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Hey Sara! I have a question 4 you...alright My brother is a druggy and he has sex and drugz all the time..I am really worried..I have talked to my mom but I feel like she wants to think that Mike is ok but truly she wants to do summin..I want to talk to me Bro but I dont know how..What should I do? (link)
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Alright gurlie. I know that you have gone through hard times with Mike... I've tried helping you and him out, its hard lemme tell you. Umm, well understand that drugs are VERY addicting and so is SeX ;D hehe. No but on a serious note, talk to him when he is in the best of mood. I know your mom and she really doesn't know what to do. I think that her reasoning is that since your dad is gone, no one is there to show Mike how to be a man. So Mike thinks that being a man is having sex and doing drugs to make his image appear more manly. I know it sucks being a little sister because you cant really do anything. But talk to him, sit him down, and get deep with him... Tell him that its messed up and you hate it! Good Luck Gurl! I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH! Post again!
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how do u fix jealousy? i dont want to be jealous. but i dont think i am that much. (link)
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You cant get rid of jealousy. Everyone gets jealous even if they say they dont, they do. So dont feel guilty because you are jealous of sumone or sumthing... Just do what you always do... Be yourself.
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You see there's this guy and I think he likes me but I don't know. He tried to put moves on me the other day and it kinda freaked me out. Like he kissed me on the cheek, put his hand on my leg. He did stuff just to get close to me. When a guy does stuff just to get close to you it means he likes you, but I don't really like him. Ohh...help! What should I do??
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Straight up, tell him how you feel. Say thass not what you want with him. Just say how you feel and you'll be happy with the results. Good Luck.
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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ? (link)
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Honestly, if you know you love him... And you know he loves you, its right. 14 months is sumthing big, it's hard to find sumone who is willing to stay together for that long. So as long as you know you are getting sumthing out of this relationship, then follow your heart.
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Hey. I really want to join the step team for my middle school, but I don't know how to step. I don't know if they will teach you how to step or if you already have to know it. Please give me advice because I really need your help! thanx. (link)
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Dont be scared, ask somebody. Dont let yourself stop you from doing something you really want to do. Join and see what happens, if it doesn't work out... What have you got to lose??
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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy.... (link)
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Three words, its a phase. Oh wow, we all go through it. I've never heard of anyone who hasn't. It hurts so badly losing sumone like your boyfriend and it hurts even more to know that you dont have anyone who you feel can comfort you. Yeah, I've gone through it. One thing I would do is think really hard of sumone who you can really count on. Maybe you forgot about this person, but think about talking to them about your problems. The problems with your mom, try to talk to her nicely even if she is treating you like crap, I've been there. I'm actually also dealing with it right now. Cutting yourself is definately NOT the way. So try to figure out a way to handle situations better. And Good Luck!
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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out? (link)
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Ask him out if yall have a REALLY STRONG relationship/bond. Because honestly and truly, those kinda relationships hardly work out. But consider getting to know him REALLY well b4 any of that.
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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do? (link)
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Tell her straight up what you feel. A true friend doesn't lie to thier friend. I mean everyone makes mistakes, but if sumone keeps lying to you over and over again, then they aren't a true friend. Tell them how you feel.
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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
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Sum people truly believe in physics... I cant say that I do, but hey... Forget them. Do what you have been doing. Cuz if you've had your man for 2 years, I think you know what you're doing. Good Luck.
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ok well my hair isnt curly but its wavy and frizzy and juss like i hate it...i straighten it with a straightener and ive tryed like 3 diff kinds...and they get it soo silky but it never stays straight and the ends curled in and it juss pised me off...so i started ironing it...it works gr8 (yea a clothes iron on an ironing board)...it stays straight all day and is pretty straight when i wake up!! after i shower it gets ugly again and its jsus a hassle ironging and straightening ur hair eryday!! wat can i do?? r ther ne like straighting conditioner/shampoo that will help? ne good straighteners...i really dont wanna iron it it kills it!! HELP (link)
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I have the same problem!! Okay, I got so tired of straightening my hair once that I also used an iron... But would you rather have curly/wavy hair or dead hair? :/ Yeah, so alls I'm saying is give it a chance. The fellas dig chicks with curly hair... Trust me ;)
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I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?
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Alright Gurl... First of all, Trouble doesn't mean that the guy cant treat you right. Maybe hes a really nice person but just shows his personality a different way. If he likes you the way you like him, maybe you should give him a chance and see what happens.
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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! (link)
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Alright Gurl. First of all, one thing you really need to do is communicate... If you and your man dont have communication then you dont have anything. So talk to him, ask him questions, but not too many. You know what I mean. If this guy really wants to be with you, he'd talk to you always. So try to talk it out. Thats the best thing you can do at this point. Take Care.
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