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Q: so i use to go out with this guy...he was like my best friend for like 2 years anyways he broke up with me after like 2 weeks cuz he "didnt kno wat to do withhis feelings" after that our friendship hasnt been the same....Theres this other guy who ive liked for 41\2 years and now we are really gettin serious and wanna get together....now my ex decided that he made a mistake and wants me back......I told him that i will always care for him since hes my friend....but i told him i really love this other guy......I think i broke his heart...What should i do?and do i act bitchy towards him....(the ex)

Duh! act mean to your ex! Go out with the other guy! make your ex mad and jealous ! who cares if you broke your ex's heart ! i know i don't feel sorry for your ex! hahaha LOL any ways please try this and please email me or give me a message or a feedback of how it work! Also, if you have any other question please feel free to ask i really don't care i love answering question from people! from RjRamos :)

Q: I don't know what's going on with my feelings. So let me start with guy number one (I'm 13/f by the way)
Well we've always sort of had this thing
In 5th grade he asked me out and he liked me like crazy and I didn't know what to say because I was unsure I was just in 5th grade. In 6th grade he barely talked to me.
In 7th he sometimes talked to me and if it was, it was probably just flirting. Now this year in 8th, he does the same thing. He talks to me more though and I guess you could say we're friends. But I've always felt something for him. He has the most amazing brown eyes and when our eyes meet I feel like we both know there's something there, but we look away as if it shouldn't be there. I don't know if I like him and I just feel hurt inside because he still leaves perverted comments on girl's facebooks and sometimes it's hard to tell if he likes me. It's just those eyes and looks he gives me that make it all not matter. It seems sometimes like there's days he likes me and days he doesn't.

And then there's guy number 2. He's incredibly hott and he's really popular and I'm not like the most popular but I'm high up there so I would have a small chance. Well this year, we walk by each other every morning and we've never spoken but I always sort of catch his eye and lately he's been crying because of all these sick rumors that he smokes and everything which arent true, and inside I feel like I want to be with him and stuff. I don't know if he likes me but I would definately go out with him. He broke up with this popular girl and he hates her entire popular bitchy group which I'm thankful for because none of them seem like normal people they're all followers.

And that's the problem. I don't know what I'm feeling. Guy Number one seems to me sometimes that all he wants is action. He's never really said anything to hint he really likes me, but more of my body. But I always feel like he still does because he's a major crowd follower. I just can't tell who actually likes me, if any of them. I've never had a boyfriend but I've liked people and I always feel like there's this emptiness inside which I know seems ridiculous but I just want someone that likes me and someone that can hold me in their arms. So I really want a boyfriend.

I can see how this might be incredibly confusing but it's just how I'm feeling. So what I'm asking is what you think of the situation, if you think Guy number one or two likes me, and signs that one of them could like me. And I'm not interested in asking anyone out, I just want to know what's going on with my feelings.

I think you should go with guy number two ! U can tell that you like him and since you aren't at the way top of being popular and he doesn't seem to like the mean type of girls! i think you might be falling into love! thats what i think of the situation !!! Please if you have any other question please feel free to ask me any time i try my best to answer them! from RjRamos! :)

Q: okay im 16 a junior and so is my sister, twin sister. and we are starting a new school and we love it! we already have tons of friends and not to seem concided in the "well known" group if you know what i mean. and like we arent the type to be sluts but latley everyone has been calling us sluts and whoes and stuff like that and we didnt even do anything to desirve the lable. so we asked around and my friend mel told me that these guys said we slept with them! whats up with that! it never even happened. and its drving me and my sister crazy! and no one believes us. and like we are getting IM's from people from our school saying lets hook up. were not whores and still virgin. and its a private catholic school wich makes things even more weird because the teachers can hear what people are saying in the hall ways. and its so imbarising is there any way that i can pruve to these people that nothing happened and the guys are jerks! please & thnx

try making a lie about them! See what they do ? And make a good one 2 so people won't belive them when rumors come along!!! sooooo then the rumor will past on then they would i guess forget about calling you guys the name they use to call you guys before!! hope this work !!! Please if you have any other question or questiones please feel free to ask any question i really don't mind at all ! from RjRamos! :)

Q: I think my guy friend might be anorexic.
He's told me that he used to not eat, but that ended. But now, he's not really eating again. I don't know if he just doesn't eat in front of me, or if he's not eating at all. But I think it could be a serious problem.

What should I do?

You should try asking him do you eat at home or what time do you eat? Please! if you any other questions plese ask RjRamos! :)

Q: I am trying to be able to put more songs onto my MP3 player and since it is only 1GB, I'm trying to exchange the MP3 files for ones that are in WMA format. How can I narrow down the searches for songs I like to just display the WMA files? Or...do I need to convert them myself? If so, how? Thank you!

I think you have to convert it! By using zamzar here the website http://zamzar.com/url/ and it will show you how to convert the file! ok well i hope this help u fill you mp3 player ! If you have any more questions please ask me RjRamos

Q: theirs this boy in my math class and we are friends sometimes he flirts with me and i do it back sometimes i think i like i do i let him know i like him with out lettin him know i like him. sometimes i feel like we were ment for each other but then it seems we are betta off just close friends but he is so cute i do i get him to like me. please any one write back

thanks

Well, from learning from my ex friend kaitlyn! You can always smile at him or like hang around with him as well. Also, you can try to have a converstion about what he like and what you like so you can see what he is in to! If that doesn't work try to get a (make over) what i mean is change like your whole face and make it even prettyer!!!! so I hope he going to like u ! Please if you have any other question to ask please ask RjRamos i would be glade to help you!

Q: 15/f

my friend, gets picked on by this pink haired goth emo freaks. all the time. their mean to her just because she has blonde hair and blue eyes and she wears abercrombie. she doesnt even know these kids names. & they book her and say mean things to her all the time. i wanna always stand up for her. but i dont. because they all said they wanna kill all the people in school that just look at them the wrong way. so, i dont wanna mess with them.

what should i or my friend do?

Tell i mean Tell your parents and your friends parents what those goth girls are doing to your friend!!!!! hope this works so please always ask RjRamos!!

Q: is it bad to go out with someone else if you like the other guy better? this guy A asked me out and i was kind of pressured so i said yes to him even though i like this guy B better i like guy A but then i like guy B more but i said yes to the guy A when he asked me out and i made the relationship secret because of my parents but on the other hand so guy B wont know that im going out with guy A . guy A asked me if he could flirt with other girls and i said "yes you could" and i asked him if i could and he said yes too i let him flirt with other girls because i wanted to flirt with guy B is this all bad...?

Well, in a way yeah but you tried to slove it.
ok ok go with guy B because you can tell that you like him more than guy a ! if you do that then It won't be all bad and u would be happy as well with guy B!!!! Please Always ask RjRamos for any question!

Q: How do you save a video from Youtube or Photobucket to your computer??

well, i can solve the youtube part! ok first you have to copy the web address of the you tube video. then go to http://zamzar.com/url/ upload the url then out it to AVI . Afterr that,put you email address and wait to it finishes ! then, check you email mallbox ! when you get it there should be a link to download the youtube video! Thats al you have to do! So, please always ask RjRamos

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Hi,I am Rj Ramos! I am from Laredo Tx! I give good advice for all ages! So, I hope I can help give advice for all those people out there!! from RjRamos!