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14/f and hes 15/m (both in same grade)

ok i loved this guy for so long and towards like may of last year i told him i loved him and he said we should just be friends. but i've talked to like 3 of his really close friends and they said that they thought he really loved me. i don't understand. why would he pretend? any ideas? also, it's been awhile (seems like forever) since this happened and i still can't get over him..i really love him ..what should i do? should i just forget about him? were friends now and we do talk and stuff but if i were to just bring up the fact of me and him being in a relationship together it'd be really awkward...thanks for helpingg. (link)
Okay, so the 14 and 15 year old range sometimes still go through some puberty-related stuff. Not only that, but that age range is a little bit too young to have a stable enough relationship. Sure there might be a couple in middle school that might last all the way up to high school, but that's just once in a blue moon. Both of you are still going through a learning phase, and haven't really matured all the way through. You'll understand this a lot more when you grow a few years older.

It may be that your boyfriend is being a drama llama (meaning that he's acting this way for you to care for him more), or he lost interest in you. It's up to you on deciding how he actually feels and what you should do about it. You uunderstand the situation better than anyone else.


when me and my boyfriend have sex i never really get an amazing feeling that your suppose to or like cum. we do it all different ways. i dont know is there something wrong with me? what should i try (link)
Perhaps your boyfriend is not very good at sexually pleasing you. There is a spot called the "G-spot", which is about 2 inches deep within the vagina. Maybe if he used his fingers instead of his penis, he might actually hit the G-spot and you might get an orgasm. There is nothing wrong with you. You should be developed enough to be able to cum.


is there anyway to get dimples if you don't have them? like is there a certain muscle you can work or ANYTHING? thanks. (link)
Plastic surgery. Or you can draw dimples on your face with a Sharpie pen. Other than that, getting dimples is impossible.


i have been thinking about joining a sports team at my school but the year is almost over so i wanna start next year teh problem is i have no sport experience. i am fast but have low endurance and i am pretty tall for my age (female)15(freshmen now)
my question is what sport should i do next year and how do i get ready so i can be on the team and is experience Necessary to be on a team
i no it is vague but i will take anything :-) (link)
It's not very difficult to increase your endurance, as long as you don't mind putting some hard work in it. (i.e. running for a few miles a day) Well you're tall, so you could possibly do basketball. You can also run in the hurdles events in Track and Field. It all really depends on what you like. Just try a bunch of sports and see which one you like the best.


What are signs of a cheating bf..and what would make a boy want to cheat? thanks..idk if im being to paranoid or not so i wanted to get your guys imput (link)
You can't say that a boyfriend is cheating until you have solid evidence.

What makes boys cheat is because a lot of boys are just in it for sex and making out. Either that or they want total revenge. It kind of depends on the situation.

Your boyfriend might not be cheating, so you should stay loyal and trust him, because that's what relationships are all about.


who is the dude who played Barney?? (link)
Barney the purple dinosaur, or Barney from the Flinstones?


okay. so in my profile for aim i have thys part about my soccer team. i want to write somthing like make them remember our name but does any one have a better way of saying it or sumthin? kay thanks. (link)
I suggest you contact a custom shirt logo maker and make shirts with your guys' soccer team name instead of just a profile on AIM. People will notice your shirt a lot more than an AIM profile. If you MUST have it on your AIM profile, just use the BIGGEST and BRIGHTEST colors available.


okay, well my mom does pot, and she tries to hide it and stuff, but come on im not stupid ive known for liek ever, anyway that makes me like fucking hate drugs for soem reason, im not saying i havent made mistaks and done it before but thats not the point, but that was only once. anyway, my bestfriend and boyfriend, well do pot every idk not even month or so, and lately just this past week its been like 3 times, and he knows how i feel about it and it hurts me, and i dont want to control him at all, but i dont know what to do, he says he wont do anything after 4.20 from now on...but i mean how cna i talk to him and stuff, or should i just let it go some how? please help. (link)
Well you'd be surprised how much more deadly caffeine or nicotine can be, despite the fact that they are legal drugs. Using marijuana just kills brain cells. However, if you smoke marijuana constantly for a long time, (say one or two years) then there will be some unwanted side effects. If it's every month or so, then your boyfriend and best friend aren't even damaging their lungs. They're just killing brain cells which is no big deal.

I suggest you let him smoke marijuana each month or so, but if he smokes it on a daily or near-daily basis, you should make him stop.


im 15/f. if i find out a guy i like likes me back, i usually lose interest in him. am i not ready for a boyfried or what? its seriously annoying and id love it to stop (link)
I'm not sure what you're trying to ask us here, but I'll try and see if I can say anything helpful.

