain it. How can i make sure i dont get blood on it? I use tampons, but i tend to sleep in pretty late, so its a while until i change it at night, so it tends to leak out. I'm sooo tired of getting it on my underwear and staining them, and i reallllly dont want it to get on my new bed set. So any ideas?

It would be much appreciated, thanks!

Well lots of people seem to get this problem, if i was you i would use night time pads that are LONG and very protective, could use ones with wings too if you like, then put an old towel on your bed make sure you put it underneath where your bum is and try folding the towel so its more thick and will absorb more incase you leak. Also if you are getting annoyed with stains just wear dark panties like black so the stains wont stand out as much and you can soak them in hot water. The advice i just gave you works i've tried it. Hope this helped =] x

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ok i decided that I want to wear shoes with a pointed front but I don't know how to decide if it's right or not since it feels akward.

are your toes supposed to feel tight in the front?

or are your toes supposed to be bellow the point, feeling comfortablely?

on the sides of my foot, are they supposed to feel really tight or really firm? or are they supposed to be a little loose and comfy?

All shoes should feel comfortable for you and pointed ones are meant to feel pretty much the same as others but your toes will probably feel a TAD squished but you should get use to that. They shouldn't feel too uncomfortable at the, toes, if they do then you should probably get a bigger size. Hope this helped =] x

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hey. well, my dad bought some chocolates from this place called cocoa dolce, and i decided to keep the box they came in. it's smallish, and i just wanna do something cute with it, just for fun. like i said, its not very big. i was thinking about just getting cute things out of magazines andjust decorating it with pics. but idk. anyone have any cute ideas??? thanks!

You could use any material really to decorate your box, my favorite is using ribbons or sticking on some beads, glitter, cut outs from magazines is also a good idea, you should probably think of what you will use the box for first then you could maybe think of a theme for it. Like for example say a jewelry box then you could have a shiny kind of silver theme or a pink theme. Just be creative really ! =] x Hope you find a good idea.

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my gf hasnt had her period in 2 months and im wondering if it has anything to do with her masturbating.
also, what are the affects of masturbation on girls???

Dont worry sometimes girls miss their period it could be one month, two months even three! Especially if they have only just started. I doubt it is anything to do with her masturbating because that doesn't really have any BAD effects. Mastubation on girls is completely normal for girls. Hope this helped =] x

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ok well i have a wedding to go to tomorrow......TOMORROW!!!!!!!
and i am out of hair ideas
i have shoulder length blonde thick hair and i naturaly dry my hair overnight if anyone has any ideaas for wedding hair they would be my hero also hair tools and supplies are limited i have a curling iron a medium quality flat iron and sprunch and curl spray
unfortunately thats it if someone comes up with an answer before Saturday I LOVE U THANK YOU U R MY HERO
if not answer anyway cause im always ready for hair ideas
haha
thanks so much guys where would i be without this site??!!

Well i think if you have a curling iron then thats all you really need, curly hair is the best style of hair for formal outings! I would try curling your hair and loosly put it up with a soft hair band or put ur hair in a curl bun. Try something like in the picture =] Hope you have a good time and hope you find the right hair! =] x


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Female 14

I need help to lose weight before septemeber and i have acne that is really bad. And i mean really bad. I need advice how to get rid of my acne and lose weight in the time i have. please and thank you in advance!

Well to loose weight make sure you do exercise and EAT RIGHT because if you exercise and dont watch what you eat then it wont make a difference. Go to your local gym or go running. You can also do crunches and sit-ups at home try doing some for at least half an hour everyday, when you wake up in the morning and in the afternoon. Try to make and follow a routine and write it down so you dont loose track. And about your acne try going to the doctors honestly they can help and give you some sort of cream for it!! Hope this helped =] Good Luck x

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Alright so my friend and I just recently found out that this guy basically played both of us. Us being us aren't just going to sit around and let this go by . Were going to get back. However we dont have any good ideas. Any suggestions?
thankss :]

Watch the film "John Tucker Must Die" Classic!! =] x

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Ok.. I am new to this thing. So i dont know exactly what Im doing, and I cant believe I am doing this! But I need help. Me and my boyfriend had sex, used a comdom. I am just a couple days later for my period BUT I am having really bad stomach pains, my lower back is killing me, Im having vagina pains, feeling sick in the middle of the day and bad headaches. Could I be pregnant?..

Well i think the best way to find out is to get a pregnancy test straight away! It could just be your period starting but if you are not sure then i advise you to get a pregnancy test..
Good Luck x =]

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i have a default layout for my myspace. a cool one not the one they give u. anyways i want mine to be skinny. how do i do it?? or where do i get it??

Here is a link to the page on a website which gives you a skinny profile:


http://www.ultimatemyspace.com/myspace_codes/24.html

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how much do hair extensions cost? are they bad for your hair? do they rip your hair out when they get takin' out? How are they put in? can you get different color of hair than your hair is now?

