I am a married stay at home mom. I have been helping friends and other people online for a long time, about 5 years now. I am always willing to lend an ear. Hopefully, I will be able to help you through your tough times.
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Member Since: April 26, 2006
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me and my friend have been friends since 1st grade ( im in 9th now )she known she be a drama queen when it comes to boys and stuff....well she always comes up to me and tells me why she is pissed..even thought its something really stupid..i tell her to calm down and dont take your anger out on other people..well her sister is my ride to school and just recently her car broke down so i rode with my brother and then my friend said she would take me the next day but she didnt and her car is fixed and my friend doesnt know if she will take me anymore ...i dont know if im just stressed out or takeing my anger out on the car situation..but me and her sister are really good friends and all and when i came to school with my brother she started talking to me like nothing was wrong...am i just over reacting?? please help because i dont know if i should be mad or not ill rate high (link)
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It sounds like you need to sit down with your friend and ask her to lend an ear for a change. I think you feelings go beyond the car situation. It sounds like there is an underlying problem between the two of you. Can you think of anything that either of you could have done or said to upset the other? I mean sometimes friends grow apart. High school is tough. It is a whole new world and people start changing. You should talk to your friend and find out where your friendship stands. But don't be upset over the car situation because that is just a minor thing and not something that should come between friends.
Good luck
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I am 14 years old and haven't gotten my period yet. I am pretty sure all of my firends have gotten it by now. I am also one of the oldest out of my firends (cuz i was born in 91 and everyone else born in 92 but whatever) I play 3 sports and i am wondering of something is wrong with me? My mom got it when she was 16 but my sister got it when she was 11. (link)
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You will get your period when you body is ready. We all start at different ages as you know from you family history. Getting your period is a milestone and it is a major deal but dont try to rush it. I love having my period because it tells me that everything is okay. But some days it can get annoying. So just relax and have fun.
Good luck
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uGh im gonna go insane.... 2months and im out of here... ok well ive been really stressed about almost everything.... my parents are sending me away for a year and i honestly dont want to go and like they know but ther buying me like everything i want before i leave but i keep on getting in fights with them beause they get mad when i tell them i dont want to go... i kinda feel bribed but then again i know there sending me for a good reason but ugh im so irratated with everything...today i got in a fight with my mom cause it had something to do with me signing up for summer school so i dont have to repeat the grade and its like ugh i dont mean to fight with her I JUST DONT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE and she started getting mad cause i told one of my friends that i dont want to go and shes like dont tell your friends that! What am i supposed to do be like ohh im so excited im leaving for a year yay! When Im not....
Anyadvice? (link)
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Have you tried to explain why you dont want to go? Stating you dont want to go doesnt explain the reason you dont want to go. All you can do at this point is try to talk it out with your parents and express your feelings openly. As far as the fights go sometimes its easier to fight and leave than to just leave on a good note. It is easier to be angry and not care where you are going than to sit there and say good bye and feel bad about going away. But anger is never the answer it is always good to leave on good terms. Try to relax and make the most of the time left you have with your parents. And know they will always love and your parents are trying to do what is best for you. Try to understand what they are going through and it will help you get through your situation.
Good luck
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Hai every one
My last periods date was on 12/04/06 till date I have no symptoms of that again, I had urine test twice in a week for pregnancy both are negative. I have been to doctor and took a course(pills) for 5 days for geeting the periods back. Now it is 7th day after the first day of the course but there are no periods.Another thing is that I used to have irregular periods.What might be the reason. (link)
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I had irregular periods myself. I would go months without one. But stress could also cause you to be late. Just hang in there and check back with your doctor if you feel something still is not right. Trust your instincts.
Good luck
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Hi..I'm getting married in August and I was wondering if anyone knows any dvd's that are great exercising videos..i will rate high! (link)
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Tae bo is great. I have used them for a long time and I dropped about 5 pounds in a month along with dieting. I also bought the yoga dvds. And I bought a kick boxing dvd which was slower than the tae bo.
Good luck and congratulations
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ok im 14 and im a girl my problems is well to understand my whole problem i will have to go bac lil while ok so my mom and dad were never married but when i was 4 they broke up and i lived with my grandma with my dad and MY MOM dated this guY his name was dawayne AND when i was like 5 my mom took me away from my dad and i missed him alot and i neVer saw him again till i was 11 and then i started seeing him and he lived with his new wife and her kids i felt really bad i felt like he didnt care about me anymore or sumthin but then he talked to me about it and i was fine then when i was 13 one of my friends moved to her cuzins house((WHO WAS ALSO ONE OF MY FRIENDS)) b-ciz she got abused and my dad got a divore with his wife and then my mom got a divorce with her husband and i missed my step sister very much and i feel really bad inside i feel like crying all the time and my friend that got aBUSED IS MOVING BAC WITH HER DAD (WHO ABUSED HER) and just want every thing to be they way it was b 4 i moved out of my old house (link)
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I know right now things seem sad and lonely. But you are not alone. talk to your parents and your friends. Let them know how you feel. It will make you feel better to talk it out.
Also, start a diary or journal. Write down what you are feeling and why.
If you find it too hard to talk to people face to face write it down in a letter. Let them know how you are feeling and what you feel like you are going through right now. And then give it to them and they will be able to help you.
It is never easy dealing with problems by yourself and the sooner you talk to someone the sooner you will see that they can give you the support and reassurance you need.
They may even have the same feelings you have about the situation.
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iam 18 yrs old.male.student.i have a tendancy of postponing my commitments until the very last moment.even if iam aware of the fact that i have to that work at any cost,i would defer it if i have time to spare.at times iam aware of the fact that postponing that work might have bad consequences but still i ould defer it if i have time left.please help me out on this.and please give such a solution which i dont postpone while implementing. (link)
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Get a pen and paper. Start writing down all the things that must get done. Then list them by priority. Take time and review your list and get things done one at a time. If it seems too overwhelming see if you can group some of them together to get them done at the same time.
Start organizing things so you can find stuff easier. Work on preparing ahead of time and planning out what you will be doing. Get into a routine for the things you can. And once you get everything in order and worked out whatever it is you needed to do will be done and you will still have time for yourself.
Hope this helps
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ok.. I'm 13/f and I'm in the 7th grade. I play JV ball for the highschool and there is this girl who is in the same grade and she got ask to play with us in the summer and now she is telling every body that she is a varisty player for the highschool.. her mother puts stuff in her head tellin her she is the best ball player ever and crap.. it really just pisses me off..It gets stuff in her head and crap.. We'll get to play them in aau and I'm going to show her out for she won't think she is the best ever..should I be mad or how should I think about this? (link)
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have you sat down and talked her alone? Sometimes people feel pressured by their parents to be the best and the start acting like they are the best. They try to please their parents and they dont realize that their actions are hurting other people around them. Maybe if you get to know her and what her life is truly like you might be able to get passed all the things she has done and said.
If that is too hard to do then try to put it all behind you and do the best you can. As long as you have fun that is all that matters.
Good luck
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