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does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you.... (link)
unless theres an ver the couter type of thing i dont think there is any other way but the doctor. n im sure the only way to geet them is a doctor just for reasons that they will prolly ask the symptoms for how much u will need. i would feel worried to tell my parents too. keep off the drinking maybe inform a friend to help u out. but all u can do is really get help from a doctor. otherwise ther is not much left to do bu wait it out


I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
well dont jump to the conclusion that u r...i think maybe u might wanna just keep urself away from nething that may make u thinnk things..ur only really consiered suicidal if u actually try to kill urself.think possitive n try to keep ur mind off uv killing. maybe seeing sum type uv therapist..i no ur prolly thinkin u dunt wanna cuz itll involve ur parents...maybe a person thats not ur parent that trust that could help u out may be good. try nething to keep ur mind off uv it. till ur sure ur not a suicidal person


I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do????? (link)
that interesting...an obsession with mowing the lawn..u sure ur not wering those new jeans from the comercial?? lol okay well how bout u start a service so u can mow lawns just not ur own....dont werry urself over mowing lawns im sure its only a fase??


ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!! (link)
well at this age you shouldnt but if you really feel that way about sumbody thn maybe u should think it over. if the reason of being pregnnant is holding u back thats understandable. ther is such things as a condom n if you guys so have sex u can always get tested


im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down... (link)
dont werry about it find sumthin else do to but cut...lke find sumthing else u can cut besides u. on the other hand maybe u should tell ur bf. just to let him no n im sure he can understand that ur hopefully gunna try to quit that habit. because meny times it can only get werse


What iif yur best friend likes the sayme kid as yu do!?! whta do yu do0? im so0 confused riight now! i made out with this kid last night nd so0- did she!!!!...uhh ii dont no but she went to his house 2day nd who nos wuht! i new him for such a long time 2!! - he wanted to get wiht me so0 mii other friend who was there hooked us up! but i was getin tired nd didnt feel to good so0 mii bess friend went nd made out with him right after me! :( ... i dont no wut to doO! uhhh sum1 plz help me i rate good!!!! thanx
...Me... (link)
aww sounds sucky duz ur friend know u liek him too? confrunt this guy n ask him to go out with u ((as long as its okay with ur friend)) i mean thers not really much rong with sharing..lol me and my friend did it for a while. werk sumthingout between u and ur friend ull find out a way to compramize


I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help! (link)
that could be the reason but its prolly cuz u put it in the rong way...wow wat with ppl askin these freeky questions neways??


well ok. this is gunna sound stupid at some parts! but im soo mad at my boyfriend becuz in his AIM info it says..

Jackie- Your Awesome Gurl-Very Sexy
Nina- Your a Great Girl- Very Sexy
Brad- Sexiest Mofo Alive- Very Very VERY sexy!
Rachael- (shes my best friend btw) Your Pretty Kool- Very Sexy
Heather- Your Good To Talk To- Sexy

then at the very very very bottom of his info which is like 9348 spaces down.. says

Amy- I Love You- Very Very Sexy

I told him it makes me mad when he has these chicks in his info.. like callen em sexy n stuff and he responded with a " im allowed " it made me SO mad, as u can tell im a very jealous girlfriend, i jus dunno what ta do.. Please help!! I need it.. (*i rate high*)

AMy* (link)
amy i say u seriously might wanna take charge cuz if ur boi is gunna sound that way n say heez aloud maybe he aint for u. tell him AGAIN that u dunt like him having uther girls with comments suck as sexy next to them put on his pro. n then get ur name up near tha top cuz if its at the bottom n heez got uther girls abuv u it must show heez a total ass. ide kik my boi to the curb if he was gunna act that way to me


me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now in a few days and i cant wait!! but he always buys me things and sometimes i feel bad and dont know what to do about it because he spends alot of money on me...how should i deal with it
>>hopeless>> (link)
my boifriend can be the same way. buying things for me n i feel bad too because i no i cant buy things for him back...ull hopefully get over it till then enjoy the fact that he gets things for u. btu if it bothers u that much talk to him n make sure he understands how u feel bout it. utherwise i really have nuthing to say its not sumthin u can really fix


What do you get guys for gifts???? (link)
its always hard to find sumthing for a guy i no!!! umma stuffed animal is good lol i no its corney but so far no guy has complained to me. maybe like a chain or a silly insidejoke kind of gift is good


if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing. (link)
well it depends on the person.plus orgasims can be a good thing if you have then im sure your able to tell the person. i cant imagine sumone making fun uv you for it but if they do just ignore them


i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating. (link)
i think you should go to the doctor for that, that could be a very bad illness. specially if you have a fever with vaginal pains.




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