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Hey, I'm Vicki. I'm a married mom of 2 kids. I'm currently a full time college student (for the second time around). Within the year I hope to finish college and become a licensed funeral director/embalmer. This site has been a good escape for me so far. I love to give advice... even if you may not like it.
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Age: 24
Member Since: November 18, 2006
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I have a friend that had a child 1 year ago, and she is recently haveing unpretected sex for the past 2 weeks. She said that milk is comeing out of her breast and she is geting morning sickness. Me being a mother, that was my frist sign for me that i was pregnet. Someone told me that it it normal for mothers that after a year of haveing your child for milk to come out your breast. We also took a pregnacey test, and it said that she was not pregnet, but we were thinking that maybe it is to soon to tell.
What do you think??? thanks for the help.she is 17 yrs old by the way. (link)
Here is my brilliant advice. If you can't spell "pregnant" you shouldn't be having sex. For the record, it's not "normal" for a mom to produce milk a year after the baby is born unless they are still breastfeeding. Maybe your friend should be taking care of her child instead of going out and trying to make a new one.


I've recently started dating this great guy. The problem is, he's black and I'm white. I'm against racism to the full extent and so is my mom, but my dad and brother don't feel the same. I know they won't accept this guy and I'm afraid to bring him home. My dad will look down on me and I hate feeling bad for liking such an amazing guy. What am I supposed to do? (18/F) (link)
There is no easy answer to your dilemma. Love knows no boundary. If he truly is the amazing guy you say he is then you should bring him home and be proud of it. Let your dad and brother stew in their own hatred. I was in the same situation at your age. I now have a bi-racial daughter to show for it.


Okay my exboyfriend from like a year ago likes me again, I was the one who broke up with him in the first place. Well now that he likes me again or has finally admitted it, I realize i still like him too and that i never felt the same with any other guy i went out with. I went out with him for a year and a half or so and i broke up with him because of what my friends said he did. Then he went out with this girl that i hated and then he started to never talk to me because of this girl. Well they broke up a long time ago and now he says he wants me back, but i was reading a myspace comment or something from him to her and he was still saying that he loved her while he was saying that he "really loved me and he wanted me back so bad" well i thought he was telling the truth at first.. but i know that she is trying to make it so that we dont get out because she was the first one to get mad at him when he said he liked me, but she is trying to make me think bad things about him and i can tell by the way she talks... So what should i do? i WANT to go back out with him but then i dont want to! i have like no clue what is going on! all i know is that i like him again and someone is trying to make us not like each other! well i think thats all, sorry its long but thanks! ♥♥ (link)
If it smells like a loser, and it leaves MySpace comments like a loser, then it must in fact be a loser. If he's telling two girls at the same time that he loves them... something's not right in his tiny little brain. You answered your own question. You want to go back out with him, BUT YOU DON'T. That is the key phrase there. If you have any reason not to go back out with him, don't! Trust your insticts there. There are plenty of guys out there. Find a nicer guy. One that treats you the way you should be treated.


so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|

15/m (link)
Don't let this worry you so much. You're right, most guys (in the US anyway) are circumsized. Lucky for you the trend now is to not circumsize baby boys. It's more accepted than you might think. There's nothing that being uncircumsized will effect. To be honest, the conversation about uncircumsize vs. circumsized is brought up occassionally between some of my friends and myself... and no one cares. :)


ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right? (link)
No one can say for sure. The real question is, why does it matter?




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