If you like a guy, and he likes you back, you lose interest in him? Wouldn't that mean that you didn't like him from the very beginning? I think you're a little bit confused, and should take some time off and think it over a little bit. Also, I don't think it would hurt to just go out with the guy that's interested in you. Who knows? You might become interested in him again.


18/Female - Okay, i have a dilemma. I haven't had great luck with guys - i've been cheated on, lied and all that. I am currently dating someone right now. We've been dating for a little over a month. He has mentioned that i ask too many questions, and that i say too many stupid things. I don't think i ask too many questions, or say stupid things. Because of my bad luck with guys, i tend to ask questions like "would you cheat on me? do you even like me? where do you see us going?" I've had about six guys all say the same thing - that i'm annoying, and that i need to relax, and just go with the flow cause when i try to hard it ruins the relationship. My current boyfriend just lost his job, so i haven't exactly seen him in a while (few weeks), he gets mad when i mention seeing him, or when i try to help him out. Am i really that bad of a girlfriend? How do i just go with the flow, and not worry about stuff? How do i stop myself from asking too many questions and saying stupid things? (link)
I'm afraid to say that if six guys are telling you that you ask too many questions, then it may be true. I think you should go out with a guy that you can actually trust, and not just rely on your luck and hope for the best. Finding a good partner takes a lot of time and patience. I'm not trying to be mean, but just realistic.

For the part about your current boyfriend, the best thing to do when a guy loses his job or something important is to make him forget about it. Not forcefully, but by giving him a good time. Don't directly tell him to just forget about his job, or else that'll irritate him even further.


the past 2 days i have been feeling really crappy. and all my friends noticed it. like sometimes im really happy but im cranky. like im happy but not at the same time. im normally a boy freak. im always thinking someone is cute and always liking one. but lately i took a break and now im comfortable with who i am. but i dont know somethings missing. like a part of me was liking someone and now i dont. and i jsut cant find someone to like. and i have no idea what to do. how do i make it so i dont feel crappy becuase of this? (link)
I think that you're under peer pressure. When I went to my first day in high school, I saw a couple making out in the parking lot and I was like WHOAOMGWTF. Our current society tends to make it seem that if you don't have a lover, then you're a total loser (which is not true) Even celebrities are pressured to have a boyfriend or girlfriend and eventually marry them. We hear about celebrity relationships all the freaking time. It took my 5th grade teacher (who I still talk to up to this day) about 15 years of dating until he finally found his true love and got married.

So my theory is that you feel kind of "worthless" without a boyfriend. My advice is to keep being comfortable about who you are, and just be patient. One of these days you'll find a person that you will truely admire.


Is there any drawing tutorial sites for bodies?

While using stick figures or shapes as a base?

I really need some help with drawing poses. But I need some reference pictures or something. (link)
There are so many places that you can go to for help on anatomy. You should try books too. I personally find it a lot more helpful when I can draw something and read from a guidebook at the same time. The first two are nude sites, but not porn. It helps when you see poses of natural bodies as opposed to clothed bodies. The third link goes to amazon's description of my favorite anatomy book.

http://www.human-anatomy-for-artist.com/content/index.htm
http://www.female-anatomy-for-artist.com/
http://www.amazon.com/Cyclopedia-Anatomicae-Illustrations-Animal-Figure/dp/1884822878


I just bought this brand-new mp3 player, it's an audiosolutions brand type deal, and I like it and all... it's just that for about half my songs, it only plays the beginning or maybe half of it. It's not on the "intro" setting, and most of the songs will play all the way through, but there's about 25 songs that will only play the first part.. the songs are all full when played on my computer, so I know it's the mp3 player, not the actual songs. I was just wondering if there was a way to fix it so, you know, everything works. Thanks so much in advance! (link)
Alright, I tried searching for the brand name, and it did not come up. Firstly, it would help if you gave us the model name or the model number, then we might point you to the right direction. Honestly, I believe that the mp3 player is faulty due to the fact that it's from a company that no one really knows. Either that, or your program that sends the mp3 files into your mp3 player is buggy, or it could be both. I suggest you get an mp3 player from a reliable company that people know.

These are just assumptions, since I really don't have enough information to legitimately answer your question.



Does anyone know of a website that has a mass comment generator so i can comment all my friends at once? (link)
It's most likely that there is not a "mass comment generator" on a website. Depending on how many people you want to send your comments to, it can take up a lot of bandwith. Something a website might not be able to handle due to other people that may use that "mass comment generator".

Even if there is such a thing, it probably is against the Terms of Service of whatever website you want to spam in (You're probably wanting to comment on myspace, but that's against their ToS)

Regardless of all that technical stuff, personally I believe you should send comments that are meaningful to each and every individual. That's probably how all YOUR friends comment you, right?




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