You can get clip in hair extentions which are much easier to use than getting them glued in. Here is a website of a shop where i get mine from.

http://www.sallybeauty.com/

=] x

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what is her new album that is coming out called?


thanks

Carrie Underwood's new album is called

"Some Hearts"

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if i were to travel from the US(south carolina) to France. (4 people) how much, approx., would it cost for tickets? there and back? plus other expensives like hotels... food...? any information would be wonderful!

Try researching on the internet www.google.com It is most likely you will find a website for finding prices for travelling from one place to another. x

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How likly is it that your "cherry" will 'pop' b4 you actally have sex? and how can you tell if it is or not? When it happens(if b4 sex)does it hurt?

Well it is likely that your "cherry will pop" even though you havent had sex by the following things:
-By using tampons
-Foreplay
-Masturbating
-Freak Accident
Basically if anything is inserted into your vagina it is most likely that it will pop. Some girls feel it and some dont, some girls say it hurt and some girls say they didn't feel a thing. Its different for every girl really. I dont think you can really tell if its popped unless you feel it when for example inserting a tampon. Hope this helped x =]

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Ok I live where all the girls are major sluts and the guys are sex fiends and I've never even kissed a guy [[I mean I have kissed on the mouth but not french or anything]] and a guy I really liked is getting into me and he wants to makeout with me but I gave him an excuse because he's REALLY experienced with girls. I want to makeout with a guy and everything but not him, I dont want look stupid or anything so I already know I'm NOT [[I wont change my mind]] going to but I dont have anybody else who will help me!!! My sister wants to get someone to help me but there is no use for her with all the people she knows, anyway I dont know if you know what Im talking about but I would appreciate your advice!!!


-Stacy f/14

Stacy, it's good that you are aware of how the people around you act and that you are being sensible. It sounds to me that you like the thought of a "real" kiss but just havent experienced it and you want to experience it? If this is the case all i can say is dont do something just because everyone else is doing it and make sure you find the RIGHT PERSON, someone you actually like and who isn't trying to get a bit. It takes some time to find someone and all you can do is wait for that person. You can have fun but just dont do anything you dont want to with people you dont like. Make new friends and those friends could lead you to someone special, sometimes things happen when you least expect it. Dont feel in a rush to do anything, it doesn't matter that you haven't properly kissed a guy yet there is no rule saying you have to! =] I hope i helped if you have any questions feel free to ask, Good Luck Stacy x

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I am trying to decide between a few things here.
I love people.
Helping People.
Health Carrers.
Fasion Disign
Drawing
Writting.
Any way to find a good job out of all of that?
Sorry if this is dumb. But i am really confused.
Thanks...

Well firstly all of that i dont think goes into one job, but you could pick what you love THE MOST and aim for that as your job, because it is things like helping people which you can do without having it as your job by participating in charity events and things like that. Also drawing, and fashion design is kind of in the same category and you could draw as a hobby or take that as you career. I like fashion design and drawing and many other things but i picked my favorite out of all of them and found a way around doing the other things i love too. There are many good jobs out of what you love, maybe you could try speaking to older people or do some research on the the internet about those following things. Hope things work out, Good Luck =] x

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girls are so complicated cuz when i try to do somethin they always complain and whenever they are sick ill talk to them all night but they say i didnt talk long enough? and whenever they misss me i do whatever i can to get to them but they say i didnt try hard enough even though i got there and i even brought flowers a chocalate? sometimes i dont get girls or should i say some girls?

what should i do?

Well there are many fish in the sea, every girl is different, maybe you are just running into the wrong ones. It sounds like you try your hardest but these girls you talk about dont seem to realise that, maybe you could talk to them and tell them how you feel?

Some girls can be VERY complicated i know but then some can be perfect for you. As long as you know you are doing the best you can do is wait and see what else is out there and who will appreciate you for who you are and what you do.

Hope things go well, Good Luck =] x

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ok i like this boy and we have been going out off and on this entire school year. At first i really like him maybe even love him then we go out and about 2 weeks later i end up not liking him. then we break up and about a week later i decide i like or love him again and it all starts over. i dont know why i cant stay in love with him or why i can stay away from him. please tell me whats going on!!

Hmm this seems like a tricky situation. Firstly you cant help your feelings and who/when you fall for someone. I think your problem is that when you first went out you probably spent a bit too much time together and got bored of each other so thats why the relationship stopped, because you were bored. Then if you stopped spending time with this boy all together then you maybe started to miss him..so that meant you wanted to spend time with him again and realised you do still like him. Its like a circle really. I think all you can do is wait and see what happens, if its meant to be then it will happen, wait and see how you feel and if you do realise you do like him overall make sure you spend days together AND days apart so you dont get bored with each other. But if yo dont like him maybe you could just stay good friends? I hope this helped =] If you have anything you want to say dont be afraid to ask =] x Good Luck

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I am having trouble using my microphone. all the things are plugged in and all the volumes are set up! I will listen to all ides! But please help

Hey! One question is it a microphone for your computer? x

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